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PrintableI have only dated older guys... anywhere from two years older to eight years older than me.
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I've dated guys that were four years younger to three years older...I couldn't go younger or older than that...by that crazy equation that madartista posted I'd be able to date a 22-year-old (I'm 31) and I don't think we'd have much in common, really. | |
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Alex is 2 years and a gestation period older than me.
I'd go up to 7 years older, if Shane Battier was willing.  -------
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IstenSzek said: Hey.
Have you ever dated anyone old enough to be your father or mother? Or perhaps grandmother?? I thought of this topic since I was out having dinner with an ex of mine and when I went over to the counter to pay for our dinner, the waiter said to me "No, that's allright, your FATHER already payed when you were in the restroom". :O I'll refrain from stating exactly how old this ex is 'till after I've seen some of your answers. well, we didn't date exactly... let's just say when i met him in the best buy bathroom, i was shocked at how much he looked like my college calculus professor | |
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AaronUnlimited said: well, we didn't date exactly... let's just say when i met him in the best buy bathroom, i was shocked at how much he looked like my college calculus professor wow...seems you really can pick up whatever you're after at best buy 
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MrBliss said: wow...seems you really can pick up whatever you're after at best buy
and they have the cheapest CD's in town too! 
turn on the fun... | |
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I dated someone 7 tears older than me. I was 21 and she was 28. I also dated someone 7 years younger than me. I was 35 and she was 28. I normally keep it within 3 years and i not into the R Kelley thing so don't start. THIS SPACE IS DEDICATED TO THE GREATEST BISCUIT OF THEM ALL, "C"BISCUIT | |
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theC said: I dated someone 7 tears older than me. I was 21 and she was 28. I also dated someone 7 years younger than me. I was 35 and she was 28. I normally keep it within 3 years and i not into the R Kelley thing so don't start.
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Paisley said: theC said: I dated someone 7 tears older than me. I was 21 and she was 28. I also dated someone 7 years younger than me. I was 35 and she was 28. I normally keep it within 3 years and i not into the R Kelley thing so don't start.
HMMM looks like we might have another R-Kelly up in the org. Did you read the post, at least the last line  Whatever!THIS SPACE IS DEDICATED TO THE GREATEST BISCUIT OF THEM ALL, "C"BISCUIT | |
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theC said: Paisley said: theC said: I dated someone 7 tears older than me. I was 21 and she was 28. I also dated someone 7 years younger than me. I was 35 and she was 28. I normally keep it within 3 years and i not into the R Kelley thing so don't start.
HMMM looks like we might have another R-Kelly up in the org. Did you read the post, at least the last line Whatever!Yeah I read the last line, dont worry I'm only teasin ya.  | |
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Paisley said: theC said: Paisley said: theC said: I dated someone 7 tears older than me. I was 21 and she was 28. I also dated someone 7 years younger than me. I was 35 and she was 28. I normally keep it within 3 years and i not into the R Kelley thing so don't start.
HMMM looks like we might have another R-Kelly up in the org. Did you read the post, at least the last line Whatever!Yeah I read the last line, dont worry I'm only teasin ya. THIS SPACE IS DEDICATED TO THE GREATEST BISCUIT OF THEM ALL, "C"BISCUIT | |
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theC said: Paisley said: theC said: Paisley said: theC said: I dated someone 7 tears older than me. I was 21 and she was 28. I also dated someone 7 years younger than me. I was 35 and she was 28. I normally keep it within 3 years and i not into the R Kelley thing so don't start.
HMMM looks like we might have another R-Kelly up in the org. Did you read the post, at least the last line Whatever!Yeah I read the last line, dont worry I'm only teasin ya. You were in disbelief over what? | |
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LaVisHh said: Does anyone think the stereotypical image regarding large distances in age is relative to which sex is older/younger? This is regading male/female relationships.
From what I see and/or hear...It's almost always looked at that males with much younger females are scorned more than females with much younger men. Or is this my imagination...keep in mind I am discussing over 18's here. Considering that males supposedly mature much slower, wouldn't it only make sense that men get along better with a younger female? Or is this silly since they tend to have hardly anything in common as stated by another orger? Actually, I disagree--or maybe just perceive it differently. I think younger men who have relationships with older women tend to view it as a sex-only relationship, and don't look at it as long-term relationship/marriage material. They think of the negative public/social reaction, as well as breeding (older women might not be as able to have children with), and eventually tend to look for someone his own age or younger. (Now, if it's something like a 20 yr old guy with a 30 yr old woman, that's not quite as drastic).
