what's wrong with sleeping?

PANDURITO said:

men that do that are sluts too

I wouldn't touch 'em

Oh there are several names for men who sleep around...

Slut, Man-whore, he-bitch, the list goes on

I'm not going to weigh in on what's right or wrong but I have an idea about why men who sleep around are regarded one way and women another. It's simply because women have "P Control". I've heard someone joke that men don't have sex, women do; it's a man's job to get it from women. With that in mind, it's quite an accomplishment for a man to persuade a bunch of women who have all the control to give it up to him. However, it's no big deal for a woman to entice a man into bed. So a woman who does this all the time is considered a slut.

xpertluva said:

I'm not going to weigh in on what's right or wrong but I have an idea about why men who sleep around are regarded one way and women another. It's simply because women have "P Control". I've heard someone joke that men don't have sex, women do; it's a man's job to get it from women. With that in mind, it's quite an accomplishment for a man to persuade a bunch of women who have all the control to give it up to him. However, it's no big deal for a woman to entice a man into bed. So a woman who does this all the time is considered a slut.

Traditionally, that would have been the case, with women brought up to say no and keep her legs closed. Now is more permissive times.

A guy that sleeps with 100s of women isn't REALLY having a hard time getting some

Some men totally prey on drunk women at closing time. They are degrading themselves and they probably don't even think of that. If you don't want to look at the woman the morning after but fucked her the night before?

no self-respect from either party

LOL @ Pandy...

I'm realizing there are a lot of fairly new people bringing up the same shit to discuss that was discussed years back in the GD Forum.....

So let's go down the line, women/men slut/player...interrracial relationships, ummm are you a bottom?, hey I broke a toilet at a nightclub... ummm what else folks?

KatSkrizzle said:

I'm realizing there are a lot of fairly new people bringing up the same shit to discuss that was discussed years back in the GD Forum.....

So let's go down the line, women/men slut/player...interrracial relationships, ummm are you a bottom?, hey I broke a toilet at a nightclub... ummm what else folks?

Stop it

johnart said:

KatSkrizzle said:

johnart said:

Stop it

Ambien martinis...what else? Photo-whoring boobs/wangs/butts

assdouching...hey I sait stop itttttttt.

Do women have respect for men that have slept around?

Or do men think that other men have respect for men that have slept around?

ZombieKitten said:

xpertluva said:

I'm not going to weigh in on what's right or wrong but I have an idea about why men who sleep around are regarded one way and women another. It's simply because women have "P Control". I've heard someone joke that men don't have sex, women do; it's a man's job to get it from women. With that in mind, it's quite an accomplishment for a man to persuade a bunch of women who have all the control to give it up to him. However, it's no big deal for a woman to entice a man into bed. So a woman who does this all the time is considered a slut.

Traditionally, that would have been the case, with women brought up to say no and keep her legs closed. Now is more permissive times.

A guy that sleeps with 100s of women isn't REALLY having a hard time getting some

Some men totally prey on drunk women at closing time. They are degrading themselves and they probably don't even think of that. If you don't want to look at the woman the morning after but fucked her the night before?

no self-respect from either party

Good point. I thought about that while I was typing my previous message. The notion that a man has to be charming and debonair or anything other than "willing" (generally speaking) to get into a woman's pants is becoming more and more of an antiquated notion. And to be honest, women really aren't judged as harshly as they once were for sleeping around. At the rate we're going, it'll be one big free-for-all eventually.

xpertluva said:

ZombieKitten said:

Traditionally, that would have been the case, with women brought up to say no and keep her legs closed. Now is more permissive times.

A guy that sleeps with 100s of women isn't REALLY having a hard time getting some

Some men totally prey on drunk women at closing time. They are degrading themselves and they probably don't even think of that. If you don't want to look at the woman the morning after but fucked her the night before?

no self-respect from either party

Good point. I thought about that while I was typing my previous message. The notion that a man has to be charming and debonair or anything other than "willing" (generally speaking) to get into a woman's pants is becoming more and more of an antiquated notion. And to be honest, women really aren't judged as harshly as they once were for sleeping around. At the rate we're going, it'll be one big free-for-all eventually.

But that's just happening very slowly and a long way to go. Women are still judged a lot harder than men. And even though men might be able to find women to sleep around easier they still have to look for them while the woman is still the one who has to say "no" or "yes" usually. I cannot count the men who I turned down in my life and I am very sure if I was a man as good or bed looking as I am as a woman, same background and personality, I would have had hardly any sex offers in my life, but I would have had to be the one to approach women instead of being approached all the time.

NDRU said:

Do women have respect for men that have slept around?

Or do men think that other men have respect for men that have slept around?

