PunkMistress said:

Serious said:

When it comes to men too?

of course.

But women's tits are nicer, apart from your man's of course ?

Serious said:

PunkMistress said:

of course.

But women's tits are nicer, apart from your man's of course ?

For the most part, yes. Some guys do have some bountiful moobies, though.

Chris is the exception, I gaze constantly at his crotch. He hates it.

PunkMistress said:

Serious said:

But women's tits are nicer, apart from your man's of course ?

For the most part, yes. Some guys do have some bountiful moobies, though.

Chris is the exception, I gaze constantly at his crotch. He hates it.

My boyfriend would love it if I did that (and of course I am not talking about Chris' crotch, but his ).

Serious said:

PunkMistress said:

For the most part, yes. Some guys do have some bountiful moobies, though.

Chris is the exception, I gaze constantly at his crotch. He hates it.

My boyfriend would love it if I did that (and of course I am not talking about Chris' crotch, but his ).

Between you and me, I don't think he really hates it.

PunkMistress said:

Serious said:

My boyfriend would love it if I did that (and of course I am not talking about Chris' crotch, but his ).

Between you and me, I don't think he really hates it.

That's how I expect him to be without having ever met him . Thank God he will never know .

your place of employment is not a sex shop is it?

I look at a spot on the bridge of a persons nose so my eyes don't dart back and forth trying to focus on their eyes. I find I connect with people much more when I look at their faces.

All around. I rarely make eye contact. Not because I'm lying or insecure or hiding something.......but because people make such a big deal out of making eye contact that now I find it lame to do it.

Although, I DO have a firm handshake.

TotalANXiousNESS said:

All around. I rarely make eye contact. Not because I'm lying or insecure or hiding something.......but because people make such a big deal out of making eye contact that now I find it lame to do it.

Although, I DO have a firm handshake.

You're a woman! Making eye contact is FAR more important than having a firm handshake.

Cerebus said:

I look at a spot on the bridge of a persons nose so my eyes don't dart back and forth trying to focus on their eyes. I find I connect with people much more when I look at their faces.

I generally look people in their eyes, but if I am having trouble hearing or understanding them I'll look at their mouth as they speak.

Cerebus said:

TotalANXiousNESS said:

All around. I rarely make eye contact. Not because I'm lying or insecure or hiding something.......but because people make such a big deal out of making eye contact that now I find it lame to do it.

Although, I DO have a firm handshake.

You're a woman! Making eye contact is FAR more important than having a firm handshake.

MOTHER.

FUCKER.

Well I'll have to do something about that. But seriously, (I really am being serious here) I always felt like a tool making eye contact. Do you glance for a moment, look away, glance, look away? Or do you just keep staring at their eyes???? I don't think I can do it with a straight face.

TotalANXiousNESS said:

Cerebus said:

You're a woman! Making eye contact is FAR more important than having a firm handshake.

MOTHER.

FUCKER.

Well I'll have to do something about that. But seriously, (I really am being serious here) I always felt like a tool making eye contact. Do you glance for a moment, look away, glance, look away? Or do you just keep staring at their eyes???? I don't think I can do it with a straight face.

The only time I don't make constant eye contact is when I am intimidated, which seldom happens...except when it happened a week or so ago.

BlackAdder7 said:

Cerebus said:

I look at a spot on the bridge of a persons nose so my eyes don't dart back and forth trying to focus on their eyes. I find I connect with people much more when I look at their faces.

Nah, but seriously, ya know when somebody is talking to you, or like, in a movie when one character is looking directly at another characters face and their eyes start darting back and forth trying to pick an eye to focus on? That SERIOUSLY makes me get all agitated and want to start yelling and stuff. If you look at one eye, a spot on the bridge of their nose or a spot directly in between their eyebrows it still appears to them as if you're looking at their eyes but YOUR eyes don't do the darting thing.

Siiiiigh. Something in my gut is telling me that maybe this doesn't bother very many people other people and I've just said too much.

Cerebus said:

BlackAdder7 said:

Nah, but seriously, ya know when somebody is talking to you, or like, in a movie when one character is looking directly at another characters face and their eyes start darting back and forth trying to pick an eye to focus on? That SERIOUSLY makes me get all agitated and want to start yelling and stuff. If you look at one eye, a spot on the bridge of their nose or a spot directly in between their eyebrows it still appears to them as if you're looking at their eyes but YOUR eyes don't do the darting thing.

Siiiiigh. Something in my gut is telling me that maybe this doesn't bother very many people other people and I've just said too much.

it's okay we all have some form of ocd. you're just happens to be darting eyes.

JustErin said:

TotalANXiousNESS said:

MOTHER.

FUCKER.

Well I'll have to do something about that. But seriously, (I really am being serious here) I always felt like a tool making eye contact. Do you glance for a moment, look away, glance, look away? Or do you just keep staring at their eyes???? I don't think I can do it with a straight face.

The only time I don't make constant eye contact is when I am intimidated, which seldom happens...except when it happened a week or so ago.

That would just make me hold it even longer! And yes, constant eye contact. It's something I've practiced for many years. Started when I was around, err, seventeen, I think. So over twenty years now. Speaking clearly at the correct volume level while making constant eye contact is a very powerful tool. And it's free! Anyone can do it. Also, don't stand with your hands in your pockets like a frump. Don't rock of shuffle from one foot to the other while standing in place. Keep you hands visible while sitting at a desk if someone is across from you. Umm... what else? Oh, don't pull or adjust your clothing obsessively. Body language is really important because other people read it and process it even if they don't realize they're doing it.

