kpowers said:

Catwoman....She scratch me and destroyed 7 bulidings in Gothams water front.

Still going through it. I mean, it's been the only breakup I've experienced but it's been a bitch

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My first boyfriend broke up with me about 3 times The first one was AWFUL, the next 2 times I didn't think he meant it, and in the end I broke it off properly over the phone

The master broke up with me in Jan 96 but I refused to accept it pretended it never happened. We got back together at some stage during the year, but never officially. It was awful not knowing, the uncertainty. He proposed the following year.

Having to sell my Black Sabbath collection years ago for a bag of crack.

I was farking devestated.

Mind you the crack was top drawer.

BlackAdder7 said:

kpowers said:

Catwoman....She scratch me and destroyed 7 bulidings in Gothams water front.

Yeah it was a bad breakup, but now I can look back and laugh about it

Alej said:

Still going through it. I mean, it's been the only breakup I've experienced but it's been a bitch

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I haven't seen you in 500 years!

KatSkrizzle said:

Alej said:

Still going through it. I mean, it's been the only breakup I've experienced but it's been a bitch

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I haven't seen you in 500 years!

The break up I had in 2009

crying

couldn't listen to music at all for about 6 months

couldn't sleep or eat

emotional wreck

lost weight

My heart was physically in pain, felt abandoned, misunderstood, betrayed.

I don't drink so I just read alot and surrounded myself with my real friends and family.

My sisters were there for me alot.

Not completely over it but close. I can smile and I'm having a whole lot of fun dating and partying with my young man

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PurpleJedi said:

What was you most painful breakup ever?

How did you cope?

What did you feel?

How much alcophol did it take????

Have you gotten completely over it????????????????/

I'm sorry your going through this. I don't wish this on my worst enemy. Always know that things happen for a reason. One closed path always leads to another...

What was you most painful breakup ever? When I broke up with the man I had considered the love of my life at the time.

How did you cope? Stayed around friends and family. Did a lot of crying, couldn't eat, couldn't sleep, had panic attacks, everything. Had to go see a counselor eventually.

What did you feel? A combination of a lot of hurt, anger, disappointment, frustration and betrayal.

How much alcohol did it take???? Can't quite remember how much alcohol I drunk during that time, but I do know there was a lot wine and Jack n' Cokes involved.

Have you gotten completely over it???????????????? For the most part, yes.

I'm going through a breakup right now, but it's not as intense as the breakup I went through above. It's only been a week and though I'm disappointed by the breakup I can see the light at the end of the tunnel...it took me over a year to get to that point with the break up I mentioned above.

missfee said:

What was you most painful breakup ever? When I broke up with the man I had considered the love of my life at the time.

How did you cope? Stayed around friends and family. Did a lot of crying, couldn't eat, couldn't sleep, had panic attacks, everything. Had to go see a counselor eventually.

What did you feel? A combination of a lot of hurt, anger, disappointment, frustration and betrayal.

How much alcohol did it take???? Can't quite remember how much alcohol I drunk during that time, but I do know there was a lot wine and Jack n' Cokes involved.

Have you gotten completely over it???????????????? For the most part, yes.

I'm going through a breakup right now, but it's not as intense as the breakup I went through above. It's only been a week and though I'm disappointed by the breakup I can see the light at the end of the tunnel...it took me over a year to get to that point with the break up I mentioned above.

A whole year,huh?

PurpleJedi said:

missfee said:

What was you most painful breakup ever? When I broke up with the man I had considered the love of my life at the time.

How did you cope? Stayed around friends and family. Did a lot of crying, couldn't eat, couldn't sleep, had panic attacks, everything. Had to go see a counselor eventually.

What did you feel? A combination of a lot of hurt, anger, disappointment, frustration and betrayal.

How much alcohol did it take???? Can't quite remember how much alcohol I drunk during that time, but I do know there was a lot wine and Jack n' Cokes involved.

Have you gotten completely over it???????????????? For the most part, yes.

I'm going through a breakup right now, but it's not as intense as the breakup I went through above. It's only been a week and though I'm disappointed by the breakup I can see the light at the end of the tunnel...it took me over a year to get to that point with the break up I mentioned above.

A whole year,huh?

Yeah a year or just over a year, can't quite give a more specific time frame than that...but I made it through. If this is what you are going through at the moment, then just know that you will be fine, but it takes patience and time for you to heal. Orgnote me if you need to!!!

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I don't know that I have ever gotten over it...

I have coped in many ways over the years....other women...lots of other women...alcohol...and rage...rage being the most harmful in that I have broken many bones in my hands and received a few stitches...never harmed anyone but myself that way....

I have learned to control my temper and consume in moderation...

Thanks for making me relive it....lol

shootindabreeze said:

I don't know that I have ever gotten over it... I have coped in many ways over the years....other women...lots of other women...alcohol...and rage...rage being the most harmful in that I have broken many bones in my hands and received a few stitches...never harmed anyone but myself that way.... I have learned to control my temper and consume in moderation... Thanks for making me relive it....lol

Yeah, but for me lots of men. I did a Wilt Chamberlain on 'em after he left me. We had a lot professionally vested between the two of us. I played that damn Mary J Blige I'm Not Gonna Cry song over and over. I did so much to help that ungrateful fuck get where he is.

But I met another man 6 years ago that carries me and loves me to no end. I don't take care of grown ass men anymore.

My ex's mom called me over x-mas. His marriage is on the rocks, and he admitted to his mom that he misses me. I worked so HARD to not feel vindicated. But I guess life handles wrong doings in their own ways. But it's not fair to his kids and I feel terrible every time that nasty beast surfaces and wants to gloat. Gloating is unattractive. Only time heals and the improvement of your life is the absolute BEST revenge. Shit....I think I'm STILL bitter. This is not healthy.

PurpleJedi said:

What was you most painful breakup ever? Second wife. Had problems with our marriage so she sought out other men.

How did you cope? Lots of tears and alcohol.

What did you feel? Hurt. Betrayed. Angry.

How much alcophol did it take???? LOTS!

Have you gotten completely over it????????????????/ No. Still very angry because of the way she handled it. I would rather she had stabbed me to death in my sleep. That would have been far less painful. Living with these memories is slow torture and that's just not fair.

What was you most painful breakup ever?

Guns 'N Roses

How did you cope?

I tried to pretend Buckethead was really Slash.

I bought every Velvet Revolver and Slash's Snakepit album.

I watched every episode of Rock Star Supernova.

I followed every step of Steven Adler's road to recovery.

None of it helped.

What did you feel?

Pain, anger, sadness.

How much alcophol did it take????

One tablespoon of NyQuil.

Have you gotten completely over it????????????????

No, I haven't even begun to get over it.