I sure don't, I think it's gross and I don't want to think about it!

xpertluva said:

ZombieKitten said:

Traditionally, that would have been the case, with women brought up to say no and keep her legs closed. Now is more permissive times.

A guy that sleeps with 100s of women isn't REALLY having a hard time getting some

Some men totally prey on drunk women at closing time. They are degrading themselves and they probably don't even think of that. If you don't want to look at the woman the morning after but fucked her the night before?

no self-respect from either party

Good point. I thought about that while I was typing my previous message. The notion that a man has to be charming and debonair or anything other than "willing" (generally speaking) to get into a woman's pants is becoming more and more of an antiquated notion. And to be honest, women really aren't judged as harshly as they once were for sleeping around. At the rate we're going, it'll be one big free-for-all eventually.

exactly, and amongst the Ys, if textsfromlastnight.com is anything to go by, it already is

NDRU said:

Do women have respect for men that have slept around?

Or do men think that other men have respect for men that have slept around?

No I don't, but I think many men do and some women too.

Serious said:

NDRU said:

Do women have respect for men that have slept around?

Or do men think that other men have respect for men that have slept around?

No I don't, but I think many men do and some women too.

I wonder why they would be impressed?

the only reason I could think of to be happy your man has had 100 partners is if you have had 99 and you don't want to feel bad

Serious said:

NDRU said:

Do women have respect for men that have slept around?

Or do men think that other men have respect for men that have slept around?

No I don't, but I think many men do and some women too.

I respect the ability to be at ease in any situation, including meeting women, but there comes a number at which it is gross to have been with so many people. To me it says something is seriously wrong with your ability to have normal relationships.

ZombieKitten said:

Serious said:

No I don't, but I think many men do and some women too.

I wonder why they would be impressed?

the only reason I could think of to be happy your man has had 100 partners is if you have had 99 and you don't want to feel bad

I think they are impressed that he could get so many women which must mean he's extra special . I doubt though that many women would look for a man like that as their future husband.

ZombieKitten said:

Serious said:

No I don't, but I think many men do and some women too.

I wonder why they would be impressed?

the only reason I could think of to be happy your man has had 100 partners is if you have had 99 and you don't want to feel bad

True, I think a woman wants a man to have had at least one who taught him what to do and what not to do, and beyond that probably don't want to think about it that much

NDRU said:

Serious said:

No I don't, but I think many men do and some women too.

I respect the ability to be at ease in any situation, including meeting women, but there comes a number at which it is gross to have been with so many people. To me it says something is seriously wrong with your ability to have normal relationships.

it says to me guy that has no standards, or is always on to the next one. Meaning = of no interest to me or my purposes

NDRU said:

Serious said:

No I don't, but I think many men do and some women too.

I respect the ability to be at ease in any situation, including meeting women, but there comes a number at which it is gross to have been with so many people. To me it says something is seriously wrong with your ability to have normal relationships.

I guess I respect that too, even though I have met men who had loads of women and were just creepy when trying .

IMO many men wish they would be just like them and that they can get women easily .

NDRU said:

ZombieKitten said:

I wonder why they would be impressed?

the only reason I could think of to be happy your man has had 100 partners is if you have had 99 and you don't want to feel bad

True, I think a woman wants a man to have had at least one who taught him what to do and what not to do, and beyond that probably don't want to think about it that much

My first was a virgin, and I was happy about that. In fact it was lovely to be each other's first one We were 18 and had seen enough porno mags to know what went where

NDRU said:

ZombieKitten said:

I wonder why they would be impressed?

the only reason I could think of to be happy your man has had 100 partners is if you have had 99 and you don't want to feel bad

True, I think a woman wants a man to have had at least one who taught him what to do and what not to do, and beyond that probably don't want to think about it that much

You really think so ? Men are not hard to teach .

ZombieKitten said:

NDRU said:

True, I think a woman wants a man to have had at least one who taught him what to do and what not to do, and beyond that probably don't want to think about it that much

My first was a virgin, and I was happy about that. In fact it was lovely to be each other's first one :mushy: We were 18 and had seen enough porno mags to know what went where

Same for me. We taught each other and it was totally cool and in a way more relaxed as we both were more comfortable.

Serious said:

NDRU said:

I respect the ability to be at ease in any situation, including meeting women, but there comes a number at which it is gross to have been with so many people. To me it says something is seriously wrong with your ability to have normal relationships.

I guess I respect that too, even though I have met men who had loads of women and were just creepy when trying .

IMO many men wish they would be just like them and that they can get women easily .

I think most men would just assume that every woman in the world only had eyes for them. They don't want to be like some other creepy whore man