Why do we like/praise little girl looks on grown women when we're always concerned about kids looking too sexualized or grown?
I share those concerns about kids too, of course. I just don't get why it's a good thing to like grown women in childish styles. Like schoolgirl is a big turn on. (And yes, I too think a hot woman looks hot in a schoolgirl outfit).

Like it's not ok to be turned on by a kid (and it's not ) but it's ok to be by a woman pretending to be a child.

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How 'bout a baby pretending to be a drunk?

HisProtege said:

Hahaha I knew when I clicked on this thread one thing came to mind: johnart created this.

Genesia said:

How 'bout a baby pretending to be a drunk?

OMFG that bitch is a walkin trash bag. We would NEVER be like that.

I literally held a hand to my mouth to keep the vodka from spraying on my new laptop and am not RED in the face from laughter.

johnart said:

Genesia said:

How 'bout a baby pretending to be a drunk?

OMFG that bitch is a walkin trash bag. We would NEVER be like that.

I literally held a hand to my mouth to keep the vodka from spraying on my new laptop and am not RED in the face from laughter.

my moms gonna be 60 in sept and she still shops in the juniors dept

johnart said:

Why do we like/praise little girl looks on grown women when we're always concerned about kids looking too sexualized or grown?
I share those concerns about kids too, of course. I just don't get why it's a good thing to like grown women in childish styles. Like schoolgirl is a big turn on. (And yes, I too think a hot woman looks hot in a schoolgirl outfit).

Like it's not ok to be turned on by a kid (and it's not ) but it's ok to be by a woman pretending to be a child.

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=C-u5WLJ9Yk4&feature=artistob&playnext=1&list=TLrXaJff0-PJ0

Schoolgirls are hot, this is why I geek on Glee. I am still waiting for my threesome with Diane Agron and Michelle.

Obviously, they have to be legal..lol whoops. lol

But leather on a man is sexy? jeez.

Or now they make high heel boots for little girls. I wouldn't do that to my kids legs and spine until she can buy them herself. It also sexualizes them.

But women in little girl outfits? It's the whole Lolita/virginal thing.

And that makes me think of a convo I had with a friend of mine..well friends. We were of all backgrounds, me white, she Mexican, and two other women that were Black. They asked me why White men prefer super skinny 12 year old bodies with huge boobs, while a lot of other non-white men prefer womanly curves. HOLLYWOOD!! So my Mexican friend still clumps White men into being perverts because they like 14 year old looking bodies. She wasn't being fair obviously.

But Hollywood has us screwed up for sure.

purplemookiebut said:

my moms gonna be 60 in sept and she still shops in the juniors dept

I think it’s partly a nostalgia thing. Our ideas about sex are often formalized pretty early.

And partly cause it’s taboo. And things that are taboo are often hot.

And most guys didn’t get any (or didn’t get much) in high school, so now they can go back and re-live that.

All kinds of reasons, really.

Interesting. I dunno what to say about this.

I women in girlie clothes is hot too. The school girl thing, pig tails, the knee socks, and shirt 80s shorts.

But its a double standard, sorta.

I have no answer.

One thing is lust, the other thing is what we as society consider right and wrong...two different things.

johnart said:

Genesia said:

How 'bout a baby pretending to be a drunk?

OMFG that bitch is a walkin trash bag. We would NEVER be like that.

I literally held a hand to my mouth to keep the vodka from spraying on my new laptop and am not RED in the face from laughter.

You are fucking killing me today.

robertlove said:

One thing is lust, the other thing is what we as society consider right and wrong...two different things.

Keep your eyes off those girls, they're just babies!

Dress like a little schoolgirl for me, it turns me on.

I dunno I'm conflicted about the second...

EDIT:

And I'm not picking on just hetero dudes finding it hot.

We have the whole Daddy/Son scene.

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johnart said:

robertlove said:

One thing is lust, the other thing is what we as society consider right and wrong...two different things.

Keep your eyes off those girls, they're just babies!

Dress like a little schoolgirl for me, it turns me on.

I dunno I'm conflicted about the second...

EDIT:

And I'm not picking on just hetero dudes finding it hot.

We have the whole Daddy/Son scene.

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yeah, but the standard for boys is a little bit different i think, not sure. 16 year old guy is different than a 16 year old girl.

but what about all those rape video sites...rape is very wrong, but can be a major turn on.

johnart said:

purplemookiebut said:

my moms gonna be 60 in sept and she still shops in the juniors dept

Mach said:

johnart said:

I am a good person.

johnart said:

Mach said:

I am a good person.

YES ... you are

I have to be totally sometimes to cuz lawd haz mercy ...

purplemookiebut said:

my moms gonna be 60 in sept and she still shops in the juniors dept

today's junior department is where you see the worst of the let's-sexualize-little-girls worst.

i'm talking about padded bras for 11 year olds.

teensy little thongs for eight year olds.

totally sickening.

