ZombieKitten said:

Lammastide said:

In this respect, then, do you think sexiness is in the eye of the beholder?

Possibly, because she says she is being sexy, that her videos are sexy, but I don't know anyone who finds her so!

she doesn't fit my sexiness criteria

Sexy for me is something unconnected with sex, but makes me think about sex. It should happen without trying. If someone is trying too hard, it doesn't make it sexy.

In my opinion, a mistake that some people make is getting muddled with looking sexy and looking like a sex object.

Lisa10 said:

In my opinion, a mistake that some people make is getting muddled with looking sexy and looking like a sex object.

agreed, they put it all out there and basically end up looking like porn stars on their way to a casting call couch...

orger said:

Lisa10 said:

In my opinion, a mistake that some people make is getting muddled with looking sexy and looking like a sex object.

agreed, they put it all out there and basically end up looking like porn stars on their way to a casting call couch...

Some accents are sexy though, don't you think?

Some people are sexy (though of course not to everybody) and others are not. If you are not than dressing sexy might look unnatural and forced. But if you are comfortable than dressing sexy makes you even more sexy IMO.

There's a lot that can be sexy, like...

Self confidence, charm, good looks, sexy body, powerful aura, humor, honesty, savoir fair, oozing sex, your walk, shoes, clothing...

Some really beautiful people are not sexy while some quite ordinary looking are totally sexy.

Lisa10 said:

orger said:

agreed, they put it all out there and basically end up looking like porn stars on their way to a casting call couch...

Some accents are sexy though, don't you think?

I think any accent other than mine is sexy

English and German accents are my favorites...you're English aren't you???

record yourself saying my name loudly and repeatedly and send it right over...thanks!!

orger said:

Lisa10 said:

Some accents are sexy though, don't you think?

I think any accent other than mine is sexy

English and German accents are my favorites...you're English aren't you???

record yourself saying my name loudly and repeatedly and send it right over...thanks!!

Yes, I am English!

Will this do? I'm not in the habit of making videos of myself

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Serious said:

Some really beautiful people are not sexy while some quite ordinary looking are totally sexy.

completely agree

Lisa10 said:

orger said:

I think any accent other than mine is sexy

English and German accents are my favorites...you're English aren't you???

record yourself saying my name loudly and repeatedly and send it right over...thanks!!

Yes, I am English!

Will this do? I'm not in the habit of making videos of myself

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blimey!

yeah, accents are sexy

but you didn't follow directions...that's minus a sexy point or two

orger said:

Lisa10 said:

Some accents are sexy though, don't you think?

I think any accent other than mine is sexy

English and German accents are my favorites...you're English aren't you???

record yourself saying my name loudly and repeatedly and send it right over...thanks!!

Serious said:

orger said:

I think any accent other than mine is sexy

English and German accents are my favorites...you're English aren't you???

record yourself saying my name loudly and repeatedly and send it right over...thanks!!

this thread is totally awesome. it totally deserves an award!

JerseyKRS said:

Lisa10 said:

Sexy for me is something unconnected with sex, but makes me think about sex.

That's an interesting point. Sexiness to me needn't -- and often doesn't -- start with sex. For me, though, sometimes it doesn't end there either. I can find a person "sexy," for example, without having pointedly sexual thoughts about them -- or, without thoughts, at least, that have some element of my own sexual desire for them. I think of folk like Angelina Jolie, Alexander Skarsgard, Boris Kodjoe, etc. I do find them genuinely sexy, but I wouldn't want to do them even if I were single and it were an option.

In my opinion, a mistake that some people make is getting muddled with looking sexy and looking like a sex object.

I agree.

Exhibit A :

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I think sexy can be many things, but I feel it has a lot to do with how some might carry themselves. You can have the most beautiful woman and the most handsome man, but if they act like dicks they are NOT sexy!!!!

MoniGram said:

I think sexy can be many things, but I feel it has a lot to do with how some might carry themselves. You can have the most beautiful woman and the most handsome man, but if they act like dicks they are NOT sexy!!!!

Exactly!

Lammastide said:

In my opinion, a mistake that some people make is getting muddled with looking sexy and looking like a sex object.

I agree.

Exhibit A :

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great example...while I won't pretend that isn't eye catching and interesting , it just isn't sexy to me...sexy has to have an identity that goes along with it...as it stands, she's just a crotch

orger said:

Lammastide said:

I agree.

Exhibit A :

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great example...while I won't pretend that isn't eye catching and interesting , it just isn't sexy to me...sexy has to have an identity that goes along with it...as it stands, she's just a crotch

a crotch with really ugly shoes.

orger said:

Serious said:

I speak German and ain't nothing worse than somebody from Germany speaking English . The Austrian accent is a little less awefull IMO, but not much .

Serious said:

orger said:

I speak German and ain't nothing worse than somebody from Germany speaking English . The Austrian accent is a little less awefull IMO, but not much .

oh wow, I totally disagree....my first experience with a German accent was from a German exchange student when I was in high school...she literally made me melt when she talked

at the local German restaurant, all the waitresses speak fluent English with thick German accents...I think it's hot

I've heard a few Austrian accents as well and to my untrained ear, they're pretty similar to a German one...again, my ear is uber untrained...

c'mon Serious, say "Fahrvergnügen" for me

CarrieMpls said:

a crotch with really ugly shoes.

as much as I love Chucks, I can't defend those atrocities...

Serious said:

Some really beautiful people are not sexy while some quite ordinary looking are totally sexy.

Tremolina said:

There's a lot that can be sexy, like...

Self confidence, charm, good looks, sexy body, powerful aura, humor, honesty, savoir fair, oozing sex, your walk, shoes, clothing...

Lammastide said:

Lisa10 said:

Sexy for me is something unconnected with sex, but makes me think about sex.

That's an interesting point. Sexiness to me needn't -- and often doesn't -- start with sex. For me, though, sometimes it doesn't end there either. I can find a person "sexy," for example, without having pointedly sexual thoughts about them -- or, without thoughts, at least, that have some element of my own sexual desire for them. I think of folk like Angelina Jolie, Alexander Skarsgard, Boris Kodjoe, etc. I do find them genuinely sexy, but I wouldn't want to do them even if I were single and it were an option.

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It's not that if I find someone sexy, i'd want to have sex with them. It's more that if I find someone sexy, it leads me to think about sex in general. Perhaps it's a little bit like the feeling of getting butterflies in your tummy, a quickening of the pulse or something. I don't know... it's hard to explain.

.... But then again, I am a bit of a pervert.

It's a scent. It starts off undectectable and grows and grows the more you get to know the person until you're there, BOOM!

Tremolina said:

There's a lot that can be sexy, like...

Self confidence, charm, good looks, sexy body, powerful aura, humor, honesty, savoir fair, oozing sex, your walk, shoes, clothing...

And some people have all of that.

Vendetta1 said:

Tremolina said:

There's a lot that can be sexy, like...

Self confidence, charm, good looks, sexy body, powerful aura, humor, honesty, savoir fair, oozing sex, your walk, shoes, clothing...

And some people have all of that.

lol you do think so

It can also be a voice, a touch, a scent, or a certain look.