PicklesMcMillan said:

mcmeekle said:

Have you given any thought with regards to becoming slutty in some way?

Some of my best friends are sluts and that seems to work for them. If you don't have any immediate success with that try becoming a drunken slut, that might increase your chances.

Hope that helps!

i've given slutty a try and it doesnt work for me , seriously

Don't get taken out like that.............

PicklesMcMillan said:

JoeTyler said:

hmmm, maybe cuz

a) he tried to be polite that day

b) he's a shy guy but that day he felt confident

c) he wanted to see if you were "easy"

d) he was expecting YOU to talk to him the following day, perhaps out of vanity, or maybe because he thought that it was your turn...

i tried ..i usally look their way and on the brink of saying "hey"

they act very avoidant and quickly look the other way

i remember i walked some guy to class becuase it was raining and we talked

then no "thanks" or "hey" the next day

im like damn! cold-blooded!

the guys of your college are weird

I mean, if some girl walked me to class because it was raining, I would have invited her to a cup of coffee after class or something

weird guys, ... try to a find a boyfriend someplace else, I MEAN IT

Genesia said:

PicklesMcMillan said:

i've given slutty a try and it doesnt work for me , seriously

If you're still a virgin, you haven't really given slutty a try.

im not a virgin......... and i never had a boyfriend.. oh yes, i've given slutty a try alright

i lost my virginity in a one night stand to a frat boy who was from outta town. if that's not slutty i dont know what is

PicklesMcMillan said:

JoeTyler said:

hmmm, maybe cuz

a) he tried to be polite that day

b) he's a shy guy but that day he felt confident

c) he wanted to see if you were "easy"

d) he was expecting YOU to talk to him the following day, perhaps out of vanity, or maybe because he thought that it was your turn...

i tried ..i usally look their way and on the brink of saying "hey"

they act very avoidant and quickly look the other way

i remember i walked some guy to class becuase it was raining and we talked

then no "thanks" or "hey" the next day

im like damn! cold-blooded!

I don't understand this. Why would you walk a guy to class because it's raining? Does something happen to his legs in wet weather?

PicklesMcMillan said:

Genesia said:

If you're still a virgin, you haven't really given slutty a try.

im not a virgin......... and i never had a boyfriend.. oh yes, i've given slutty a try alright

i lost my virginity in a one night stand to a frat boy who was from outta town. if that's not slutty i dont know what is

Ohhh...okay. For some reason, I thought you were. Carry on. I mean...well...you know...

Graycap23 said:

PicklesMcMillan said:

i've given slutty a try and it doesnt work for me , seriously

Don't get taken out like that.............

dont worry, i know slutty is not the way to go..

That "incident" happened 2 years ago and i havent had sex since

i dont "think" i have reputation from that

so i dont know if that quailfies

we make mistakes and i definitely learned my lesson

I think it's funny that almost everyone seems to think it's about looks.

Clearly you're attractive, but if you're going into a situation anxious and expecting a game to eventually begin you're definitely giving that off to a dude right away. No guy wants to deal with any drama.

Genesia said:

PicklesMcMillan said:

i tried ..i usally look their way and on the brink of saying "hey"

they act very avoidant and quickly look the other way

i remember i walked some guy to class becuase it was raining and we talked

then no "thanks" or "hey" the next day

im like damn! cold-blooded!

I don't understand this. Why would you walk a guy to class because it's raining? Does something happen to his legs in wet weather?

he ask could he walk with me and get under my umbrella i said sure !

i was doing it to be nice..

i should have said hell no bitch! and kept it moving

JustErin said:

I think it's funny that almost everyone seems to think it's about looks.

