Sorry to hear that. It sucks big time. Its going to take time but you will be fine

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heybaby said:

Sorry to hear that. It sucks big time. Its going to take time but you will be fine

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Thanks

butterfli25 said:

How are you feeling today?

chocolate1 said:

How are you feeling today?

Feeling a little more better today as I did the weekend as well. Haven't cried since Friday but my family is getting on my nerves a little because they keep asking why we can't work it out...and my thing is, ya'll just saw the surface of him, I had to deal with ALL of him. So at this point I'm moving on and doing me. Thanks for asking

missfee said:

chocolate1 said:

How are you feeling today?

Feeling a little more better today as I did the weekend as well. Haven't cried since Friday but my family is getting on my nerves a little because they keep asking why we can't work it out...and my thing is, ya'll just saw the surface of him, I had to deal with ALL of him. So at this point I'm moving on and doing me. Thanks for asking

Good for you... do what's best for you.

missfee said:

I think I keep picking the same types of men.

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Do something good for yourself..

Must be something in the water...

PurpleJedi said:

Must be something in the water...

Thanks

missfee said:

Earlier this week, my boyfriend and I broke up. And I've been all week but slowly coming out of it today. We are both better off even though I feel like he hasn't done all that he could do to help make our relationship work as I was, but he has thrown in the towel and therefore I will be moving on. I hate breakups. I can't wait for some time to pass so that I can have my emotions in better check than they are now.

Occupy your time and talk to other men even if it's just small talk with friends or potential new boyfriends. It's important to stay busy so that you don't dwell on the breakup and don't become depressed when you see your ex with someone else. Prepare for the latter especially; guys only throw in the towel when they have found a new one.

I feel like this, this week:

HotGritz said:

missfee said:

Earlier this week, my boyfriend and I broke up. And I've been all week but slowly coming out of it today. We are both better off even though I feel like he hasn't done all that he could do to help make our relationship work as I was, but he has thrown in the towel and therefore I will be moving on. I hate breakups. I can't wait for some time to pass so that I can have my emotions in better check than they are now.

Occupy your time and talk to other men even if it's just small talk with friends or potential new boyfriends. It's important to stay busy so that you don't dwell on the breakup and don't become depressed when you see your ex with someone else. Prepare for the latter especially; guys only throw in the towel when they have found a new one.

Ouch that hurts. But I don't think that, that is the ONLY time when guys throw in the towel though. For most cases maybe, but not for all. I know what's going on with him in my case, but still it doesn't hurt any less.

missfee said:

HotGritz said:

Occupy your time and talk to other men even if it's just small talk with friends or potential new boyfriends. It's important to stay busy so that you don't dwell on the breakup and don't become depressed when you see your ex with someone else. Prepare for the latter especially; guys only throw in the towel when they have found a new one.

Ouch that hurts. But I don't think that, that is the ONLY time when guys throw in the towel though. For most cases maybe, but not for all. I know what's going on with him in my case, but still it doesn't hurt any less.

Just don't want you to get hit with any surprises. No hurt intended. You will be okay.

HotGritz said:

missfee said:

Ouch that hurts. But I don't think that, that is the ONLY time when guys throw in the towel though. For most cases maybe, but not for all. I know what's going on with him in my case, but still it doesn't hurt any less.

Just don't want you to get hit with any surprises. No hurt intended. You will be okay.

Oh I know where you were coming from, I wasn't offended at all. In fact, I appreciate your honesty, I really do because that what you said has in fact happened to me before in the past, so I'm aware. Thanks for looking out though

HotGritz said:

missfee said:

Earlier this week, my boyfriend and I broke up. And I've been all week but slowly coming out of it today. We are both better off even though I feel like he hasn't done all that he could do to help make our relationship work as I was, but he has thrown in the towel and therefore I will be moving on. I hate breakups. I can't wait for some time to pass so that I can have my emotions in better check than they are now.

Occupy your time and talk to other men even if it's just small talk with friends or potential new boyfriends. It's important to stay busy so that you don't dwell on the breakup and don't become depressed when you see your ex with someone else. Prepare for the latter especially; guys only throw in the towel when they have found a new one.

Guys AND gals you mean!!!

A woman is just as likely to dump her man when a new c*ck is in the mix.

PurpleJedi said:

HotGritz said:

Occupy your time and talk to other men even if it's just small talk with friends or potential new boyfriends. It's important to stay busy so that you don't dwell on the breakup and don't become depressed when you see your ex with someone else. Prepare for the latter especially; guys only throw in the towel when they have found a new one.

Guys AND gals you mean!!!

A woman is just as likely to dump her man when a new c*ck is in the mix.

why do I feel like there's a juicy story behind that comment?