... for one, not physical. i'm strictly talking about personnality, views, education, behavior....

Five or ten...

Today at work I was talking about it with oa female colleague... She told me something interesting (especially since it's a girl's point of view): "I don't think women actually know EXACTLY what they want from a man. Iwant my man macho yet sensitive. seducing but not a seducer. tough but who's not ashamed to cry. Passionate about me but not always on my back. Basically I wanna fuck up his mind"... Quite realistic, uh? what's your opinion?

FrenchGuy said:

... for one, not physical. i'm strictly talking about personnality, views, education, behavior....

Five or ten...

Today at work I was talking about it with oa female colleague... She told me something interesting (especially since it's a girl's point of view): "I don't think women actually know EXACTLY what they want from a man. Iwant my man macho yet sensitive. seducing but not a seducer. tough but who's not ashamed to cry. Passionate about me but not always on my back. Basically I wanna fuck up his mind"... Quite realistic, uh? what's your opinion?

Personalitywise my bf is pretty different to what I might put on a list. But he is all the bolded things .

And a job.

and a job. That's pretty much it.

smart

makes me laugh

kind

dependable - does what he says he's going to do

honest

polite - has good manners

Those tend to be my top 6. There are plenty of other things I look for too, of course, but I think those are most important.

FrenchGuy said:

... for one, not physical. i'm strictly talking about personnality, views, education, behavior....

Five or ten...

Today at work I was talking about it with oa female colleague... She told me something interesting (especially since it's a girl's point of view): "I don't think women actually know EXACTLY what they want from a man. Iwant my man macho yet sensitive. seducing but not a seducer. tough but who's not ashamed to cry. Passionate about me but not always on my back. Basically I wanna fuck up his mind"... Quite realistic, uh? what's your opinion?

Your friend sounds young and like she doesn't know what she wants. That doesn't make that true of all women.

I like some

practicality & common sense

ability to look at the big picture instead of getting bogged down in details (that's MY job!!)

encouraging

sympathetic and kind

non-competitive (within the relationship)

loves to laugh

good sex drive

positive outlook

focused

I have heaps more!

ZombieKitten said:

I like some

practicality & common sense

ability to look at the big picture instead of getting bogged down in details (that's MY job!!)

encouraging

sympathetic and kind

non-competitive (within the relationship)

loves to laugh

good sex drive

positive outlook

focused

I have heaps more!

It's a good thing you are married already because you'll never find a man with all those things.

sextonseven said:

ZombieKitten said:

I like some

practicality & common sense

ability to look at the big picture instead of getting bogged down in details (that's MY job!!)

encouraging

sympathetic and kind

non-competitive (within the relationship)

loves to laugh

good sex drive

positive outlook

focused

I have heaps more!

It's a good thing you are married already because you'll never find a man with all those things.

I don't think that's so hard to find.

Serious said:

sextonseven said:

It's a good thing you are married already because you'll never find a man with all those things.

I don't think that's so hard to find.

Wait until she posts the "heaps more" part.

sextonseven said:

Serious said:

I don't think that's so hard to find.

Wait until she posts the "heaps more" part.

Yeah that might indeed change everything

to b genuine

hard working... because i am

and great in bed because i am 2

Genesia said:

And a job.

and a job. That's pretty much it.

Genny you likes you a hard werrrrkin man.

johnart said:

Genesia said:

And a job.

and a job. That's pretty much it.

Genny you likes you a hard werrrrkin man.

My needs are simple. I can get the on my own.

Genesia said:

johnart said:

Genny you likes you a hard werrrrkin man.

My needs are simple. I can get the on my own.

Lucy Liu... with my girl, Drew... Cameron D. and Destiny
Charlie's Angels, Come on
Uh uh uh

johnart said:

Genesia said:

My needs are simple. I can get the on my own.

