BlackAdder7 said:

purplemookiebut said:

seriously my mom treats me like i'm 5. say if i do sonething like cook dinner she freaks out and praises me so much. she doesn't let me do anything for myself. when i say i'll do it she's miss a tv show when i say i'll do it on the commerical!!! it kinda goes both ways. SHE IS A OCD FREAK!!! i know she keeps saying shes gonna kick me out but i "went to live" with my dad and it lasted 3 days. my stepmom is crazy. frieking out cause me and my dad were on the computer watching music videos. she threatened to turn the power off the whole house. what a spazz..........anywho my mom cried thinking i was moving out.

i got laid off 3 weeks after i bought my newer car and took on car payments. i got last above the minimum amount to keep my savings open and cash my unemployment check which some months isn't enough to pay all my bills so she starts a tab and i pay her back. i don't have $ to get my own checking account so she writes all my bills out and divides the $ up and i pay her back with my unemployment and under the table dog walking job.

i opened a second credit card. i'm around 6 grand in debt. i can't take on that much rent for a apartment too. i do pay her like 300 a month rent.

Jersey kinda said what I wanted to say, and he said it eloquently.

6000 in debt to credit card companies at let's say..18% is not going to go away by buying something that's not essential like food or heat. your mom, god bless her, is only enabling you.

yes!! thank you. i agree. tough love!! i'm spoiled. i hate holidays cause i get the family bitching about me to get off my ass.

i was gonna go back to school for forensic chemistry.then the day b4 i was to set up classes i got into a car accident. working in a forensics lab would be insane like abby on ncis!!

i was thinking about going back to school to be a funeral director but i saw all the math and english-term papers-in prereqs...then we lost my grandfather and i was so freaked out over how he felt like a wax figure. i touched his hand,kissed him on the cheek and forehead. i never been to a funeral b4. definitely changed my mind on that. my mom used to help me with term papers. i'm lazy. between the carpel tunnels,ADHD and not caring I KNOW I TYPE TERRIBLE WITH RUNONS,NO PUNCTUATION, no captials AND FRAGMENTED SENTENCES!

a actual csi would be great. i notice tiny details that most ppl don't. i love tv shows and movies where you have to solve mysteries. science and art have always been my fave subjects!! HOUSE MD,CASTLE,CSI. 12 YEARS OF SCHOOL???

i wanted to take auto shop but not enough ppl signed up for it in high school. a 2 year auto mechanic program votech would be fun! i did take wood shop and metal. i'm a very hands on creative artsy type.

alot of the damn courses are offered far away not at the new brunswick,piscataway area........

i love doing hair. but only on me and mom. if a friend or family member asked i would do it. i'm always doing my moms highlights for her and my own hair...but other strangers? EWWW i ain't touching random ppls heads! and what if you fuck up their hair? nails? even worse!!

I AM NOT A PEOPLE PERSON

the only local tattoo studio..my friend joey is the owner/manager. its a 2 yr apprecticeship and like $2000 to get certified. he loves when i come in cause he says mostly it's just ppl coming in wanting lettering of their itnials. i'd need new machines. my two are about to crap out and aren't super expensive ones. i really don't wanna deal with the possibilty of pricking myself with a needle and blood of someone with aids or hepatitis. they could have it and lie and say no!

i seen a bartending school. that would be fun! learn about all the great drinks and sample em. probably make me start drinking and turn into a drunkie!

i am really enjoying this special effects makeup reality show FACEOFF. that would be ideal. i would love to do makeup or other special effects stuff for movies/tv.

if i could have any job it would be like interviewing celebrities or a roadie for a band. or a trust fund baby like paris hilton. my dad calls me the paris hilton of east windsor.

i'm a dreamer......

so 2 yr program only courses that i care about.no stupid prereqs of math and english type crap!!! votech!

too bad i just can't be a starving artist. i'd have to start selling my paintings. i plan to.....

