"Old enough to be your FATHER!!!"

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AnotherLover2 said:

Quite honestly, I wasn't even thinking of you when I replied to Lavish's post. I was thinking of the men I referred to earlier. I didn't assume or generalize about anything to do with you and your women. But you got defensive, so I thought I'd ask you about it. End O Story.

Defensive?..because I made a comment that expressed how I thought ones thoughts were misguided on a subject? It automatically means defensiveness etc? Okay lol.

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Reply #61 posted 02/05/03 11:06pm

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AnotherLover2 said:

rdhull said:

AnotherLover2 said:

rdhull said:

well last time it was wrong to say that men only wanted to get them drawers --thats why they dated, dinner etc...but that was wrong..now men only date older women to get sex...see the oddness to this? Seems like men cant win one way or anotherlover I mean another lol.

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[This message was edited Wed Feb 5 22:48:49 PST 2003 by rdhull]

I didn't say that, actually. I said it was pathetic for men to "expect" sex if they bought dinner. You're twisting it and attempting to pick another fight.

Ok then I was wrong in my interpretation. Sorry. But its just as pathetric to think that men only date older women for sex too then

Go back to my original post--I said I think (not "know" or "believe") that younger men tend to (not "always") view it as a sex-only relationship.

Same thing Geez..now we have to get into semantics about this? lol...okay you win.

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Reply #62 posted 02/05/03 11:08pm

rdhull said:

AnotherLover2 said:

Defensive?..because I made a comment that expressed how I thought ones thoughts were misguided on a subject? It automatically means defensiveness etc? Okay lol.

"wrong, and a sweeping, insulting generalization"

Yep, that sounded a bit more than what a non-defensive person would say...the word "insulting" was the key, imo smile

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Reply #63 posted 02/05/03 11:09pm

mistermaxxx

rdhull said:

mistermaxxx said:

I've dated Older Ladies&Age wasn't a issueat all nor tastes,things were cool.

Did she like Madonna?

yeah a little.I was with a Older Beautiful Lady who was a Huge Michael Jackson Fan.Now She was a Huge Fan.I got MJ Music&Books but Oh Girl had a MJ Room.She had a Big Crib&had a Whole Room Enshrined to Him.She got Mad at Me back in 95 because I sensed that MJ&Lisa Marie were done&She took what I said Personal.but sure enough 5 months later they were done.we still cool but things cooled off after that exchange.but anyway She was a Fantastic Lady as were the other 3 Older Ladies I was with during different times.

mistermaxxx

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Reply #64 posted 02/05/03 11:10pm

rdhull said:

AnotherLover2 said:

rdhull said:

AnotherLover2 said:

rdhull said:

I didn't say that, actually. I said it was pathetic for men to "expect" sex if they bought dinner. You're twisting it and attempting to pick another fight.

Ok then I was wrong in my interpretation. Sorry. But its just as pathetric to think that men only date older women for sex too then

Go back to my original post--I said I think (not "know" or "believe") that younger men tend to (not "always") view it as a sex-only relationship.

Same thing Geez..now we have to get into semantics about this? lol...okay you win.

I'll only get into semantics about it when you misquote me, or when you attribute intentions to me that my words clearly show wasn't the case.

No, no "winning" here. 'Member, that's playing the victim! lol

Again, I say: lighten up, fella! You havin' your period? lol

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Reply #65 posted 02/05/03 11:14pm

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AnotherLover2 said:

rdhull said:

AnotherLover2 said:

Defensive?..because I made a comment that expressed how I thought ones thoughts were misguided on a subject? It automatically means defensiveness etc? Okay lol.

"wrong, and a sweeping, insulting generalization"

Yep, that sounded a bit more than what a non-defensive person would say...the word "insulting" was the key, imo smile

Insulting to the male species only wanting " easy pussy" as you stated in so many terms in general..not perosnally..just like you didnt like the datig and dinner means only to get the drawers a few weeks ago...gawd.

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Reply #66 posted 02/05/03 11:16pm

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AnotherLover2 said:

rdhull said:

AnotherLover2 said:

rdhull said:

AnotherLover2 said:

rdhull said:

I didn't say that, actually. I said it was pathetic for men to "expect" sex if they bought dinner. You're twisting it and attempting to pick another fight.

Ok then I was wrong in my interpretation. Sorry. But its just as pathetric to think that men only date older women for sex too then

Go back to my original post--I said I think (not "know" or "believe") that younger men tend to (not "always") view it as a sex-only relationship.

Same thing Geez..now we have to get into semantics about this? lol...okay you win.

Again, I say: lighten up, fella! You havin' your period? lol

"Lighten up" as if Im the one upset becaue I simply said generalization etc?..okay

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Reply #67 posted 02/05/03 11:17pm

rdhull said

This is hilarious--the guy who was saying "that's just how guys are" (expecting pussy with dinner) and telling me I can't handle the truth and just want fairy tales is now saying men are really much deeper than that... smile

[This message was edited Wed Feb 5 23:18:13 PST 2003 by AnotherLover2]

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Reply #68 posted 02/05/03 11:19pm

rdhull said:

AnotherLover2 said:

rdhull said:

AnotherLover2 said:

rdhull said:

AnotherLover2 said:

rdhull said:

I didn't say that, actually. I said it was pathetic for men to "expect" sex if they bought dinner. You're twisting it and attempting to pick another fight.

