Earlier this week, my boyfriend and I broke up. And I've been all week but slowly coming out of it today. We are both better off even though I feel like he hasn't done all that he could do to help make our relationship work as I was, but he has thrown in the towel and therefore I will be moving on. I hate breakups. I can't wait for some time to pass so that I can have my emotions in better check than they are now.

So sorry to hear. Break ups are the worst. I’m horrible at them. I get depressed for, like, ever.

Girl, we were here for the last one and we'll be here for this one, too. You're going to be just fine....and we'll keep making stupid threads to keep you laughing in the meantime

Sorry to hear that, honey. I'm sure you're doing the right thing and I hope you feel better soon.

But, ummm, if things get less than amicable, lemme know if I gotta round up the crew, for a kick-do, I mean counseling session.

SCNDLS said:

But, ummm, if things get less than amicable, lemme know if I gotta round up the crew, for a kick-do, I mean counseling session.

You're not helping

I'm sorry to hear that Missfee

missfee said:

Earlier this week, my boyfriend and I broke up. And I've been all week but slowly coming out of it today. We are both better off even though I feel like he hasn't done all that he could do to help make our relationship work as I was, but he has thrown in the towel and therefore I will be moving on. I hate breakups. I can't wait for some time to pass so that I can have my emotions in better check than they are now.

there are people who love you in the world.

Harlepolis said:

SCNDLS said:

But, ummm, if things get less than amicable, lemme know if I gotta round up the crew, for a kick-do, I mean counseling session.

You're not helping

I'm sorry to hear that Missfee

Hey, I offered my condolences and support FIRST. But I would be remiss if I failed to extend an offer to tap on his head IF needed.

he hasn't made any efforts in making it work so that showes you that he was just waiting for that opportunity. Just wait it out.... DO NOT WAIT ON HIM! Once you keep yourself busy and work on you...he'll think of you and try to come back. Break ups are not easy. I remembered I cried my eyes out until they both were swollen shut. Remember, he's an ex for a reason and there is someone out there for you.

Thanks everyone for the encouragement and the hugs.

Ottensen said:

Girl, we were here for the last one and we'll be here for this one, too. You're going to be just fine....and we'll keep making stupid threads to keep you laughing in the meantime

You remember the last one too??? lol. Yes I'll be looking forward to the threads to keep me laughing. Right now the "Aretha begging Halle to play her in a biopic" thread and the "Real Housewives" thread have me cracking up.

Harlepolis said:

SCNDLS said:

But, ummm, if things get less than amicable, lemme know if I gotta round up the crew, for a kick-do, I mean counseling session.

You're not helping

I'm sorry to hear that Missfee

Thanks

SCNDLS said:

Sorry to hear that, honey. I'm sure you're doing the right thing and I hope you feel better soon.

But, ummm, if things get less than amicable, lemme know if I gotta round up the crew, for a kick-do, I mean counseling session.

Thanks for the added reinforcements

XxAxX said:

missfee said:

Earlier this week, my boyfriend and I broke up. And I've been all week but slowly coming out of it today. We are both better off even though I feel like he hasn't done all that he could do to help make our relationship work as I was, but he has thrown in the towel and therefore I will be moving on. I hate breakups. I can't wait for some time to pass so that I can have my emotions in better check than they are now.

there are people who love you in the world.

Awww thanks

Angelic1302 said:

he hasn't made any efforts in making it work so that showes you that he was just waiting for that opportunity. Just wait it out.... DO NOT WAIT ON HIM! Once you keep yourself busy and work on you...he'll think of you and try to come back. Break ups are not easy. I remembered I cried my eyes out until they both were swollen shut. Remember, he's an ex for a reason and there is someone out there for you.

You are right. Part of me is sad and disappointed that the relationship failed, but part of me is excited to explore some new dick. Just being honest

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:hugs:

Breakups are tough ~ Our oldest is in the legal process of seperation prior to divorce after 12+ yrs married and my life long friend is in the same process after 25 yrs marriage

Mach said:

:hugs:

Breakups are tough ~ Our oldest is in the legal process of seperation prior to divorce after 12+ yrs married and my life long friend is in the same process after 25 yrs marriage

OH wow. I hope that your oldest and your friend come through okay.

missfee said:

Mach said:

:hugs:

Breakups are tough ~ Our oldest is in the legal process of seperation prior to divorce after 12+ yrs married and my life long friend is in the same process after 25 yrs marriage

OH wow. I hope that your oldest and your friend come through okay.

I think I keep picking the same types of men.

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Trust me, I understand... Breakups are never fun.

Then one day you'll stop and think, "What WAS it about him that I loved?"

Take this time to reflect on the notion that you seem to "keep picking the same types of men."

It won't make this time particularly easier, because break-ups suck, but maybe it will help you when you're ready to let someone new in.

Nothinbutjoy said:

Take this time to reflect on the notion that you seem to "keep picking the same types of men."

It won't make this time particularly easier, because break-ups suck, but maybe it will help you when you're ready to let someone new in.

Thanks for the advice.

missfee said:

Nothinbutjoy said:

Take this time to reflect on the notion that you seem to "keep picking the same types of men."

It won't make this time particularly easier, because break-ups suck, but maybe it will help you when you're ready to let someone new in.

Thanks for the advice.

Not that you asked for it.

You're welcome and I hope the hurt goes away real soon.

Nothinbutjoy said:

missfee said:

Thanks for the advice.

Not that you asked for it.

You're welcome and I hope the hurt goes away real soon.

I hope so too. Words can't describe how hurt I feel right now, but I do know that I will be okay in time eventually and move on.

missfee said:

Nothinbutjoy said:

Not that you asked for it.

You're welcome and I hope the hurt goes away real soon.

I hope so too. Words can't describe how hurt I feel right now, but I do know that I will be okay in time eventually and move on.

missfee said:

Angelic1302 said:

he hasn't made any efforts in making it work so that showes you that he was just waiting for that opportunity. Just wait it out.... DO NOT WAIT ON HIM! Once you keep yourself busy and work on you...he'll think of you and try to come back. Break ups are not easy. I remembered I cried my eyes out until they both were swollen shut. Remember, he's an ex for a reason and there is someone out there for you.

You are right. Part of me is sad and disappointed that the relationship failed, but part of me is excited to explore some new dick. Just being honest

[Edited 1/28/11 8:35am]

Have fun ride da ride da ride ride that dick girl LOL! Remember strap up LOL! Hey, you gotta do you just as much as you need to.

Sorry to hear that. How long were you together?

Break ups suck when you're not wanting the break up, especially.

Take you time to mourn and then go have fun being single!

TotalANXiousNESS said:

Harlepolis said:

SCNDLS said:

But, ummm, if things get less than amicable, lemme know if I gotta round up the crew, for a kick-do, I mean counseling session.

You're not helping

I'm sorry to hear that Missfee

I was 'bout to say the same thang. I know a few folks in "County", they are on their way to the "Big House" sooner or later.

This too shall pass, missfee.

TD3 said:

Harlepolis said:

You're not helping

I'm sorry to hear that Missfee

I was 'bout to say the same thang. I know a few folks in "County", they are on their way to the "Big House" sooner or later.

This too shall pass, missfee.

Thanks, I appreciate it