Serious said:

NDRU said:

that's part of it. It's weird to be a virgin at 38. Maybe not as weird (or gross) as having 500 women, but it's not normal. And wanting a 45 year old virgin is not normal either!!

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I am sure more people consider it weird to be a virgin at 38 than to have had 500 women. And people have more respect for the later too.

I wonder. I think they are both pretty abnormal.

The 500 might appear more normal on the surface, social & confident. I am sure the virgin would appear anti-social. But dig a little deeper, and 500 is probably going to have some serious issues.

ZombieKitten said:

NDRU said:

But now you've seen porn, right?

A couple of virgins should probably not start by hawking loogies in each others' bums, eh?

!!!!

(kids just ran in to ask why I am laughing "like a witch" )

there wasn't porn like THAT around when you were a virgin right?

back then ladies had BUSH!

no, I think the bad lesson I learned was to just start pounding away, and that every woman in movies (not just talking porn, now) is satisfied just from intercourse

NDRU said:

Serious said:

I am sure more people consider it weird to be a virgin at 38 than to have had 500 women. And people have more respect for the later too.

I wonder. I think they are both pretty abnormal.

The 500 might appear more normal on the surface, social & confident. I am sure the virgin would appear anti-social. But dig a little deeper, and 500 is probably going to have some serious issues.

Yeah.

I wonder if there are more 38 year old virgins around or men who have had 500 women at that age ?

NDRU said:

Serious said:

I am sure more people consider it weird to be a virgin at 38 than to have had 500 women. And people have more respect for the later too.

I wonder. I think they are both pretty abnormal.

The 500 might appear more normal on the surface, social & confident. I am sure the virgin would appear anti-social. But dig a little deeper, and 500 is probably going to have some serious issues.

it might be time for ZK to do the math

a guy MY age has had 500 partners, say he became sexually active at a conservative estimate of 16 years old, that's a different partner every fortnight. (NOT taking into consideration illness and/or work commitments).

For me, virgin beyond early 20s is suspect, but not a deal-breaker.

Serious said:

NDRU said:

I wonder. I think they are both pretty abnormal.

The 500 might appear more normal on the surface, social & confident. I am sure the virgin would appear anti-social. But dig a little deeper, and 500 is probably going to have some serious issues.

Yeah.

I wonder if there are more 38 year old virgins around or men who have had 500 women at that age ?

another good question

We should put some in a room together and see what wisdom they could impart to one another!

ZombieKitten said:

NDRU said:

But now you've seen porn, right?

A couple of virgins should probably not start by hawking loogies in each others' bums, eh?

!!!!

(kids just ran in to ask why I am laughing "like a witch" )

there wasn't porn like THAT around when you were a virgin right?

back then ladies had BUSH!

I only saw one or 2 porn movies before I think . And I was aware that real sex and life is different .

NDRU said:

ZombieKitten said:

!!!!

(kids just ran in to ask why I am laughing "like a witch" )

there wasn't porn like THAT around when you were a virgin right?

back then ladies had BUSH!

no, I think the bad lesson I learned was to just start pounding away, and that every woman in movies (not just talking porn, now) is satisfied just from intercourse

crap

Serious said:

ZombieKitten said:

!!!!

(kids just ran in to ask why I am laughing "like a witch" )

there wasn't porn like THAT around when you were a virgin right?

back then ladies had BUSH!

I only saw one or 2 porn movies before I think . And I was aware that real sex and life is different .

I saw all sorts of kinky shit, but all in magazines and books! and that gives nothing away when it comes to timing thank my lucky stars!!

Porn now would totally RUIN people, I never thought of that before

ZombieKitten said:

NDRU said:

no, I think the bad lesson I learned was to just start pounding away, and that every woman in movies (not just talking porn, now) is satisfied just from intercourse

crap

that was a long time ago:-)

ZombieKitten said:

Serious said:

I only saw one or 2 porn movies before I think . And I was aware that real sex and life is different .

I saw all sorts of kinky shit, but all in magazines and books! and that gives nothing away when it comes to timing thank my lucky stars!!

Porn now would totally RUIN people, I never thought of that before

it's just so totally easy accessable now and it paints a really wrong picture.