What did the MOTHER. FUCKER. mean, though? I mean, a firm handshake is fine, but I still shake hands with many women who do the feminie shake, which I think is fine. I don't judge a womans handshake. If a man gives me the finger shake, or the barely touching shake, or the slide in and out quicky, THAT will make me raise an eyebrow with a quickness.

BlackAdder7 said:

Cerebus said:

Nah, but seriously, ya know when somebody is talking to you, or like, in a movie when one character is looking directly at another characters face and their eyes start darting back and forth trying to pick an eye to focus on? That SERIOUSLY makes me get all agitated and want to start yelling and stuff. If you look at one eye, a spot on the bridge of their nose or a spot directly in between their eyebrows it still appears to them as if you're looking at their eyes but YOUR eyes don't do the darting thing.

Siiiiigh. Something in my gut is telling me that maybe this doesn't bother very many people other people and I've just said too much.

it's okay we all have some form of ocd. you're just happens to be darting eyes.

Thank you for the support... and for not pointing out my bad gammar.

Cerebus said:

JustErin said:

The only time I don't make constant eye contact is when I am intimidated, which seldom happens...except when it happened a week or so ago.

That would just make me hold it even longer! And yes, constant eye contact. It's something I've practiced for many years. Started when I was around, err, seventeen, I think. So over twenty years now. Speaking clearly at the correct volume level while making constant eye contact is a very powerful tool. And it's free! Anyone can do it. Also, don't stand with your hands in your pockets like a frump. Don't rock of shuffle from one foot to the other while standing in place. Keep you hands visible while sitting at a desk if someone is across from you. Umm... what else? Oh, don't pull or adjust your clothing obsessively. Body language is really important because other people read it and process it even if they don't realize they're doing it.

What did the MOTHER. FUCKER. mean, though? I mean, a firm handshake is fine, but I still shake hands with many women who do the feminie shake, which I think is fine. I don't judge a womans handshake. If a man gives me the finger shake, or the barely touching shake, or the slide in and out quicky, THAT will make me raise an eyebrow with a quickness.

I fidget a lot when I'm talking to people.

Mother Fucker, I say jokingly when something is wrong. Jokingly. Guess it only works in person.

TotalANXiousNESS said:

Cerebus said:

That would just make me hold it even longer! And yes, constant eye contact. It's something I've practiced for many years. Started when I was around, err, seventeen, I think. So over twenty years now. Speaking clearly at the correct volume level while making constant eye contact is a very powerful tool. And it's free! Anyone can do it. Also, don't stand with your hands in your pockets like a frump. Don't rock of shuffle from one foot to the other while standing in place. Keep you hands visible while sitting at a desk if someone is across from you. Umm... what else? Oh, don't pull or adjust your clothing obsessively. Body language is really important because other people read it and process it even if they don't realize they're doing it.

What did the MOTHER. FUCKER. mean, though? I mean, a firm handshake is fine, but I still shake hands with many women who do the feminie shake, which I think is fine. I don't judge a womans handshake. If a man gives me the finger shake, or the barely touching shake, or the slide in and out quicky, THAT will make me raise an eyebrow with a quickness.

I fidget a lot when I'm talking to people.

Mother Fucker, I say jokingly when something is wrong. Jokingly. Guess it only works in person.

No, that's how I took it. Like, "well MOTHER FUCKER!" I just wanted to be sure.

I'm pretty bad at eye contact. I think I tend to look off to the side when I'm talking. I try to save my looking for when they're talking.

BlackAdder7 said:

Cerebus said:

Nah, but seriously, ya know when somebody is talking to you, or like, in a movie when one character is looking directly at another characters face and their eyes start darting back and forth trying to pick an eye to focus on? That SERIOUSLY makes me get all agitated and want to start yelling and stuff. If you look at one eye, a spot on the bridge of their nose or a spot directly in between their eyebrows it still appears to them as if you're looking at their eyes but YOUR eyes don't do the darting thing.

Siiiiigh. Something in my gut is telling me that maybe this doesn't bother very many people other people and I've just said too much.

it's okay we all have some form of ocd. you're just happens to be darting eyes.

now i'm thinking of the hangman scene in graffiti bridge and the kid eyes looking at aura when she wakes up to fall in love with the first person she sees....he's eyes darting around looking at her

"Look at me when I'm talking to you".

I know its a sign of respect to eyeball people when they speak to you, but for some reason I always get distracted whenever I do it and I only end up hearing 1/2 of what they're saying. Thats why I always stare into space for effective listening.

I wouldn't hire ANY of you people.

Cerebus said:

I wouldn't hire ANY of you people.

And none of us would work for you. Perfect!

FauxReal said:

Cerebus said:

I wouldn't hire ANY of you people.

And none of us would work for you. Perfect!

Whatever. You really have no idea what I'm like as a boss. Since I wouldn't hire 95% of the neurotic, low self-esteem, socially inept braincells around this place I can assure you that I'm much calmer when working than I am at the Org.

Cerebus said:

FauxReal said:

And none of us would work for you. Perfect!

Whatever. You really have no idea what I'm like as a boss. Since I wouldn't hire 95% of the neurotic, low self-esteem, socially inept braincells around this place I can assure you that I'm much calmer when working than I am at the Org.

I'm just giving you shit. I realize I have no idea what you're like as a boss.

The eyes, adam's apple, or stomach.

Cerebus said:

FauxReal said:

And none of us would work for you. Perfect!

Whatever. You really have no idea what I'm like as a boss. Since I wouldn't hire 95% of the neurotic, low self-esteem, socially inept braincells around this place I can assure you that I'm much calmer when working than I am at the Org.

You called?

The eyes, always.

BlackAdder7 said:

your place of employment is not a sex shop is it?

why do u need a job??????