Ok then I was wrong in my interpretation. Sorry. But its just as pathetric to think that men only date older women for sex too then

Go back to my original post--I said I think (not "know" or "believe") that younger men tend to (not "always") view it as a sex-only relationship.

Same thing Geez..now we have to get into semantics about this? lol...okay you win.

Again, I say: lighten up, fella! You havin' your period? lol

"Lighten up" as if Im the one upset becaue I simply said generalization etc?..okay

C'mon, Sugar Britches, you know I can go all night with this... rolleyes

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Reply #69 posted 02/05/03 11:20pm

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AnotherLover2 said:

rdhull said

isn't it a crazy world we live in? lol

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Reply #70 posted 02/05/03 11:21pm

rdhull said:

AnotherLover2 said:

rdhull said

isn't it a crazy world we live in? lol

Absolutely! big grin

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Reply #71 posted 02/05/03 11:22pm

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AnotherLover2 said:

rdhull said:

AnotherLover2 said:

rdhull said:

AnotherLover2 said:

rdhull said:

AnotherLover2 said:

rdhull said:

I didn't say that, actually. I said it was pathetic for men to "expect" sex if they bought dinner. You're twisting it and attempting to pick another fight.

Ok then I was wrong in my interpretation. Sorry. But its just as pathetric to think that men only date older women for sex too then

Go back to my original post--I said I think (not "know" or "believe") that younger men tend to (not "always") view it as a sex-only relationship.

Same thing Geez..now we have to get into semantics about this? lol...okay you win.

Again, I say: lighten up, fella! You havin' your period? lol

"Lighten up" as if Im the one upset becaue I simply said generalization etc?..okay

C'mon, Sugar Britches, you know I can go all night with this... rolleyes

[This message was edited Wed Feb 5 23:19:44 PST 2003 by AnotherLover2]

You sure are formidable!phew,,, rolleyes

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Reply #72 posted 02/05/03 11:25pm

rdhull said:

AnotherLover2 said:

rdhull said:

AnotherLover2 said:

rdhull said:

AnotherLover2 said:

rdhull said:

AnotherLover2 said:

rdhull said:

I didn't say that, actually. I said it was pathetic for men to "expect" sex if they bought dinner. You're twisting it and attempting to pick another fight.

Ok then I was wrong in my interpretation. Sorry. But its just as pathetric to think that men only date older women for sex too then

Go back to my original post--I said I think (not "know" or "believe") that younger men tend to (not "always") view it as a sex-only relationship.

Same thing Geez..now we have to get into semantics about this? lol...okay you win.

Again, I say: lighten up, fella! You havin' your period? lol

"Lighten up" as if Im the one upset becaue I simply said generalization etc?..okay

C'mon, Sugar Britches, you know I can go all night with this... rolleyes

[This message was edited Wed Feb 5 23:19:44 PST 2003 by AnotherLover2]

You sure are formidable!phew,,, rolleyes

I know I don't need to be anything near "formidable" to get your sweet lil panties in a twist! wink

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Reply #73 posted 02/05/03 11:25pm

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mistermaxxx said:

rdhull said:

mistermaxxx said:

I've dated Older Ladies&Age wasn't a issueat all nor tastes,things were cool.

Did she like Madonna?

and this was an "older" woman..how old were you when u dated her..5?

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Reply #74 posted 02/05/03 11:28pm

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AnotherLover2 said:

rdhull said:

AnotherLover2 said:

rdhull said:

AnotherLover2 said:

rdhull said:

AnotherLover2 said:

rdhull said:

AnotherLover2 said:

rdhull said:

I didn't say that, actually. I said it was pathetic for men to "expect" sex if they bought dinner. You're twisting it and attempting to pick another fight.

Ok then I was wrong in my interpretation. Sorry. But its just as pathetric to think that men only date older women for sex too then

Go back to my original post--I said I think (not "know" or "believe") that younger men tend to (not "always") view it as a sex-only relationship.

Same thing Geez..now we have to get into semantics about this? lol...okay you win.

Again, I say: lighten up, fella! You havin' your period? lol

"Lighten up" as if Im the one upset becaue I simply said generalization etc?..okay

C'mon, Sugar Britches, you know I can go all night with this... rolleyes

[This message was edited Wed Feb 5 23:19:44 PST 2003 by AnotherLover2]

You sure are formidable!phew,,, rolleyes

I know I don't need to be anything near "formidable" to get your sweet lil panties in a twist! wink

yeah.. I guess I'll be orgnoting you upset about it heh..iron drawers

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[This message was edited Wed Feb 5 23:29:23 PST 2003 by rdhull]

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Reply #75 posted 02/05/03 11:31pm

rdhull said:

C'mon, Sugar Britches, you know I can go all night with this... rolleyes

[This message was edited Wed Feb 5 23:19:44 PST 2003 by AnotherLover2]

You sure are formidable!phew,,, rolleyes

yeah.. I guess I'll be orgnoting you upset about it heh..iron drawers

I know I don't need to be anything near "formidable" to get your sweet lil panties in a twist! wink

Naw, you wouldn't do that cause you expect anything and everything on a public forum...