BlackAdder7 said:

johnart said:

This seems to be the thing to do nowadays. My mother in law enables Ron's sis and my aunt enables my two cousins. There's really no consequence or taste of real life to encourage otherwise.

birds have it right...kick the babies out of the nest...they MUST learn to fly. otherwise, when mom's not around, the child has no skills to feed itself, or deal with adversity.

everyone saying mom's enabling me makes me feel like i'm intervention and addicted to crack or meth or something?!

could be worse. i just stumbled onto my friend from middle school on facebook. she's got like 100k in student loans and still can't find a job. my one supervisor at my last job went to school and got a job but was making more as a retail manager so she's back to that......

i do need medical insurance. i have alot of medical issues and no insurance at all right now.

2 more orders arrived today! so glad i won 6 bottles od tea tree. that smells heavenly!!!!

Wow you are my sis in law. It's always something or on someone else or something went wrong right when you were about to make your move. No one is hiring, but in reality no one is hiring in what she feels like doing, which when you're living on someone else's dime and space, guess what, that shouldn't be an option. When someone else is carrying your burden you should bust your ass and do whatever necessary even if you hate it with a passion to get out of that situation. It's the respectable thing to do towards those helping you. But no, she's gonna be a forensic psychologist like all the pretty pictures she sees on CSI and she's gonna do this with online courses and guess what while I'm at it I'm gonna have the balls to pull all my kids out of school to home school em cause hey, I got time to do this, mommy's here, it's not like I'll be out on the street so why not just do whatever I damn well please.

For real with all that?? Come on mookie, you should want good things for yourself and you should make them happen.

purplemookiebut said:

BlackAdder7 said:

birds have it right...kick the babies out of the nest...they MUST learn to fly. otherwise, when mom's not around, the child has no skills to feed itself, or deal with adversity.

everyone saying mom's enabling me makes me feel like i'm intervention and addicted to crack or meth or something?!

could be worse. i just stumbled onto my friend from middle school on facebook. she's got like 100k in student loans and still can't find a job. my one supervisor at my last job went to school and got a job but was making more as a retail manager so she's back to that......

i do need medical insurance. i have alot of medical issues and no insurance at all right now.

You do need an intervention. Your crack is lazy-ass-ness and delusion.

i know i do. i'm almost 30. i need done to me what happened to my ex sam. he got sent to his dads who bought him a car and sent him to school. now he's working with old and hanicapped ppl on his way to be a english teacher. they lit a fire under his lazy ass. i need one under mine.

i just wish i could meet a guy and have a few kids and be a stay at home mom. i babysat b4 for 5 days a week 8 hours a day and i looooved it! but then again this wasn't nighttime and 24 hours with a baby.

i always thought the world would have ended by now or that i'd be dead by now from all my medical problems. i'm not a healthy person. i'm suprised i'm gonna be 30 this year...i feel like i'm 80

I turned 80 just reading all of your excuses.

Honey, try to light your own fire.

some ppl just need alittle push or like me a swift kick in the ass and smack across the face. i've always been spoiled way too much. i wish i had a sibling. maybe it would have been different

oh oh omfg yeah. my mom wrecked my cat. she feeds her every 2 hours and the cat freaks and yodels and cries scratching against cabinets and doors till u feed her. i close the door and ignore her when she's like that cause she's too spoiled and eats plenty.

my mom cleans the litterbox nonstop. the fucking cat doesn't even bury her dookie cause she knows mommy will clean it right after she's done.

doesn't she look like a stuckup little diva??

purplemookiebut said:

some ppl just need alittle push or like me a swift kick in the ass and smack across the face. i've always been spoiled way too much. i wish i had a sibling. maybe it would have been different

Well you've come to the right place!!

See all the orgers who've come before you?

Some have moved on while others have stayed...

Some stop by for a visit and some vanish into the ether...

We are all, as a singular purple entity (yes, I went there...) giving you our most cherished honor...

Take our COLLECTIVE ADVICE, consider this your ass-kick-face-slap moment, and get out there and DO!!!

We've all survived our share of trials and tribulations, our ups and downs, our sick days and our healthy ones. We've shared our thoughts, feelings, plans and all so now it's your turn... get out there!

purplemookiebut said:

my mom treats me like i'm 5.

she doesn't let me do anything for myself.

i "went to live" with my dad and it lasted 3 days.

my mom cried thinking i was moving out.

I got laid off 3 weeks after I took on car payments.

i got the minimum amount to keep my savings open and cash my unemp. check some months isn't enough to pay all my bills

she starts a tab

i don't have $ to get my own checking account

she writes all my bills out

i pay her back

i opened a second credit card.

i'm around 6 grand in debt.

i can't take on that much rent for a apartment too.

i pay her like 300 a month rent.

i'm spoiled.

family bitching about me to get off my ass.

like abby on ncis!!

my mom used to help me with term papers.

i'm lazy.

carpel tunnels,ADHD and not caring

i love tv shows and movies

12 YEARS OF SCHOOL???

I AM NOT A PEOPLE PERSON

i am really enjoying this special effects makeup reality show FACEOFF.

stuff for movies/tv.

interviewing celebrities or a roadie for a band. or a trust fund baby like paris hilton. my dad calls me the paris hilton of east windsor.

i'm a dreamer......

too bad i just can't be a starving artist.

a 2 year auto mechanic program votech would be fun!

i did take wood shop and metal.

i'm a very hands on creative artsy type.

alot of the damn courses are offered far away not at the new brunswick,piscataway area........

so 2 yr program only courses that i care about.

no stupid prereqs of math and english type crap!!!

votech!

out of respect, cause I think you're totally funny and nice at heart, and not wanting to this shit, I'm gonna leave this alone after this post. also, I NEVER EVER have enough attention span to type out responses like this, so listen up!

LOOK AT ALL THOSE EXCUSES!

First off, real life is not what entertainment presents to you. You have to mature beyond that mirage. Second, you have to stop using mom dukes as an excuse. She does what she does, but you very happily let her. You could very easily start handling the finances you have right now and at least be on a QUICK ROAD to a more adult life. It's high time you do, IMO. I know I have no right to be saying these things to you, as I don't know you. Like I said earlier though, you frustrate the shit out of me!

PMB, I would love to give you totally positive, uplifting advice, but I'm afraid I would just be met with more "yeah, but"'s.........

after everything you just said in both your previous posts, I assure you...you can still be on a totally bright path to being on your own, pretty much by 2012. You just need to grow up in a lot of ways. There's a time and place to rebel, I'm all for that shit now!! However, doing it against the fairly rigid margins of day to day adult life is doing nothing but keeping you in the mindset you're in. I wish you had an equally offbeat adult role model in your life, but one that could present to you an image of how MORE awesome life would be as an adult. (how's that shit for a run-on sentence? you're not the only one with ADD now! )

That is.....if you wanted to. Like, really wanted to. It doesn't seem like you have anything more than a passing interest in it though.

you can be a starving artist, but hon....you're not starving. you're living at home with mom and letting her do everything. sorry, but that's the truth. be the starving artist, there's nothing wrong with that! there are many right here, on the org! but the point is, they're doing what they want to do as an adult, and living around the disadvantages, instead of just talking about that shit.

last bit of advice, totally go to votech! become a welder, or work with metal, or be a mechanic. or a carpenter, there are tons of wood frame homes in dirty jersey. Totally focus on doing something with your hands. I don't care if you have to drive to Plainfield every day, just do it! Hair...meh, salons are catty fucking places. not any place I'd want to be in..., plus you kind of have to be a "people person". Whatever you choose, CHOOSE IT ALREADY!

So, um, er.......what's you favorite native new jersey food? I recently introduced my wife and kids to the official jersey breakfast sandwich of taylor ham, egg and cheese on a roll, with ketchup of course.

Even the flexitarian wifey was all like "omg, that is so fucking good!" and she NEVER eats pork.

go ahead, let the jokes fly.

purplemookiebut said:

doesn't she look like a stuckup little diva??

Yeah, maybe you're right

The cat looks nice though

purplemookiebut said:

some ppl just need alittle push or like me a swift kick in the ass and smack across the face. i've always been spoiled way too much. i wish i had a sibling. maybe it would have been different

I'm an only child too. My cousins are not and they're totally enabled. Ron's sis is not and she's totally enabled. It really doesn't make a difference because enabling and using comes from an individual situation and the folk in it, not just from what a family structure is made up of.

But my point in bolding that is...see how you will come to admit that you are lazy or unmotivated (or whatever we wanna call it) but then immediately follow it up with either a reason why you're that way (rather than outright owning it) or how maybe you could do better if someone else did something for you or presented you with a "dream" opportunity.

It's just not that way. I know you watch a lot of movies and tv, hon. This is not one of them.

At this point Jers, Ren me and whomever else...we're just all saying the same thing.

We just hope you'll do something for yourself. Think of it as an act of self respect and of respect and THANKS to your mom, who clearly loves you very much. She deserves to see that her daughter can stand on her own two feet.

purplemookiebut said:

oh oh omfg yeah. my mom wrecked my cat. she feeds her every 2 hours and the cat freaks and yodels and cries scratching against cabinets and doors till u feed her. i close the door and ignore her when she's like that cause she's too spoiled and eats plenty.

my mom cleans the litterbox nonstop. the fucking cat doesn't even bury her dookie cause she knows mommy will clean it right after she's done.

doesn't she look like a stuckup little diva??

there's a stuckup little diva in that picture alright

johnart said:

purplemookiebut said:

some ppl just need alittle push or like me a swift kick in the ass and smack across the face. i've always been spoiled way too much. i wish i had a sibling. maybe it would have been different

I'm an only child too. My cousins are not and they're totally enabled. Ron's sis is not and she's totally enabled. It really doesn't make a difference because enabling and using comes from an individual situation and the folk in it, not just from what a family structure is made up of.

But my point in bolding that is...see how you will come to admit that you are lazy or unmotivated (or whatever we wanna call it) but then immediately follow it up with either a reason why you're that way (rather than outright owning it) or how maybe you could do better if someone else did something for you or presented you with a "dream" opportunity.

It's just not that way. I know you watch a lot of movies and tv, hon. This is not one of them.

At this point Jers, Ren me and whomever else...we're just all saying the same thing.

We just hope you'll do something for yourself. Think of it as an act of self respect and of respect and THANKS to your mom, who clearly loves you very much. She deserves to see that her daughter can stand on her own two feet.

beyotch

[Edited 2/10/11 7:55am]

BlackAdder7 said:

johnart said:

I'm an only child too. My cousins are not and they're totally enabled. Ron's sis is not and she's totally enabled. It really doesn't make a difference because enabling and using comes from an individual situation and the folk in it, not just from what a family structure is made up of.

But my point in bolding that is...see how you will come to admit that you are lazy or unmotivated (or whatever we wanna call it) but then immediately follow it up with either a reason why you're that way (rather than outright owning it) or how maybe you could do better if someone else did something for you or presented you with a "dream" opportunity.

It's just not that way. I know you watch a lot of movies and tv, hon. This is not one of them.

At this point Jers, Ren me and whomever else...we're just all saying the same thing.

We just hope you'll do something for yourself. Think of it as an act of self respect and of respect and THANKS to your mom, who clearly loves you very much. She deserves to see that her daughter can stand on her own two feet.

beyotch

[Edited 2/10/11 7:55am]

Oh yeah, I knew I was missing a ho. Sowwy.

johnart said:

BlackAdder7 said:

beyotch

[Edited 2/10/11 7:55am]

Oh yeah, I knew I was missing a ho. Sowwy.

BlackAdder7 said:

johnart said:

Oh yeah, I knew I was missing a ho. Sowwy.

JerseyKRS said:

out of respect, cause I think you're totally funny and nice at heart, and not wanting to this shit, I'm gonna leave this alone after this post. also, I NEVER EVER have enough attention span to type out responses like this, so listen up!

LOOK AT ALL THOSE EXCUSES!

First off, real life is not what entertainment presents to you. You have to mature beyond that mirage. Second, you have to stop using mom dukes as an excuse. She does what she does, but you very happily let her. You could very easily start handling the finances you have right now and at least be on a QUICK ROAD to a more adult life. It's high time you do, IMO. I know I have no right to be saying these things to you, as I don't know you. Like I said earlier though, you frustrate the shit out of me!

PMB, I would love to give you totally positive, uplifting advice, but I'm afraid I would just be met with more "yeah, but"'s.........

after everything you just said in both your previous posts, I assure you...you can still be on a totally bright path to being on your own, pretty much by 2012. You just need to grow up in a lot of ways. There's a time and place to rebel, I'm all for that shit now!! However, doing it against the fairly rigid margins of day to day adult life is doing nothing but keeping you in the mindset you're in. I wish you had an equally offbeat adult role model in your life, but one that could present to you an image of how MORE awesome life would be as an adult. (how's that shit for a run-on sentence? you're not the only one with ADD now! )

That is.....if you wanted to. Like, really wanted to. It doesn't seem like you have anything more than a passing interest in it though.

you can be a starving artist, but hon....you're not starving. you're living at home with mom and letting her do everything. sorry, but that's the truth. be the starving artist, there's nothing wrong with that! there are many right here, on the org! but the point is, they're doing what they want to do as an adult, and living around the disadvantages, instead of just talking about that shit.

last bit of advice, totally go to votech! become a welder, or work with metal, or be a mechanic. or a carpenter, there are tons of wood frame homes in dirty jersey. Totally focus on doing something with your hands. I don't care if you have to drive to Plainfield every day, just do it! Hair...meh, salons are catty fucking places. not any place I'd want to be in..., plus you kind of have to be a "people person". Whatever you choose, CHOOSE IT ALREADY!

So, um, er.......what's you favorite native new jersey food? I recently introduced my wife and kids to the official jersey breakfast sandwich of taylor ham, egg and cheese on a roll, with ketchup of course.

Even the flexitarian wifey was all like "omg, that is so fucking good!" and she NEVER eats pork.

go ahead, let the jokes fly.

trenton tomato pies

PANDURITO said:

purplemookiebut said:

doesn't she look like a stuckup little diva??

Yeah, maybe you're right

The cat looks nice though

yeah i know both of us are!!!

johnart said:

BlackAdder7 said:

beyotch

[Edited 2/10/11 7:55am]

Oh yeah, I knew I was missing a ho. Sowwy.

I'm a ho???

purplemookiebut said:

2 more orders arrived today! so glad i won 6 bottles od tea tree. that smells heavenly!!!!

I've seen the infomercial and wanted to try this stuff. Can I ask how much are you getting it off ebay for?

purplemookiebut said:

JerseyKRS said:

out of respect, cause I think you're totally funny and nice at heart, and not wanting to this shit, I'm gonna leave this alone after this post. also, I NEVER EVER have enough attention span to type out responses like this, so listen up!

LOOK AT ALL THOSE EXCUSES!

First off, real life is not what entertainment presents to you. You have to mature beyond that mirage. Second, you have to stop using mom dukes as an excuse. She does what she does, but you very happily let her. You could very easily start handling the finances you have right now and at least be on a QUICK ROAD to a more adult life. It's high time you do, IMO. I know I have no right to be saying these things to you, as I don't know you. Like I said earlier though, you frustrate the shit out of me!

PMB, I would love to give you totally positive, uplifting advice, but I'm afraid I would just be met with more "yeah, but"'s.........

after everything you just said in both your previous posts, I assure you...you can still be on a totally bright path to being on your own, pretty much by 2012. You just need to grow up in a lot of ways. There's a time and place to rebel, I'm all for that shit now!! However, doing it against the fairly rigid margins of day to day adult life is doing nothing but keeping you in the mindset you're in. I wish you had an equally offbeat adult role model in your life, but one that could present to you an image of how MORE awesome life would be as an adult. (how's that shit for a run-on sentence? you're not the only one with ADD now! )

That is.....if you wanted to. Like, really wanted to. It doesn't seem like you have anything more than a passing interest in it though.

you can be a starving artist, but hon....you're not starving. you're living at home with mom and letting her do everything. sorry, but that's the truth. be the starving artist, there's nothing wrong with that! there are many right here, on the org! but the point is, they're doing what they want to do as an adult, and living around the disadvantages, instead of just talking about that shit.

last bit of advice, totally go to votech! become a welder, or work with metal, or be a mechanic. or a carpenter, there are tons of wood frame homes in dirty jersey. Totally focus on doing something with your hands. I don't care if you have to drive to Plainfield every day, just do it! Hair...meh, salons are catty fucking places. not any place I'd want to be in..., plus you kind of have to be a "people person". Whatever you choose, CHOOSE IT ALREADY!

So, um, er.......what's you favorite native new jersey food? I recently introduced my wife and kids to the official jersey breakfast sandwich of taylor ham, egg and cheese on a roll, with ketchup of course.

Even the flexitarian wifey was all like "omg, that is so fucking good!" and she NEVER eats pork.

go ahead, let the jokes fly.

trenton tomato pies

i was there a coupla months ago... that sounds tasty. is wheat involved????

Oh, mookie dear, I hope nothing major happens to your mom or you will be useless to both her and yourself. You remind me of the 600 pound fat man that can't leave his bedroom and eats 4 big mac meals and tons of other fast food every single day. If he can't leave his room how did he get so fkn fat on this food? His family was enabling him.

Why, oh why does your family want you to remain a funky fifteen year old whose big ambition in life is to become "lizard girl" and sit your ass in a chair in a freak circus, supporting your self by answering questions like "how long did it take to get all those tatoos", "did it hurt?" day after day into infinitum. To be looked at but never really seen beyond your self made freaky outside. Elephant man was a natural freak that hated it because he wanted people to know the man who was inside and not get endless attention due to being different on the outside. People who are truly cool don't go to great lengths to proove it.

The real person I want to have a heart to heart with is your Mommy. I want her ear for a day.

P.S. I have a nasty hoarding problem I am fighting my way out of. DO SOMETHING about yours now, yes it WILL destroy your life!!!!!

mynameisnotsusan said:

purplemookiebut said:

2 more orders arrived today! so glad i won 6 bottles od tea tree. that smells heavenly!!!!

I've seen the infomercial and wanted to try this stuff. Can I ask how much are you getting it off ebay for?

small 6oz are $10-15 and 16oz is $20-28....they gor 32oz too but crazy prices

last time i looked on QVC they had 4 pack 6oz for $80 plus shipping

XxAxX said:

purplemookiebut said:

trenton tomato pies

i was there a coupla months ago... that sounds tasty. is wheat involved????

no.wheat?? delorenzo's are to die for! gorumet tomato pies. after you try this you'll never want normal pizza again!

rick at his old cash register! he always gave us kids two dum dum pops !!

if your from this area you gotta know this place. i grew up going here down the street from st francis hospital.

calling out laxbrian being i know you live near me now...ever go here? or are you a hudson street delo fan??

[Edited 2/14/11 1:03am]

You need to watch the movie Grey Gardens. When a parent hold a child back from growing up and keeps them their little girl forever it is because the parent has a problem that they themselves don't want to look at. The more attention you soak up the less attention they have to pay to their own lives and maybe even growing older and facing empty nest syndrome.

They think they are doing it for you, but they are not.