ZombieKitten said:

Serious said:

I only saw one or 2 porn movies before I think . And I was aware that real sex and life is different .

I saw all sorts of kinky shit, but all in magazines and books! and that gives nothing away when it comes to timing thank my lucky stars!!

Porn now would totally RUIN people, I never thought of that before

Yes, but I think most young men need to learn a lot, porn or not.

But I do I think that porn has something to do with these 40 year old virgins in some cases. I don't think the movie of that name is an accurate portrayal, I think most of them find satisfaction in porn and real women are either unapproachable or seem too real (flawed, possibly?)

ZombieKitten said:

NDRU said:

no, I think the bad lesson I learned was to just start pounding away, and that every woman in movies (not just talking porn, now) is satisfied just from intercourse

crap

NDRU said:

ZombieKitten said:

crap

that was a long time ago:-)

how old were you when it was your first time?

NDRU said:

ZombieKitten said:

I saw all sorts of kinky shit, but all in magazines and books! and that gives nothing away when it comes to timing thank my lucky stars!!

Porn now would totally RUIN people, I never thought of that before

Yes, but I think most young men need to learn a lot, porn or not.

But I do I think that porn has something to do with these 40 year old virgins in some cases. I don't think the movie of that name is an accurate portrayal, I think most of them find satisfaction in porn and real women are either unapproachable or seem too real (flawed, possibly?)

we should go back to college and write our thesises (thesii?) on this

ZombieKitten said:

NDRU said:

that was a long time ago:-)

how old were you when it was your first time?

more than half a lifetime ago. I was not that young, I'm just old now

NDRU said:

ZombieKitten said:

how old were you when it was your first time?

more than half a lifetime ago. I was not that young, I'm just old now

you know I'm way older

ZombieKitten said:

NDRU said:

Yes, but I think most young men need to learn a lot, porn or not.

But I do I think that porn has something to do with these 40 year old virgins in some cases. I don't think the movie of that name is an accurate portrayal, I think most of them find satisfaction in porn and real women are either unapproachable or seem too real (flawed, possibly?)

we should go back to college and write our thesises (thesii?) on this

I would begin: "Webster's dictionary defines sex as..."

ZombieKitten said:

NDRU said:

more than half a lifetime ago. I was not that young, I'm just old now

you know I'm way older

Not to mention me

ZombieKitten said:

NDRU said:

more than half a lifetime ago. I was not that young, I'm just old now

you know I'm way older

I still have a year of 30's

NDRU said:

ZombieKitten said:

you know I'm way older

I still have a year of 30's

NDRU said:

ZombieKitten said:

we should go back to college and write our thesises (thesii?) on this

I would begin: "Webster's dictionary defines sex as..."

hang on let me take notes!

ZombieKitten said:

NDRU said:

I would begin: "Webster's dictionary defines sex as..."

hang on let me take notes!

"...after 20 years of grueling research in the field..."

NDRU said:

ZombieKitten said:

you know I'm way older

I still have a year of 30's

39 was the age for me when I started to age ten times as quick as before .

Serious said:

NDRU said:

I still have a year of 30's

39 was the age for me when I started to age ten times as quick as before .

thanks for giving me something to look forward to. My mom said 60, but it's nice to know it's all relative and all downhill.

NDRU said:

Serious said:

39 was the age for me when I started to age ten times as quick as before .

thanks for giving me something to look forward to. My mom said 60, but it's nice to know it's all relative and all downhill.

You're welcome .

All right, bed-time for me, I will leave you two to sort this all out by morning!

Serious said:

NDRU said:

thanks for giving me something to look forward to. My mom said 60, but it's nice to know it's all relative and all downhill.

You're welcome .

I totally agree with 39

I used to look really good at age 36-37, but then WTF happened!!!

NDRU said:

All right, bed-time for me, I will leave you two to sort this all out by morning!

don't go, it's Friday night FFS!

sleep well, and think about that David Bowie haircut

NDRU said:

All right, bed-time for me, I will leave you two to sort this all out by morning!

Good night bestest friend !

ZombieKitten said:

Serious said:

You're welcome .

I totally agree with 39

I used to look really good at age 36-37, but then WTF happened!!!

I looked pretty good at 39 and everybody thought I was 10 years younger and then all went wrong .

You look young though .