I hate it in the dark, I have a special fuck-lamp

ZombieKitten said:

Serious said:

ZombieKitten said:

I hate it in the dark, I have a special fuck-lamp

What kind of light does it give?

i'm guessing it's a blue light

[Edited 4/17/11 5:18am]

Serious said:

ZombieKitten said:

it depends who im with at that time?if she has some nice underwear on & a sexy bra then eye want 2 look at it & look at her in it.i tend 2 do it with the tv on & all the lights off so u get that sexy silhouette look, now that is sexy.i guess if ur outside on a hot summers day turning the lights off could b abit difficult??

IL, you on another thread said that you enjoyed receiving head when you were high, and now you say lights off....perhaps you should look into your self image issues which are holding you back from enjoying making love

ZombieKitten said:

Serious said:

What kind of light does it give?

Soft diffused. It's a ribbed porcelain lamp from IKEA

Is it listed in the catalogue as a 'special fuck-lamp' cos it sounds like something I should invest in

Depends how im feeling. also how the person your with makes you feel! if the man your with makes you feel hot keep the lights on i say! but if he makes me feel hes not that in2 me the darker the better!

I prefer lighting like a lava lamp or some sort of colored light. However, when I first pull a motherfucker's dick out, there's going to be some lights on and if they aren't, I will even strike my lighter because I want to see what I'm getting and I want to get a real good look because seeing is half the thrill.

Ninja said:

Depends how im feeling. also how the person your with makes you feel! if the man your with makes you feel hot keep the lights on i say! but if he makes me feel hes not that in2 me the darker the better!

no electricity at ur place then!!!!!!!!!!!

Ninja said:

if he makes me feel hes not that in2 me the darker the better!

Why would you be with someone who makes you feel that way?

xpertluva said:

ZombieKitten said:

I hate it in the dark, I have a special fuck-lamp

this is why i love you.

xpertluva said:

Ninja said:

if he makes me feel hes not that in2 me the darker the better!

Why would you be with someone who makes you feel that wc

coz i love him and he isnt always that way! been seein him for a while now. He was very romantic in the beginning and made me feel very special but he has changed over time.

Ninja said:

If we are parked, I'll turn the headlights off.

Mach said:

This mid morning it was sunny in the bedroom

I can do lights any level or off ~ inside ~ outside

day night noon midnight

sunlight moonlight candle light flood light

yeah ~ pretty much ~ "light" doesn't matter to me

InternationalLover82 said:

Mach said:

This mid morning it was sunny in the bedroom

I can do lights any level or off ~ inside ~ outside

day night noon midnight

sunlight moonlight candle light flood light

yeah ~ pretty much ~ "light" doesn't matter to me

Early morning light is good : D.

I spent a few moments thinking about how I felt at a much younger age ( how old are you ? ) ...

In my early 20's I felt much the same as I do now about lighting ...

one of my most vivid "lighting" memories from that time was

A full moon ~ a balnket of fresh snow and a large circle of caldles out side ... and 2 warm blankets

it was a magical snowy outside sex adventure

InternationalLover82 said:

BlackAdder7 said:

IL, you on another thread said that you enjoyed receiving head when you were high, and now you say lights off....perhaps you should look into your self image issues which are holding you back from enjoying making love

Having the lights on sucks. It kind of ruins the mood I think, and it takes some extra off... Plus if your partner don't feel secure and at eas, about, say, her/his body, she/he won't be in to it that much ...

99% of the time I do it with the lights off : Not seeing things spice up the atmosphere, and it's definitly a plus for the "tactile" and those who loves caressing/being caressed, all your senses (except the sight) are working efficiently...

InternationalLover82 said:

BlackAdder7 said:

IL, you on another thread said that you enjoyed receiving head when you were high, and now you say lights off....perhaps you should look into your self image issues which are holding you back from enjoying making love

That's true, I'm self conscious I guess

You're still a youngin'. Don't stress. Chances are good you'll still be discovering and changing for years to, uhh... come.

FrenchGuy said:

Cerebus said:

InternationalLover82 said:

That's true, I'm self conscious I guess

You're still a youngin'. Don't stress. Chances are good you'll still be discovering and changing for years to, uhh... come.

of course .Dim light is good though, I didn't mean I liked pitch black

Cerebus said:

InternationalLover82 said:

That's true, I'm self conscious I guess

You're still a youngin'. Don't stress. Chances are good you'll still be discovering and changing for years to, uhh... come.

Exactly ~ I woud guess blackadder7 was not the "confident healthy self image sex partner " in his youth either

Serious said:

InternationalLover82 said:

Early morning light is good : D.

I don't care about the light, I don't like doing anything in the early morning, not even having sex.

3 am - 9 am is my fave time for sex BUT anytime is good too

I REALLY like a bang to end each day with a bang to begin each day ~ that's great sex for me

only thing that would better that would be a lunch bang just for fucks sake

bang edit

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Mach said:

Serious said:

FrenchGuy said:

Having the lights on sucks. It kind of ruins the mood I think, and it takes some extra off... Plus if your partner don't feel secure and at eas, about, say, her/his body, she/he won't be in to it that much ...

99% of the time I do it with the lights off : Not seeing things spice up the atmosphere, and it's definitly a plus for the "tactile" and those who loves caressing/being caressed, all your senses (except the sight) are working efficiently...

Are you talking about totally dark? I want to see my partner...

not totally, just a very very sof light, like a TV or a computer screen on (with the sound off, of course) or city lights through the windows... Not more.

FrenchGuy said: