7souls said:

HotGritz said:

Stop talking to these losers! We females are too generous I swear.

We females are too generous?

Don't hurt your arm patting yourself on the back.

I stand by my statement. Women waste valuable time talking to and worrying about the opinions of lesser men.

Lesser men on the other hand...will bang whatever jiggles.

And nah....my arm don't hurt at all! I'm not that generous.

shootindabreeze said:

Lose the Chuck Taylors.....I hate those on women..... Otherwise you are very pretty.....do you have man hands? lol It is their loss pickles....

yeah, but you are an OLD guy kids wear them!

I even wear them because I still feel like a kid

mcmeekle said:

Have you given any thought with regards to becoming slutty in some way?

Some of my best friends are sluts and that seems to work for them. If you don't have any immediate success with that try becoming a drunken slut, that might increase your chances.

Hope that helps!

orger said:

Fauxie said:

Exactly, well said.

I mean, for example, I could choke the shit out of you, and you know I could. I could do it in my sleep. I'd certainly do it in yours. But I'm secure, there's no drama here. I'm not giving off anything but secure security. You just don't find me attractive is all, and that's cool, because I'm totally secure. I guess what I'm trying to say is I'd like to try to get you banned if given half a chance.

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I've probably had more genuine laughs reading your posts than any other orgers thru the years...

That's very flattering, thanks! Nice to know I can make ppl laugh sometimes.

if you can't fuck'em, ignore them

perhaps you should stop dousing yourself in perfume..? that's a turnoff

shootindabreeze said:

Lose the Chuck Taylors.....I hate those on women..... Otherwise you are very pretty.....do you have man hands? lol It is their loss pickles....

that explains why men ignore me too i guess

PicklesMcMillan said:

That "incident" happened 2 years ago and i havent had sex since

i dont "think" i have reputation from that

so i dont know if that quailfies

we make mistakes and i definitely learned my lesson

i can relate 2 u. i made it to 27. ok it wasn't only one night but it was a month long fling...its been nearly 2 yrs since.

i intimidate guys with my tattoos.

but i love converse too....

HotGritz said:

You seem stupid.....

That might be it.

Lol

Men ignore me too

Girrrl RUN!! You's about to get org-proposed to or org-married!!!

Good advice for the most part from others....It's not you honey.....Boys can be so immature. I dealt with that in college as well..and I always doubted myself..."I'm too tall for him anyway", "I'm not funny enough"...."Maybe I should sleep with him..what's the big deal?"...They were never ending with me. I could never understand how I could be cool with a guy one minute and the next day he's all ice like we weren't just kicking it a couple a days ago. But I had alot of work to do on myself so...

It's not you trust me...work on yourself..on being more confident....you are cute...you're smart.... in college doing your thing....you have everything going for you it seems. Dont waste your time on losers. There are plenty out there. Someone will come along who you deserve and will be smart enough to know he deserves you soon enough... you're only 20 for chrissakes

Men ignore me too. Unless they want answers or notes from me.

Bunch of stinkers.

Girl, you are TWENTY! Yes TWENTY. Don't focus on getting attention from guys. Your worth isn't deremined by how many heads you turn. You are more than just a pretty face. You are smart, witty, and cool. You have your own intrests and hobbies. Focus on being young and silly...being twenty! You are a respectable woman, and most men pass on the respectable ones cause u probably give off the vibe that you a not just another stupid girl or easy pussy. Think of it as a compliment. Rejection is God's protection from an asshole. Don't worry in due time romance will find you and it will be from a guy who will see all those qualities in you. And he won't be afraid to pass over you cause u are a treasure. And NO I'm not just saying that.

I'm gonna say it again! Avoid the less evolved men. They are a waste of your time. You can't fix something that is irrevocably broken. You are too young to be somebody's momma/counselor.

Find somebody similar to yourself who shares your same likes/dislikes and values and has their shit together. Sure it's going to be hard cuz the world is overrun with idiots but you won't find the right guy by complaining on the org.

The topic should be called why do punks ignore me? well because they are. And honestly you're very cute. You should just focus on being what makes you you...there's already so much going on in school/college and life in general for you im sure...no rush needed at all you're young...some men are just weird as are some women. and really if you let go of the "what ifs" it will go alot better.

NMuzakNSoul said:

The topic should be called why do punks ignore me? well because they are. And honestly you're very cute. You should just focus on being what makes you you...there's already so much going on in school/college and life in general for you im sure...no rush needed at all you're young...some men are just weird as are some women. and really if you let go of the "what ifs" it will go alot better.

Bravo Nick!

HotGritz said:

NMuzakNSoul said:

The topic should be called why do punks ignore me? well because they are. And honestly you're very cute. You should just focus on being what makes you you...there's already so much going on in school/college and life in general for you im sure...no rush needed at all you're young...some men are just weird as are some women. and really if you let go of the "what ifs" it will go alot better.

Bravo Nick!

Thanks R to the Y.

ZombieKitten said:

mcmeekle said:

Have you given any thought with regards to becoming slutty in some way?

Some of my best friends are sluts and that seems to work for them. If you don't have any immediate success with that try becoming a drunken slut, that might increase your chances.

Hope that helps!

You were the first person to pop into my head when I thought "slut".......

In the nicest possible way.

mcmeekle said:

ZombieKitten said:

You were the first person to pop into my head when I thought "slut".......

In the nicest possible way.

I'm making progress!

lyecry said:

Rejection is God's protection from an asshole.

And saves you a lot of time being in a bad relationship.

Better spend that time doing things that make you happy. Nobody can do that for you but yourself.

Her focus right now really should be school. A lot of people get knocked up in college and don't finish. Or don't finish for familiy or finacial reasons. Having a guy right now would be a distraction. I know everyone is doing the "I'm independent at school, I can have a man" dating. That's cool in all, but she don't need to be moping distracted thinking about how some guy did this and that while trying to sit in class. Plus, at college everyone knows everybody. She don't need to be worried about why the her man was all in the girl who stays three rooms down face.

Have fun.

Get your degree.

Become finacially stable.

Secure your life.

Having a man is a bonus to the life you already live.

Couldn't agree more.

Don't waist your money on trends. Save it up, make sure you build a good financial track record, get financially independent. That will set you free to decide for yourself.

Know what makes your hart grow fond and invest your time and energy in that.

IN my experience the women who focus on a relationship to became happy draw the short end...

abigail05 said:

Guys don't really set out to ignore anyone. But then again we will ignore anyone who's annoying.

Fix that and it will get better.

Oh lawd...I though you were a girl too.

You're young. Relax and enjoy your life. The rest of that shit will all happen soon enough and then you'll be longing for the innocent, uncomplicated days of yore.