On the other hand, I think very few people bat an eye when a younger woman dates an older man. It's so normal and taken for granted that men want someone they like looking at and having sex with, over her mind or personality. I mean, how many times have you seen the total young, airheaded bimbo with the older, successful guy? Constantly! And the guys take these women seriously, they divorce their wives and remarry and have second families...quite a difference from the older woman/younger man scenario. | |
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AnotherLover2 said: LaVisHh said: Does anyone think the stereotypical image regarding large distances in age is relative to which sex is older/younger? This is regading male/female relationships.
From what I see and/or hear...It's almost always looked at that males with much younger females are scorned more than females with much younger men. Or is this my imagination...keep in mind I am discussing over 18's here. Considering that males supposedly mature much slower, wouldn't it only make sense that men get along better with a younger female? Or is this silly since they tend to have hardly anything in common as stated by another orger? Actually, I disagree--or maybe just perceive it differently. I think younger men who have relationships with older women tend to view it as a sex-only relationship, and don't look at it as long-term relationship/marriage material. They think of the negative public/social reaction, as well as breeding (older women might not be as able to have children with), and eventually tend to look for someone his own age or younger. (Now, if it's something like a 20 yr old guy with a 30 yr old woman, that's not quite as drastic)..wrong and a sweeping insulting generalization . [This message was edited Wed Feb 5 21:54:48 PST 2003 by rdhull] "Climb in my fur." | |
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rdhull said: AnotherLover2 said: LaVisHh said: Does anyone think the stereotypical image regarding large distances in age is relative to which sex is older/younger? This is regading male/female relationships.
From what I see and/or hear...It's almost always looked at that males with much younger females are scorned more than females with much younger men. Or is this my imagination...keep in mind I am discussing over 18's here. Considering that males supposedly mature much slower, wouldn't it only make sense that men get along better with a younger female? Or is this silly since they tend to have hardly anything in common as stated by another orger? Actually, I disagree--or maybe just perceive it differently. I think younger men who have relationships with older women tend to view it as a sex-only relationship, and don't look at it as long-term relationship/marriage material. They think of the negative public/social reaction, as well as breeding (older women might not be as able to have children with), and eventually tend to look for someone his own age or younger. (Now, if it's something like a 20 yr old guy with a 30 yr old woman, that's not quite as drastic)..wrong and a sweeping insulting generalization . [This message was edited Wed Feb 5 21:54:48 PST 2003 by rdhull] I made it quite clear that what I wrote were simply my observations and opinions only...unlike you, who declares me absolutely "wrong". I realize there are exceptions, and maybe your situation wasn't that way. Lighten up, fella! | |
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AnotherLover2 said: rdhull said: AnotherLover2 said: LaVisHh said: Does anyone think the stereotypical image regarding large distances in age is relative to which sex is older/younger? This is regading male/female relationships.
From what I see and/or hear...It's almost always looked at that males with much younger females are scorned more than females with much younger men. Or is this my imagination...keep in mind I am discussing over 18's here. Considering that males supposedly mature much slower, wouldn't it only make sense that men get along better with a younger female? Or is this silly since they tend to have hardly anything in common as stated by another orger? Actually, I disagree--or maybe just perceive it differently. I think younger men who have relationships with older women tend to view it as a sex-only relationship, and don't look at it as long-term relationship/marriage material. They think of the negative public/social reaction, as well as breeding (older women might not be as able to have children with), and eventually tend to look for someone his own age or younger. (Now, if it's something like a 20 yr old guy with a 30 yr old woman, that's not quite as drastic)..wrong and a sweeping insulting generalization . [This message was edited Wed Feb 5 21:54:48 PST 2003 by rdhull] I made it quite clear that what I wrote were simply my observations and opinions only...unlike you, who declares me absolutely "wrong". I realize there are exceptions, and maybe your situation wasn't that way. Lighten up, fella! you actually saw it that way with your own eyes? hmm..cool "Climb in my fur." | |
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rdhull said: AnotherLover2 said: rdhull said: AnotherLover2 said: LaVisHh said: Does anyone think the stereotypical image regarding large distances in age is relative to which sex is older/younger? This is regading male/female relationships.
