Have you ever felt real lonely even in a room packed with people?

Why is this, and how do you stop yourself feeling this way?
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[This message was edited Fri Feb 14 2:29:17 PST 2003 by katt]

katt said:

teers of a clown

i

have

indeed

Funnily enough yes-then I met Savage, RedFeathers, Col, Mellow, Delores, Unique etc and had a brilliant time. If U were only there 2 Katt...my friend

Oh yes katt!!! Many a time


I never stop feeling myself though

tend 2 feel lonely when they b a lot of ppl around... am betta @ 1 on 1 situations...more intimate...more relaxed...but then again...i am a with a big mouth...so just bust n2 conversation wheneva c the need

Definitely. Often. I never really feel like I fit in anywhere, I guess, and that is a lonely feeling.

I wish I knew why, and how to stop feeling that way.

JDINTERACTIVE said:

Awww JD you are the best!

u must know

with the amount of time we spend here

this is lonlyville baby

Share your feelings with the people you are with... then you will be being open with yourself and they will be with the 'you' that you are at that time and you with them. That will hopefully help you all to bond, too.

SnowQueen said:

i've felt that way too sometimes

that's damn near all the time with me...

life is indeed a lonely proposition no kidding

we can dance the dance but the mind is so solitary

and u seldom if ever find the kind of mind who sees u

eye for eye


seldom not never



snowqueen

i owe u a song



soon

promise

Handclapsfingasnapz said:

I am coming to the Celly, and you and I some of the other girls are gonna go out to dinner... OK...

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[This message was edited Fri Feb 7 16:14:14 PST 2003 by katt]

im gonna do a song for u katt

that will cheer u up (i hope)

katt said:

I think we all have those days.

The org can be that way.

We all share these feelings...usually though, we put ourselves in that mode.

shausler said:[quote]

and u seldom if ever find the kind of mind who sees u

eye for eye :[quote]

sparxxxtresss said:

Thanks, sparxxxtresss.

sag10 said:

Whoo hoo!

More often than I'd like to admit...sometimes it just aches...it's an empty ache.

There's not really a fool-proof remedy for loneliness, but I'd say that talking to loved ones helps me.

katt said:

Yes, constantly. Most people are fony, i'd rather be alone most of the time, but it does get quite lonely not having an outlet for interesting conversation.

katt said:

Yes, almost always. I wish I knew how to stop feeling this way. I used to think coming to the org would help, unfortunately sometimes it just makes it worse.
I don't fit in anywhere, never have and probably never will.
If I killed myself today, it would take at least two weeks for anyone to notice, maybe longer. (Well, my cat screaming to be fed might give it away, but I would make arrangements for her before hand.) The only time I'm around the same people is at school and none of them are friends or anything.
Nobody cares, never have, probably never will. I don't even know why I bother anymore.

CandyEyce said:

I truly know exactly how you feel, CandyEyce.

I wish I knew how to give you comfort. OrgNote me if you ever want someone to talk with...

Sometimes when I'm in a club an overwhelming feeling of loneliness creeps into me. I don't know what it is, all these people are dancing and the music is playing loud, yet I feel alone and sad.



Duck The Edit
[This message was edited Sat Feb 8 1:37:11 PST 2003 by Biscuit]

katt said:

when you find that you're lonely no matter where you may be
then it is time to reexamin whut it is you're seeking.

I have rarely had to suffer the feeling of being truly alone. Oh sure, there were nights when I had nothing to do, and wished someone called me to go out and do something fun, but fortunately, I have been blessed with many friends. So I don't entirely know what all of you are feeling. But I will say this:

I remember very well, New Year's 2000, I was by myself at home. That was a HUGE thing (of course), and I celebrated it with nobody. When the clock hit midnight, I just layed on my couch, blank, regretful. It was a very sad and lonely point and time in my life. That year was a hard one.

But it's when we're alone that we truly learn who we are, and when we learn who we are, we are more open to others, and when we are more open to others, we understand others, and when we understand others, we befriend others.

Solitudes: A Guide to the Self. It's an important read. It teaches us, that time by ourselves is truly every bit as important as time with others.

Please, nobody feel lonely. Wanna send an org note to me, about anything, no matter what it is, feel free to do so. I guarantee you I'll reply.
[This message was edited Sat Feb 8 2:43:35 PST 2003 by savoirfaire]

What is the difference between feeling lonely and feeling blue?