I've never been with a virgin, although I had one girl lie to me about it. I'm one of those guys who would feel like he hit the lottery if he ever got the chance to be someone's first. Of course, if everything else was right between us, I'd also want to be her last.

2

1st was my 1st too ~ it was everything good that a 1st time should be ... it didn't "just happen" it was talked about A LOT 1st

2nd one ... ehh was okay ~ at 20ish I didn't wanna "teach" I just wanted to fuck

None here.

xpertluva said:

I've never been with a virgin, although I had one girl lie to me about it. I'm one of those guys who would feel like he hit the lottery if he ever got the chance to be someone's first. Of course, if everything else was right between us, I'd also want to be her last.

Back then when I still was a virgin I always hated it when men wanted to know if I still was and I was always lying about it as I considered it creepy that a man might want to be with me more just because he was my first.

What exactly is the fascination for you?

Serious said:

xpertluva said:

I've never been with a virgin, although I had one girl lie to me about it. I'm one of those guys who would feel like he hit the lottery if he ever got the chance to be someone's first. Of course, if everything else was right between us, I'd also want to be her last.

Back then when I still was a virgin I always hated it when men wanted to know if I still was and I was always lying about it as I considered it creepy that a man might want to be with me more just because he was my first.

What exactly is the fascination for you?

I wouldn't necessarily call it a fascination. I'd just feel priviledged if a woman chose me to be her first. If she's a virgin and of a certain age, she obviously thinks a lot of herself and choosing me as her first would mean she thinks a lot of me. She has essentially waited her entire life just for me. I guess it appleals to my vanity.

Besides, I take commitments and relationships very seriously. If I let someone into my world and gave her my all, it would be nice to know she isn't just another notch in someone else's belt! Not to imply that a woman who isn't a virgin, is automatically a whore, but I'd rather not have the picture of someone I love in another man's bed. Maybe I'm just plain 'ol selfish.

1. His 1st time was mines as well.

none...thank god

xpertluva said:

Serious said:

Back then when I still was a virgin I always hated it when men wanted to know if I still was and I was always lying about it as I considered it creepy that a man might want to be with me more just because he was my first.

What exactly is the fascination for you?

I wouldn't necessarily call it a fascination. I'd just feel priviledged if a woman chose me to be her first. If she's a virgin and of a certain age, she obviously thinks a lot of herself and choosing me as her first would mean she thinks a lot of me. She has essentially waited her entire life just for me. I guess it appleals to my vanity.

Besides, I take commitments and relationships very seriously. If I let someone into my world and gave her my all, it would be nice to know she isn't just another notch in someone else's belt! Not to imply that a woman who isn't a virgin, is automatically a whore, but I'd rather not have the picture of someone I love in another man's bed. Maybe I'm just plain 'ol selfish.

Thanks for explaining and for your honesty. I take relationships very seriously myself. Still I would not look for a man whose first I am, but I'd much rather be his last as you put it in your other post .

None...I think

One

Honestly, I don't think any.

three.

Two virgins...

One was one of the greatest sexual experiences I ever had. Took my time...nice and gentle...it was amazing.

The other virgin...I was drunk and sloppy. Sorry, Abby.

Ew, none.

as the great Costanza once said, "I don't want to be remembered, I want to be forgotten"

two...

the first was like ...

the second was more

FrenchGuy said:

One... Though it took many tries to "open the gate"

I don't get the obsession may men have for 'deflowering', though. I hated it.

You'll end up being her first one ever. Since most of the times, it's painful, done akwardly (I was ... 17 ), unless you mate with the girl and go a long way (thus improving your 'sexperience'), many girls usually hate their 'first-timer' or worse, he might get the 'bad fucker' label

I love open-minded women with (a lot of) experience. Nothing funny for me being the 'teacher'.

haha thats why it's great i got a vibrator so my first time wasn't terrible. i opened the gate myself

ZombieKitten said:

And was it weird to be someone's first, especially if it didn't mean that much to you?

(to answer my own question, ONE, and it was awesome )

Erm, two. Both times were horrible, not the sex part but they got all clingy afterward

One. He was my first as well.

I think some men are attracted to virgins due to a lack of confidence, they won't know if I am useless or my todger is small etc.

Of course this wouldn't be a problem to any male orgers cos obviously we all shag like total experts and have enormous great big willys

ZombieKitten said:

come ON! I've never seen THIS thread on the org before

truth is,

i'm still a virgin. there, it's out.

my daughters are just as shocked as i am.

but it's true. I AM A VIRGIN!!!

and at 55 years of age my cherry is

now a tree.

one day soon...

jackin da edit

[Edited 2/6/11 8:49am]

there are many types of virginity anyway...

xpertluva said:

Serious said:

Back then when I still was a virgin I always hated it when men wanted to know if I still was and I was always lying about it as I considered it creepy that a man might want to be with me more just because he was my first.

What exactly is the fascination for you?

I wouldn't necessarily call it a fascination. I'd just feel priviledged if a woman chose me to be her first. If she's a virgin and of a certain age, she obviously thinks a lot of herself and choosing me as her first would mean she thinks a lot of me. She has essentially waited her entire life just for me. I guess it appleals to my vanity.

Besides, I take commitments and relationships very seriously. If I let someone into my world and gave her my all, it would be nice to know she isn't just another notch in someone else's belt! Not to imply that a woman who isn't a virgin, is automatically a whore, but I'd rather not have the picture of someone I love in another man's bed. Maybe I'm just plain 'ol selfish.

some women, if they are still virgins at a later age are probably just keen to get rid of their v-card once and for all - not to say you won't be special, but the longer a woman is a virgin, the more pressure there is on her, the more expectations she will have and awkward and embarrassed she will feel (unless she is religious and/or has some moral reason for waiting).

ZombieKitten said:

xpertluva said:

I wouldn't necessarily call it a fascination. I'd just feel priviledged if a woman chose me to be her first. If she's a virgin and of a certain age, she obviously thinks a lot of herself and choosing me as her first would mean she thinks a lot of me. She has essentially waited her entire life just for me. I guess it appleals to my vanity.

Besides, I take commitments and relationships very seriously. If I let someone into my world and gave her my all, it would be nice to know she isn't just another notch in someone else's belt! Not to imply that a woman who isn't a virgin, is automatically a whore, but I'd rather not have the picture of someone I love in another man's bed. Maybe I'm just plain 'ol selfish.

some women, if they are still virgins at a later age are probably just keen to get rid of their v-card once and for all - not to say you won't be special, but the longer a woman is a virgin, the more pressure there is on her, the more expectations she will have and awkward and embarrassed she will feel (unless she is religious and/or has some moral reason for waiting).

none

but i have had my cherry popped once

typo!!!

[Edited 2/6/11 14:12pm]

Serious said:

ZombieKitten said:

some women, if they are still virgins at a later age are probably just keen to get rid of their v-card once and for all - not to say you won't be special, but the longer a woman is a virgin, the more pressure there is on her, the more expectations she will have and awkward and embarrassed she will feel (unless she is religious and/or has some moral reason for waiting).

I remember even at 18, halfway through my first year at college (where classmates were so far advanced than me in my opinion, I had a friend living with her partner, another engaged) I hadn't even been KISSED!

ZombieKitten said:

Serious said:

I remember even at 18, halfway through my first year at college (where classmates were so far advanced than me in my opinion, I had a friend living with her partner, another engaged) I hadn't even been KISSED!

Well the answer is.....zero, I havent even give mines away yet, hopefully one in this life, just one lol

BlackAdder7 said:

three thousand, two hundred and seventy five and a half

a half??