From what I see and/or hear...It's almost always looked at that males with much younger females are scorned more than females with much younger men. Or is this my imagination...keep in mind I am discussing over 18's here. Considering that males supposedly mature much slower, wouldn't it only make sense that men get along better with a younger female? Or is this silly since they tend to have hardly anything in common as stated by another orger? Actually, I disagree--or maybe just perceive it differently. I think younger men who have relationships with older women tend to view it as a sex-only relationship, and don't look at it as long-term relationship/marriage material. They think of the negative public/social reaction, as well as breeding (older women might not be as able to have children with), and eventually tend to look for someone his own age or younger. (Now, if it's something like a 20 yr old guy with a 30 yr old woman, that's not quite as drastic)..wrong and a sweeping insulting generalization . [This message was edited Wed Feb 5 21:54:48 PST 2003 by rdhull] I made it quite clear that what I wrote were simply my observations and opinions only...unlike you, who declares me absolutely "wrong". I realize there are exceptions, and maybe your situation wasn't that way. Lighten up, fella! you actually saw it that way with your own eyes? hmm..cool I've actually spoken very openly with younger men who dated older women...in other words, I had direct experience listening to men "just being honest"... Seems I've hit a nerve? | |
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Just admit it!  You are dating some old bag and you love it! 
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I've dated Older Ladies&Age wasn't a issueat all nor tastes,things were cool. mistermaxxx | |
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AnotherLover2 said: rdhull said: AnotherLover2 said: rdhull said: AnotherLover2 said: LaVisHh said: Does anyone think the stereotypical image regarding large distances in age is relative to which sex is older/younger? This is regading male/female relationships.
From what I see and/or hear...It's almost always looked at that males with much younger females are scorned more than females with much younger men. Or is this my imagination...keep in mind I am discussing over 18's here. Considering that males supposedly mature much slower, wouldn't it only make sense that men get along better with a younger female? Or is this silly since they tend to have hardly anything in common as stated by another orger? Actually, I disagree--or maybe just perceive it differently. I think younger men who have relationships with older women tend to view it as a sex-only relationship, and don't look at it as long-term relationship/marriage material. They think of the negative public/social reaction, as well as breeding (older women might not be as able to have children with), and eventually tend to look for someone his own age or younger. (Now, if it's something like a 20 yr old guy with a 30 yr old woman, that's not quite as drastic)..wrong and a sweeping insulting generalization . [This message was edited Wed Feb 5 21:54:48 PST 2003 by rdhull] I made it quite clear that what I wrote were simply my observations and opinions only...unlike you, who declares me absolutely "wrong". I realize there are exceptions, and maybe your situation wasn't that way. Lighten up, fella! you actually saw it that way with your own eyes? hmm..cool I've actually spoken very openly with younger men who dated older women...in other words, I had direct experience listening to men "just being honest"... Seems I've hit a nerve? no nerve hit here..its that it is such an "easy" stereotype and generalization that I was surprised that you perscribed to it etc and bought that... "Climb in my fur." | |
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Muse2noPharaoh said: Just admit it!
You are dating some old bag and you love it!
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well last time it was wrong to say that men only wanted to get them drawers --thats why they dated, dinner etc...but that was wrong..now men only date older women to get sex...see the oddness to this? Seems like men cant win one way or anotherlover I mean another lol.
. [This message was edited Wed Feb 5 22:48:49 PST 2003 by rdhull] "Climb in my fur." | |
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rdhull said: AnotherLover2 said: rdhull said: AnotherLover2 said: rdhull said: AnotherLover2 said: LaVisHh said: Does anyone think the stereotypical image regarding large distances in age is relative to which sex is older/younger? This is regading male/female relationships.