Clearly you're attractive, but if you're going into a situation anxious and expecting a game to eventually begin you're definitely giving that off to a dude right away. No guy wants to deal with any drama.

mm ...thanks i will take that into consideration next time

PicklesMcMillan said:

Genesia said:

I don't understand this. Why would you walk a guy to class because it's raining? Does something happen to his legs in wet weather?

he ask could he walk with me and get under my umbrella i said sure !

i was doing it to be nice..

i should have said hell no bitch! and kept it moving

Okay...your expectations are unrealistic. And you seem to have a little passive/aggressive thing going, too. Try simply being pleasant and, if the occasion arises and it doesn't inconvenience you, doing things for people without expecting anything from them in return.

JustErin said:

I think it's funny that almost everyone seems to think it's about looks.

Clearly you're attractive, but if you're going into a situation anxious and expecting a game to eventually begin you're definitely giving that off to a dude right away. No guy wants to deal with any drama.

Well put.

PicklesMcMillan said:

JustErin said:

I think it's funny that almost everyone seems to think it's about looks.

Clearly you're attractive, but if you're going into a situation anxious and expecting a game to eventually begin you're definitely giving that off to a dude right away. No guy wants to deal with any drama.

mm ...thanks i will take that into consideration next time

And....we are unable to ascertain if you smell from the photos you posted. So that could be a factor.

Genesia said:

PicklesMcMillan said:

he ask could he walk with me and get under my umbrella i said sure !

i was doing it to be nice..

i should have said hell no bitch! and kept it moving

Okay...your expectations are unrealistic. And you seem to have a little passive/aggressive thing going, too. Try simply being pleasant and, if the occasion arises and it doesn't inconvenience you, doing things for people without expecting anything from them in return.

ahh..thank you

seems like the ladies are giving me honest soild advice... preicate cha

PicklesMcMillan said:

Fauxie said:

Only if it's someone I know reasonably well, like a friend. Otherwise why would I care?

For the record, I would ignore you even less than JerseyKRS

damn fauxie, you're making me blush

you know what ..you made me kinda figure out what the issue is ..

I hope I helped. You can't necessarily control how guys will be (except if you follow the slut suggestion mcmeekle came up with lol), but you can control yourself, be the person you want to be and think you should be. That's enough already. The rest of it falls into place. Maybe you're not as secure as you liked to think, I don't know. Hot is hot. Cute is cute. Shy can be cute, but insecurity is wearing. It takes an extra effort. Secure is hot. You're very cute already, so maybe you just need to be a little more secure in yourself. You don't have to be really 'out there' and confident to be secure. You can be shy and still secure. You're picklesmcmillan, cute and pretty cool just as you are, you don't need anything more, but if it comes that's alright, right? I don't know, just trying to help.

Genesia said:

JustErin said:

I think it's funny that almost everyone seems to think it's about looks.

Clearly you're attractive, but if you're going into a situation anxious and expecting a game to eventually begin you're definitely giving that off to a dude right away. No guy wants to deal with any drama.

Well put.

You know, I'm beginning to think Erin is really a dude ( I kid! She's definitely not that). I'm just saying I've been noticing her posts alot lately, and damn if she isn't spot-on with the way a lot of dudes think (specifically, me).

mcmeekle said:

PicklesMcMillan said:

mm ...thanks i will take that into consideration next time

And....we are unable to ascertain if you smell from the photos you posted. So that could be a factor.

idk ..i try to keep my breath game and body odor game at an A +

i always ask my friends if im stinking.. they say no.. im very self- concouis about that..

PicklesMcMillan said:

mcmeekle said:

And....we are unable to ascertain if you smell from the photos you posted. So that could be a factor.

idk ..i try to keep my breath game and body odor game at an A +

i always ask my friends if im stinking.. they say no.. im very self- concouis about that..

I'm sure you smell lovely.

I think you need to relax, not think about getting a man, and just be yourself. Then, I'm sure, you'll happen upon someone in no time.

Or, you'll die a lonely old spinster.

But probably the first one!

JustErin said:

I think it's funny that almost everyone seems to think it's about looks.

Clearly you're attractive, but if you're going into a situation anxious and expecting a game to eventually begin you're definitely giving that off to a dude right away. No guy wants to deal with any drama.

Exactly, well said.