Lastly I am almost 50 and I have met men and women who were solely supported by their parents past their 30's and then still a decade or MORE were getting money from mom and dad to cover their bad choices. Unfortunately when they got to be in their 4O's their parents were either dead or needed to deal with their own problems. Now you have a 45 year old whiner complaining that mom and dad just aren't there for them any longer. The rest of the world does not feel for them, no everyone I know just thought these people were pathetic.

God forbid that when mom and dad die the money doesn't go to their middle aged teenager, the whining never ceases. IN EVERY CASE I KNOW OF THE PARENTS DID NOT LEAVE THEM MONEY, instead they left it either in a trust fund run by someone else or some other way of not letting big baby have the money. The big insult was that they made it clear to the middle age fool that they thoought that they were basically useless and not much good at doing anything besides sucking air. In order for them to buy a year of Wen, for instance, they would have to get permission from their sister or whomever controled the money.

(back in the 80"s I lived in Provincetown and met 5 of them who were simply just living their year round being eccentric and waiting for the money from family and bitching and drinking their lifer away!! 4 out of 5 came from huge money).

purplemookiebut said:

JerseyKRS said:

out of respect, cause I think you're totally funny and nice at heart, and not wanting to this shit, I'm gonna leave this alone after this post. also, I NEVER EVER have enough attention span to type out responses like this, so listen up!

LOOK AT ALL THOSE EXCUSES!

First off, real life is not what entertainment presents to you. You have to mature beyond that mirage. Second, you have to stop using mom dukes as an excuse. She does what she does, but you very happily let her. You could very easily start handling the finances you have right now and at least be on a QUICK ROAD to a more adult life. It's high time you do, IMO. I know I have no right to be saying these things to you, as I don't know you. Like I said earlier though, you frustrate the shit out of me!

PMB, I would love to give you totally positive, uplifting advice, but I'm afraid I would just be met with more "yeah, but"'s.........

after everything you just said in both your previous posts, I assure you...you can still be on a totally bright path to being on your own, pretty much by 2012. You just need to grow up in a lot of ways. There's a time and place to rebel, I'm all for that shit now!! However, doing it against the fairly rigid margins of day to day adult life is doing nothing but keeping you in the mindset you're in. I wish you had an equally offbeat adult role model in your life, but one that could present to you an image of how MORE awesome life would be as an adult. (how's that shit for a run-on sentence? you're not the only one with ADD now! )

That is.....if you wanted to. Like, really wanted to. It doesn't seem like you have anything more than a passing interest in it though.

you can be a starving artist, but hon....you're not starving. you're living at home with mom and letting her do everything. sorry, but that's the truth. be the starving artist, there's nothing wrong with that! there are many right here, on the org! but the point is, they're doing what they want to do as an adult, and living around the disadvantages, instead of just talking about that shit.

last bit of advice, totally go to votech! become a welder, or work with metal, or be a mechanic. or a carpenter, there are tons of wood frame homes in dirty jersey. Totally focus on doing something with your hands. I don't care if you have to drive to Plainfield every day, just do it! Hair...meh, salons are catty fucking places. not any place I'd want to be in..., plus you kind of have to be a "people person". Whatever you choose, CHOOSE IT ALREADY!

So, um, er.......what's you favorite native new jersey food? I recently introduced my wife and kids to the official jersey breakfast sandwich of taylor ham, egg and cheese on a roll, with ketchup of course.

Even the flexitarian wifey was all like "omg, that is so fucking good!" and she NEVER eats pork.

go ahead, let the jokes fly.

trenton tomato pies

Shorty said:

purplemookiebut said:

trenton tomato pies

all that stuff he said to you and all you replied to what's your favorite jersey food?

EXACTLY.

Jerseykrs never ever has given even one of my posts more then a sentence and an emoticon.

He completely thinks out all of her possibilities and she just blows it off - or at least appears to- by simply talking about the food.

ps, all of the people I met who were adults and yet thought like minors were very lonely. They didn't know how to have a relationship with another person and most of them rented rooms in rooming houses and were single. It is just sad. Once the enabling parents become elderly the whole story gets very ugly, very quickly.