Have you stop to think that Tyra has a point? Human attraction is natural, but it takes more than that. Look at Halle Berry for an example. Very attractive woman, but been through a lot of failed relationships and all. Something is wrong with her, and you know what? She admitted having a mouth on her, and having abandonment issues. I read this awhile back, and wish I could think of where I read it. Look at all the vile stuff she said to her baby father. If she can work on her mouth, then she can have a meaningful relationship. | |
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Women are never going to fully understand men, no matter how hard they try. That said, not every man is going to think the same or make the same decisions as another. You have to weed through the rotten apples to find an edible one. Their outward appearance may not reflect who they really are as a man, as well. Taking time to peel back the layers may prove beneficial to see a person's true colours -- for the good, and the bad. Also, people change with age and personal experiences. The jerk/player who was a hot mess in college, could turn out to be a caring, family man in his 30s.
You cannot blame a man for whom he chooses to take into his heart, marriage or not. People have their reasons for everything they do -- and although some may prove to be snakes in the grass, doing things out of vanity or otherwise, alot are not. What people percieve in the outside world may not be what goes on in the home or relationship. You cannot so quickly assume that just because you do not deem a woman fit for a particular man, they should feel the same. No one can say whether someone gives a "rat's ass" or not -- because they are not coming from the mind, heart, or soul of the other person in question.
You beautiful and intelligent, though in your early 20s, the likelyhood of finding your Prince Charming is going to be slim. Enjoy life and enjoy your youth. When the right man comes around, you'll know. I do nothing professionally. I only do things for fun. johnart: Acrylic's old bras is where tits of all sizes go to frolic after they die. Tit Heaven. | |
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prince charming is likely to turn up when you are in your 40s and married already so don't even stress about it now, you have plenty of time! | |
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You're both right. I know it takes time for these young bucks to mature up. Currently, my infatuation of sorts is with an older man. I mean in his 30's. He's single, mature, brilliant, and hardworking. He also happens to be super adorable. I admire him a lot, and he seems to be fond of me. Just I wouldn't know how to approach the topic. It's all very complicated. But hey, I'd settle for good friends if nothing else can come of it.
I appreciate the advice. And Mrs. Kitten, is that how you met your Prince charming? | |
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What yo name is? I don't want you to think like me. I just want you to think. | |
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Sounds like your age is the problem. Guys you're age aren't likely quite looking to settle down. In a few years they may circle back to you. You could probably find an older husband, still in his 20's who'd be likely ready to work on something leading to long term. Sounds like you're just ready before your peers. Someone has to be first. I don't want you to think like me. I just want you to think. | |
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I met the love of my life in a public library. We were 14 years apart and became best friends. I don't want you to think like me. I just want you to think. | |
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I'm happy for you, Suprman! | |
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I understand what you're saying, as Halle had problems in the long-term with her men after years of being with them, which could have been as a result of her personality, but that is not the aspect of romantic relationships I was referring to. I was talking about the primary, "just met" attraction stage that is being discussed, as I stated. That part, at least, has worked out pretty well for her, lol. Like I said, maintenance of a relationship that is able to start is a totally different issue. "You put water into a cup, it becomes the cup...Now water can flow or it can crash. Be water, my friend." - Bruce Lee
"Water can nourish me, but water can also carry me. Water has magic laws." - JCVD | |
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I'm just kidding around :-P SherryJackson said:
Yous two
You're both right. I know it takes time for these young bucks to mature up. Currently, my infatuation of sorts is with an older man. I mean in his 30's. He's single, mature, brilliant, and hardworking. He also happens to be super adorable. I admire him a lot, and he seems to be fond of me. Just I wouldn't know how to approach the topic. It's all very complicated. But hey, I'd settle for good friends if nothing else can come of it.
I appreciate the advice. And Mrs. Kitten, is that how you met your Prince charming? | |
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Oh yeah, folks are going to put their best foot forward to impress you | |
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generalization (noun): an idea or statement about all of the members of a group or all the instances of a situation
A link to this thread should forever be included with all definitions of that word.
And so should that other one.
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i liked this forum better when it was less sanctimonious. everyone's a fruit & nut case | |
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Word.
Five syllables even. | |
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