This reminds me of getting my pigtails/ponytail pulled on the school bus by the annoying little boys... mad

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Reply #76 posted 02/05/03 11:38pm

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AnotherLover2 said:

rdhull said:

C'mon, Sugar Britches, you know I can go all night with this... rolleyes

[This message was edited Wed Feb 5 23:19:44 PST 2003 by AnotherLover2]

You sure are formidable!phew,,, rolleyes

yeah.. I guess I'll be orgnoting you upset about it heh..iron drawers

I know I don't need to be anything near "formidable" to get your sweet lil panties in a twist! wink

Naw, you wouldn't do that cause you expect anything and everything on a public forum...

This reminds me of getting my pigtails/ponytail pulled on the school bus by the annoying little boys... mad

[This message was edited Wed Feb 5 23:33:26 PST 2003 by AnotherLover2]

The Victim-The Movie-Part 2..coming to a theater right now

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Reply #77 posted 02/05/03 11:39pm

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tommyalma said:

IstenSzek said:

Ok, let me spill the beens then. I was convinced that dude
was 29 [I was 22 at the time], so I figured it would be ok.
But he kept telling me he was older, a lot older. Yet, I
refused to believe it.

Untill he showed me his passport: 39

:O

So I was like "ehm, well, thank u for a funky time, but ehm
please DON'T call me up whenever u wanna grind".

I've seen him about three times since then, and right now
he's got a boyfriend who's 17!!!

That's just nasty.

Wow. Do you just hang out with older guys that age? Or work with guys that age? Do you hang out with your dad?

Not really, no. I usually hang out with people my own age.
Or a few years older. But not "midlife-crisis" old heheh.

The thing is I wasn't into dating someone so much older, it
was a little mistake due to my incredible naïve attitude
and the fact that the guy looked somewhat younger than the
average 39 year old. But still...

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Reply #78 posted 02/05/03 11:41pm

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violett said:

does having a serious crush on someone whos 9 years older count??

does it?

I wonder how old Andy Garcia is...?

smile

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Reply #79 posted 02/05/03 11:43pm

rdhull said:

AnotherLover2 said:

rdhull said:

C'mon, Sugar Britches, you know I can go all night with this... rolleyes

[This message was edited Wed Feb 5 23:19:44 PST 2003 by AnotherLover2]

You sure are formidable!phew,,, rolleyes

yeah.. I guess I'll be orgnoting you upset about it heh..iron drawers

I know I don't need to be anything near "formidable" to get your sweet lil panties in a twist! wink

Naw, you wouldn't do that cause you expect anything and everything on a public forum...

This reminds me of getting my pigtails/ponytail pulled on the school bus by the annoying little boys... mad

[This message was edited Wed Feb 5 23:33:26 PST 2003 by AnotherLover2]

The Victim-The Movie-Part 2..coming to a theater right now

You take me way more seriously than is good for your health, rdhull! lol

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Reply #80 posted 02/05/03 11:45pm

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AaronUnlimited said:

well, we didn't date exactly...

let's just say when i met him in the best buy bathroom, i was shocked at how much he looked like my college calculus professor

I actually met one of my former teachers in a gay bar last
year. He nearly had a heart-attack and kept on pestering me
all nite not to tell anyone. "I'm really Bi, you know".

So I was like "How many free drinks does that spell?"

evillol

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Reply #81 posted 02/05/03 11:48pm

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theC said:

I dated someone 7 tears older than me. I was 21 and she was 28. I also dated someone 7 years younger than me. I was 35 and she was 28. I normally keep it within 3 years and i not into the R Kelley thing so don't start.

I don't know, I think it's quite tricky for guys in America
since it seems [from watching telly anyway] that most girls
in the US look a lot more grown up and adult at 14 than the
girls over here in Europe.

I mean, often enough you're watching some talkshow or a docu
and you're thinking "she's what, like, 25?" and then they
turn out to be 13 or 14.

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Reply #82 posted 02/05/03 11:57pm

mistermaxxx

rdhull said:

mistermaxxx said:

rdhull said:

mistermaxxx said:

I've dated Older Ladies&Age wasn't a issueat all nor tastes,things were cool.

Did she like Madonna?

and this was an "older" woman..how old were you when u dated her..5?

25.She was in Her early 40's at the time.

mistermaxxx

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Reply #83 posted 02/06/03 12:13am

Christopher

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IstenSzek said:

Hey.

Have you ever dated anyone old enough to be your father or
mother? Or perhaps grandmother??

I thought of this topic since I was out having dinner with
an ex of mine and when I went over to the counter to pay
for our dinner, the waiter said to me

"No, that's allright, your FATHER already payed when you
were in the restroom".

:O

I'll refrain from stating exactly how old this ex is 'till
after I've seen some of your answers.

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