I mean, for example, I could choke the shit out of you, and you know I could. I could do it in my sleep. I'd certainly do it in yours. But I'm secure, there's no drama here. I'm not giving off anything but secure security. You just don't find me attractive is all, and that's cool, because I'm totally secure. I guess what I'm trying to say is I'd like to try to get you banned if given half a chance.

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Fauxie said:

PicklesMcMillan said:

damn fauxie, you're making me blush

you know what ..you made me kinda figure out what the issue is ..

I hope I helped. You can't necessarily control how guys will be (except if you follow the slut suggestion mcmeekle came up with lol), but you can control yourself, be the person you want to be and think you should be. That's enough already. The rest of it falls into place. Maybe you're not as secure as you liked to think, I don't know. Hot is hot. Cute is cute. Shy can be cute, but insecurity is wearing. It takes an extra effort. Secure is hot. You're very cute already, so maybe you just need to be a little more secure in yourself. You don't have to be really 'out there' and confident to be secure. You can be shy and still secure. You're picklesmcmillan, cute and pretty cool just as you are, you don't need anything more, but if it comes that's alright, right? I don't know, just trying to help.

you know what insecurity is probably what is it is..

i kinda feel embarrased like a littlle child when someone shows interest

my mind set is like wow!! are you really interest in me!?...im just a lame-0

it should be you like me becuase im awesome.. end of story

PicklesMcMillan said:

Fauxie said:

I hope I helped. You can't necessarily control how guys will be (except if you follow the slut suggestion mcmeekle came up with lol), but you can control yourself, be the person you want to be and think you should be. That's enough already. The rest of it falls into place. Maybe you're not as secure as you liked to think, I don't know. Hot is hot. Cute is cute. Shy can be cute, but insecurity is wearing. It takes an extra effort. Secure is hot. You're very cute already, so maybe you just need to be a little more secure in yourself. You don't have to be really 'out there' and confident to be secure. You can be shy and still secure. You're picklesmcmillan, cute and pretty cool just as you are, you don't need anything more, but if it comes that's alright, right? I don't know, just trying to help.

you know what insecurity is probably what is it is..

i kinda feel embarrased like a littlle child when someone shows interest

my mind set is like wow!! are you really interest in me!?...im just a lame-0

it should be you like me becuase im awesome.. end of story

Be yourself and be happy, or try to make some changes to your life if you think it'll make you happier. Don't try to be more attractive, just try to be happier. Be a nice person.

Let's not forget that guys around that age are such dumbasses. And it never really changes.

You should find that nice quiet guy that's sort of a dork but will treat you right. That would've been me

In the meantime, just be yourself, you seem like a great girl

there's's nothing wrong with you. maybe, bad timing is the issue. love is something you can't force or hurry. hope you find the right person for you soon

Ur beautiful Pickles the guy is a loser-move on and find somebody worthy of ur time

thanks everyone for the input/advice

you have no idea how much i really really really really preicate your input

Stop talking to these losers! We females are too generous I swear.

Fauxie said:

Exactly, well said.

I mean, for example, I could choke the shit out of you, and you know I could. I could do it in my sleep. I'd certainly do it in yours. But I'm secure, there's no drama here. I'm not giving off anything but secure security. You just don't find me attractive is all, and that's cool, because I'm totally secure. I guess what I'm trying to say is I'd like to try to get you banned if given half a chance.

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I've probably had more genuine laughs reading your posts than any other orgers thru the years...

It seems to me that it's all about your attitude.

When you believe highly in yourself. It shows in the way that you carry yourself.

Just love yourself and be happy with who you are. Looks help but self-assurance will have you beating men back with a stick.

Pardon me for a moment...while I remember my 20's. Good Times!!!! Good Times!!!!

Anyhoo...

Just remember to also be careful and very selective...many of them won't be worthy your time...anyway! Good luck to you!

HotGritz said:

Stop talking to these losers! We females are too generous I swear.

We females are too generous?

Don't hurt your arm patting yourself on the back.