Mach said:

johnart said:

I am a good person.

YES ... you are

I have to be totally sometimes to cuz lawd haz mercy ...

XxAxX said:

purplemookiebut said:

my moms gonna be 60 in sept and she still shops in the juniors dept

today's junior department is where you see the worst of the let's-sexualize-little-girls worst.

i'm talking about padded bras for 11 year olds.

teensy little thongs for eight year olds.

totally sickening.

johnart said:

XxAxX said:

today's junior department is where you see the worst of the let's-sexualize-little-girls worst.

i'm talking about padded bras for 11 year olds.

teensy little thongs for eight year olds.

totally sickening.

check it out. go to any target store. i asked the woman there why juniors NEED padded bras and she shrugged then told me 'it's the look these days'.

http://www.target.com/Xhi...Bra-Black/ <---- that.

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XxAxX said:

johnart said:

check it out. go to any target store. i asked the woman there why juniors NEED padded bras and she shrugged then told me 'it's the look these days'.

http://www.target.com/Xhi...Bra-Black/ <---- that.

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I get what you're saying about thongs and stuff, but the bra in the above example in particular doesn't bother me at all.

I was a B cup already at about age 11 and a little bit of padding helps keep your nipples from showing - which is far worse on a poor 11 year old. It's not like it's a push-up bra or anything. And that bra isn't targeted to 10 year olds specifically. It goes up to size 38D. Juniors clothing is targeted to teenagers and up through early 20's. I wore much racier bras at age 17.

CarrieMpls said:

XxAxX said:

check it out. go to any target store. i asked the woman there why juniors NEED padded bras and she shrugged then told me 'it's the look these days'.

http://www.target.com/Xhi...Bra-Black/ <---- that.

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I get what you're saying about thongs and stuff, but the bra in the above example in particular doesn't bother me at all.

I was a B cup already at about age 11 and a little bit of padding helps keep your nipples from showing - which is far worse on a poor 11 year old. It's not like it's a push-up bra or anything. And that bra isn't targeted to 10 year olds specifically. It goes up to size 38D. Juniors clothing is targeted to teenagers and up through early 20's. I wore much racier bras at age 17.

that may be true of your experience, but do you think it is a good idea to promote 'sexy' or 'racy' underwear to 'juniors'???

ps: btw, i love me some target. it's my favorite chain store of all.

XxAxX said:

CarrieMpls said:

I get what you're saying about thongs and stuff, but the bra in the above example in particular doesn't bother me at all.

I was a B cup already at about age 11 and a little bit of padding helps keep your nipples from showing - which is far worse on a poor 11 year old. It's not like it's a push-up bra or anything. And that bra isn't targeted to 10 year olds specifically. It goes up to size 38D. Juniors clothing is targeted to teenagers and up through early 20's. I wore much racier bras at age 17.

that may be true of your experience, but do you think it is a good idea to promote 'sexy' or 'racy' underwear to 'juniors'???

ps: btw, i love me some target. it's my favorite chain store of all.

To me, that's just a plain, black bra. About as boring as they come. I guess I don't see anything racy about it.

And most of the stuff marketed to juniors is more "cute" than racy. Polka dots and cotton materials vs. satin and lace and such.

Thongs for pre-teens is defintiely going too far. I guess I haven't seen the same in bras.

Maybe because the same size bras are worn by all ages of girls and women in america these days...

CarrieMpls said:

XxAxX said:

that may be true of your experience, but do you think it is a good idea to promote 'sexy' or 'racy' underwear to 'juniors'???

ps: btw, i love me some target. it's my favorite chain store of all.

To me, that's just a plain, black bra. About as boring as they come. I guess I don't see anything racy about it.

And most of the stuff marketed to juniors is more "cute" than racy. Polka dots and cotton materials vs. satin and lace and such.

Thongs for pre-teens is defintiely going too far. I guess I haven't seen the same in bras.

Maybe because the same size bras are worn by all ages of girls and women in america these days...

agree to disagree. i take your point, but this thread addresses grown-ass women dressing like kids (Why do we like/praise little girl looks on grown women when we're always concerned about kids looking too sexualized or grown? I share those concerns about kids too, of course. I just don't get why it's a good thing to like grown women in childish styles.)

i think the reason is at least partly due to marketing. and, availability of brands in stores in general, i think target stores do a good job, but in this case i give them a big ass 'fail' for following the trend.

little girls don't NEED big breasts. they don't NEED padded bras. big breasts, or the illusion thereof, will attract the kind of attention that little girls, do not want from men, who will regard them as sexually avaialble due to their apparently physically matured bodies.

again, agree to disagree but i personally find that repugnant

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XxAxX said:

they don't NEED padded bras.

So how do girls keep the headlights from turning on without padded bras?