Lucy Liu... with my girl, Drew... Cameron D. and Destiny
Charlie's Angels, Come on
Uh uh uh

financially secure

gifted in sex

god fearing

confident

compassionate

strong

humorous

even tempered

family oriented - extended family that is

very clean

^ that's my plan A

My plan B is:

good dick

good job

not breathing down my neck every 5 minutes

not too many baby mommas

go to church at least once a month

dick don't smell like ass and ass don't smell like dick

Intelligent

Funny

Ambitious

Confident

Dominant/Aggressive - don't get that twisted with abusive

Independent and expects his partner to be the same way

Generous

Doesn't hate kid or animals

Preferably non-religious (but I can work with that as long as he's not preaching that shit to me)

Is not the type that just says/does what he thinks women want to hear/need from him

Not overly sensitive and emotional

I could probably keep going...but I don't think anything on my list contradicts.

Sweet

Sensitive; with an artistic side

Caring

Great sense of humour

Loves his parents/family

Loves Children and animals

Spiritual

Intellectual

A gentleman

Positive

Ambitious

Self-sufficient and reliant (like not so needy of me to the point of choking me)

Trustworthy

Honest

has a wild side to him

Simply a good, intimate companion/lover I can go thru time with...

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sextonseven said:

Serious said:

I don't think that's so hard to find.

Wait until she posts the "heaps more" part.

I'd say most of the things I listed could be under intelligent and compassionate

basically, a good head on his shoulders

and gives good head as well

sextonseven said:

ZombieKitten said:

I like some

practicality & common sense

ability to look at the big picture instead of getting bogged down in details (that's MY job!!)

encouraging

sympathetic and kind

non-competitive (within the relationship)

loves to laugh

good sex drive

positive outlook

focused

I have heaps more!

It's a good thing you are married already because you'll never find a man with all those things.

ZK, you can get all those things on lay away.

kewlschool said:

sextonseven said:

It's a good thing you are married already because you'll never find a man with all those things.

ZK, you can get all those things on lay away.

it's OK, I have all that already!

the one thing I don't have

is TIME to spend with him

JOB

a good listener

a person of faith

principled

know what to do with his tongue.

smart

gentleman / manners

knows how to fix stuff

supportive

community minded

likes children

generous

dependable

strength , no whiners

ZombieKitten said:

kewlschool said:

ZK, you can get all those things on lay away.

it's OK, I have all that already!

the one thing I don't have

is TIME to spend with him

TD3 said:

JOB

a good listener

a person of faith

principled

know what to do with his tongue.

smart

gentleman / manners

knows how to fix stuff

supportive

community minded

likes children

generous

dependable

strength , no whiners

you copied that from me

ZombieKitten said:

TD3 said:

JOB

a good listener

a person of faith

principled

know what to do with his tongue.

smart

gentleman / manners

knows how to fix stuff

supportive

community minded

likes children

generous

dependable

strength , no whiners

you copied that from me

Fancy lesbian here. (Dude version)

The basics:

-a nice and polite guy-the whole bad boy image is stupid

-funny/sarcastic

-motivated with what he's doing in life (job and/or education) and takes care of his responsibilities

-can hold a conversation about more than just sex and sports

-wants to do more with me than only sex and won't just leave me for his crew when he wants to go out and have fun

-loyal-he better have my back if he wants to get me on my back

-family man and likes dogs

-is clean and not a slob (I shouldn't have to say this, but c'mon guys YOU KNOW what I'm talking about )

-respectful of others

-secure in his manhood

-1 woman man

-wants to do more than "just stick it in" in the bedroom. i'm talking about romance, foreplay etc.

-understands me as a person-obviously this takes time to learn but he needs to show he wants to!

ZombieKitten said:

TD3 said:

JOB

a good listener

a person of faith

principled

know what to do with his tongue.

smart

gentleman / manners

knows how to fix stuff

supportive

community minded

likes children

generous

dependable

strength , no whiners

you copied that from me

I only copy from the best.

TD3 said:

ZombieKitten said:

you copied that from me

I only copy from the best.

Genesia said:

And a job.

and a job. That's pretty much it.

That's what I'm talkin about. A woman that knows what she wants.

Girrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrl, If you can make a good sandwich. I'll marry you.

and......

someone that will sleep on the wet patch