And it's not a case of one looking hotter than the other.

OK.

There's this young man that now works at this coffee shop I go to frequently called "The Cup" here.

He's beautiful. And when I say, beautiful, I mean that he's basically adonis. I normally consider tats unsightly and depending on that tat, gay as hell. But the ones he wears are beautiful.

The guy is just pyshically perfect in every way possible.

...and that gets on my ever lasting nerves.

Why?

Because every female within 5 kilometers of here is in love with him. I can tell by the way they look at him, by the whispers they give each other as the approach they place--they giggle, they whisper in each other's ears, they are just mesmerized by him.

They hangout at the bar of the coffee shop, often pretending to chat on their cellphones--I strongly suspect some even snap photos of him.

A few, in particular, hangout every day, and have made it a habbit of talking to him. I can tell from their eyes that each one feels like they have this 'thing' with him. This flirtatious relationship that is developing.

One girl in particular spens up to an hour at a time there, sitting at the bar chit chatting with him. He's very polite about it---he makes everyone feel like they are special. He's charming, and funny, and ....well...perfect.

I believe the female-to-male ratio of customers must be 70-30% now

I haven't the heart to tell them he's gay.

It's sort of like the relationship genesia and johnart have. I haven't the heart to tell her how desperate it all looks.

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[Edited 3/26/11 15:40pm]