I wanna know why you don't show any love for a good woman.

Let me elaborate.

I and KidaDynamite have been mulling it around, and we were wondering why is it men don't (or can't) make it work with good women, but rather, end up marrying or hooking up with women who don't give a rat's ass about them.

There are some good, caring women out there. With beauty, brains, class, the whole shebang. Women who got their own but have a lot to offer and a lot to give. And yet, men never pick up on any of these things. Especially those men for whom our hearts beat for.

And now all we want to know is...

WHY!?

There is going to be a lot of female orgers who are married/in relationships that are going to take real offense to this thread.

I'm talking about women who are single, not those who already found somebody.

This is an honest question. I'd like to hear the answers, if there are any.

JustErin said:

There is going to be a lot of female orgers who are married/in relationships that are going to take real offense to this thread.

I was just about to say I thought men married plain janes, and there you were!

JustErin said:

There is going to be a lot of female orgers who are married/in relationships that are going to take real offense to this thread.

Why would they take offense if it doesn't apply to them...why would anyone take offense?

She's not talking about ALL men. Just speaking from experiences and of what we've seen.

What each sex really means.

WOMEN

In all honesty, I think there are just as many men out there searching for true love as women.

Barely educated consumers with too much free time that we've become has lead us

to discussing such matters online rather than face-to-face with actual people.

But, I do think that women pre-judge each other far too harshly, so you're bound to hear

girls chatter about how so-and-so dude is married to the most haneous bitch on earth...

when in fact they don't know anything about the woman other than she's thrown them

shade once or twice.

Some of the most 'not-good' women out there are actually kind of sweet.

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My wife often asks me why I don't go and find one of those good women just like you describe. Actually, my mother-in-law says the same.

What my father-in-law says I can't repeat here 'cause it's all kinds of wrong.

I always show love for a good, hard-working woman who keeps herself together, especially the ones who aren't interested in getting hitched.

It seems that you are doing something that is limiting your potential and making a falsified generalization (2 a certain degree) is your way of releasing frustration.

You are in control of your life and how you display your personality.

Why not ask women the same question. I don t think this issue is gender specific. Sounds like you ve got a complaint against men.

Actually, this video can explain my position on this far better...

The only thing that might annoy me more than my wife not being that 'good woman' I say I want her to be would be my wife actually being that 'good woman' I say I want her to be.

I want all those 'good women' as friends.

NDRU said:

JustErin said:

There is going to be a lot of female orgers who are married/in relationships that are going to take real offense to this thread.

I was just about to say I thought men married plain janes, and there you were!

oh they find them. use and abuse them, talk about them like dogs and laugh with their friends about them later.

Stop being wack and youll find a dude who will like you. I dont settle for lame ass girls who do nothing with themselves and have no talents/hobbys. Find out what it is about you thats attracting lame ass men.

SherryJackson said:

I'm talking about women who are single, not those who already found somebody.

This is an honest question. I'd like to hear the answers, if there are any.

How can you be talking about single women when your gripe is that men do not marry "good" women?

NDRU said:

JustErin said:

There is going to be a lot of female orgers who are married/in relationships that are going to take real offense to this thread.

I was just about to say I thought men married plain janes, and there you were!

Plain Janes can be good women, just plain good ones!

KidaDynamite said:

JustErin said:

There is going to be a lot of female orgers who are married/in relationships that are going to take real offense to this thread.

Why would they take offense if it doesn't apply to them...why would anyone take offense?

How can they not?

She claimed that "men don't (or can't) make it work with good women, but rather, end up marrying or hooking up with women who don't give a rat's ass about them."

Um....ok then.

i'm married woman & cheezed off by this shitty assumption! fucking hell what a liberty!

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Eh.

I'm afraid, my friends, I've made some bad generalizations. Moment of frustration I guess.

Mods, y'all can this now...

Erin, my final say to you would be I wrote this because these are observations Kida and I noticed with men men in our lives (w/ some exceptions). I don't mean to insult or piss off women in meaningful relationships.

SherryJackson said:

I wanna know why you don't show any love for a good woman.

Let me elaborate.

I and KidaDynamite have been mulling it around, and we were wondering why is it men don't (or can't) make it work with good women, but rather, end up marrying or hooking up with women who don't give a rat's ass about them.

There are some good, caring women out there. With beauty, brains, class, the whole shebang. Women who got their own but have a lot to offer and a lot to give. And yet, men never pick up on any of these things. Especially those men for whom our hearts beat for.

And now all we want to know is...

WHY!?

Does such a woman even exist anymore? If so, and if I found her, I would marry her and build her an alter.

I guess you have to ask yourself what kind of guy are you attractive to?

Also, do you go seeking a different type of guy and ignore the "good" type of guy that you say you want?

kewlschool said:

I guess you have to ask yourself what kind of guy are you attractive to?

Also, do you go seeking a different type of guy and ignore the "good" type of guy that you say you want?

Idk what guys see when they look at me.

I don't think I ignore the good ones. Only main criteria that attract a guy for me is a fun loving personality, and good sense of humour. There more, but usually if I guy can keep my interest for more than 15 minutes, I usually am willing to give them a chance.

JustErin said:

SherryJackson said:

I wanna know why you don't show any love for a good woman.

Let me elaborate.

I and KidaDynamite have been mulling it around, and we were wondering why is it men don't (or can't) make it work with good women, but rather, end up marrying or hooking up with women who don't give a rat's ass about them.

There are some good, caring women out there. With beauty, brains, class, the whole shebang. Women who got their own but have a lot to offer and a lot to give. And yet, men never pick up on any of these things. Especially those men for whom our hearts beat for.

And now all we want to know is...

WHY!?

Has that been communicated 2 the man?

SherryJackson said:

I don't mean to insult or piss off women in meaningful relationships.

I in no way was/am pissed off nor insulted

But you know, us plain jane, married women ...

Ive kinda gotten over that "need a man" "want a man" mindset

If some guy doesnt want me, i truely do not give a rats ass.

Its millons of guys out there , i can find another.

kewlschool said:

uuuuhwhat?