From what I see and/or hear...It's almost always looked at that males with much younger females are scorned more than females with much younger men. Or is this my imagination...keep in mind I am discussing over 18's here. Considering that males supposedly mature much slower, wouldn't it only make sense that men get along better with a younger female? Or is this silly since they tend to have hardly anything in common as stated by another orger? Actually, I disagree--or maybe just perceive it differently. I think younger men who have relationships with older women tend to view it as a sex-only relationship, and don't look at it as long-term relationship/marriage material. They think of the negative public/social reaction, as well as breeding (older women might not be as able to have children with), and eventually tend to look for someone his own age or younger. (Now, if it's something like a 20 yr old guy with a 30 yr old woman, that's not quite as drastic)..wrong and a sweeping insulting generalization . [This message was edited Wed Feb 5 21:54:48 PST 2003 by rdhull] I made it quite clear that what I wrote were simply my observations and opinions only...unlike you, who declares me absolutely "wrong". I realize there are exceptions, and maybe your situation wasn't that way. Lighten up, fella! you actually saw it that way with your own eyes? hmm..cool I've actually spoken very openly with younger men who dated older women...in other words, I had direct experience listening to men "just being honest"... Seems I've hit a nerve? no nerve hit here..its that it is such an "easy" stereotype and generalization that I was surprised that you perscribed to it etc and bought that... If I 'bought' it, it was because the guys I've spoken to sure seemed to believe it themselves. Maybe it's "easy" cause it's often true? So why did you only fuck older women and not date them? Here's your chance to tell the other side of the story??? | |
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rdhull said: Muse2noPharaoh said: Just admit it!
You are dating some old bag and you love it!
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mistermaxxx said: I've dated Older Ladies&Age wasn't a issueat all nor tastes,things were cool.
Did she like Madonna? "Climb in my fur." | |
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rdhull said: well last time it was wrong to say that men only wanted to get them drawers --thats why they dated, dinner etc...but that was wrong..now men only date older women to get sex...see the oddness to this? Seems like men cant win one way or anotherlover I mean another lol.
. [This message was edited Wed Feb 5 22:48:49 PST 2003 by rdhull] I didn't say that, actually. I said it was pathetic for men to "expect" sex if they bought dinner. You're twisting it and attempting to pick another fight. | |
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AnotherLover2 said:[quote] rdhull said: So why did you only fuck older women and not date them? Here's your chance to tell the other side of the story???
It goes like this..I did not date them just as I did not "date" some of the girls I slept with that were my own age etc. I didnt say that because I didnt think I had to ..seems like a generalization was made when I said "date? no"..I other words yes I have been with women who were old enough to be my mother but we just did not date per se..Istens coment was about "dating" older..I just didn't add the part about "nor did I date other one night stands, trysts etc". I didn't think I need to spell everything out because some should get it and those that dont and think one way or another is still fine..I only explained just now because you inquired. "Climb in my fur." | |
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AnotherLover2 said: rdhull said: well last time it was wrong to say that men only wanted to get them drawers --thats why they dated, dinner etc...but that was wrong..now men only date older women to get sex...see the oddness to this? Seems like men cant win one way or anotherlover I mean another lol.
. [This message was edited Wed Feb 5 22:48:49 PST 2003 by rdhull] I didn't say that, actually. I said it was pathetic for men to "expect" sex if they bought dinner. You're twisting it and attempting to pick another fight. Ok then I was wrong in my interpretation. Sorry. But its just as pathetric to think that men only date older women for sex too then "Climb in my fur." | |
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rdhull said:[quote] AnotherLover2 said: rdhull said: So why did you only fuck older women and not date them? Here's your chance to tell the other side of the story???
It goes like this..I did not date them just as I did not "date" some of the girls I slept with that were my own age etc. I didnt say that because I didnt think I had to ..seems like a generalization was made when I said "date? no"..I other words yes I have been with women who were old enough to be my mother but we just did not date per se..Istens coment was about "dating" older..I just didn't add the part about "nor did I date other one night stands, trysts etc". I didn't think I need to spell everything out because some should get it and those that dont and think one way or another is still fine..I only explained just now because you inquired. Quite honestly, I wasn't even thinking of you when I replied to Lavish's post. I was thinking of the men I referred to earlier. I didn't assume or generalize about anything to do with you and your women. But you got defensive, so I thought I'd ask you about it. End O Story. | |
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rdhull said: AnotherLover2 said: rdhull said: well last time it was wrong to say that men only wanted to get them drawers --thats why they dated, dinner etc...but that was wrong..now men only date older women to get sex...see the oddness to this? Seems like men cant win one way or anotherlover I mean another lol.
. [This message was edited Wed Feb 5 22:48:49 PST 2003 by rdhull] I didn't say that, actually. I said it was pathetic for men to "expect" sex if they bought dinner. You're twisting it and attempting to pick another fight. Ok then I was wrong in my interpretation. Sorry. But its just as pathetric to think that men only date older women for sex too then Go back to my original post--I said I think (not "know" or "believe") that younger men tend to (not "always") view it as a sex-only relationship. | |
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