ZombieKitten said:

Tremolina said:

Wanna have sex?

omg first time anyone ever asked me!!!!

lol yeah right

Do I have to hide from your husband now?

Serious said:

Tremolina said:

Now, now, I am sure there are times that you DO enjoy doing that

Not really . I do enjoy the attention sometimes though. But not all the time.

lol actually, I meant that you must have like the act of turning a man down sometimes

Serious said:

ZombieKitten said:

it's true.

The partners I've had have come about because of circumstances I've orchestrated. I can count the partners I've had on one hand.

Well I can do the same. But what about all the turned down ones? Even if you turned them down I cannot imagine they were all totally aweful. I turned down some quite special men over the years that other women might have not turned down probably. You are sexy, bright, talented and nice, there MUST have been offers from cool guys too.

She just received one.

Tremolina said:

Serious said:

Well I can do the same. But what about all the turned down ones? Even if you turned them down I cannot imagine they were all totally aweful. I turned down some quite special men over the years that other women might have not turned down probably. You are sexy, bright, talented and nice, there MUST have been offers from cool guys too.

She just received one.

okay, that's right

Tremolina said:

Serious said:

Not really . I do enjoy the attention sometimes though. But not all the time.

lol actually, I meant that you must have like the act of turning a man down sometimes

I got what you were saying and I don't remember I ever liked to do that. Why would I?

Serious said:

ZombieKitten said:

it's true.

The partners I've had have come about because of circumstances I've orchestrated. I can count the partners I've had on one hand.

Well I can do the same. But what about all the turned down ones? Even if you turned them down I cannot imagine they were all totally aweful. I turned down some quite special men over the years that other women might have not turned down probably. You are sexy, bright, talented and nice, there MUST have been offers from cool guys too.

I've had offers from randoms on the internet but I can't count those, they have never met me.

Don't forget, I have not been single since I was 18, and before that I never got a single offer - since it was a wide-spread assumption that I was a NICE "not that kind of girl". On my thread exploring the topic, since I always hung out in a "guy harem", I supposed there was never an opportunity for anyone to approach me

OK, to clarify.

If a man from liquorland asks me "Could I carry that to your car for you?" when I've bought 48 cans of beer, is THAT an offer of sex? perhaps I've been going about this all wrong

[Edited 1/27/11 15:22pm]

ZombieKitten said:

Serious said:

Well I can do the same. But what about all the turned down ones? Even if you turned them down I cannot imagine they were all totally aweful. I turned down some quite special men over the years that other women might have not turned down probably. You are sexy, bright, talented and nice, there MUST have been offers from cool guys too.

I've had offers from randoms on the internet but I can't count those, they have never met me.

Don't forget, I have not been single since I was 18, and before that I never got a single offer - since it was a wide-spread assumption that I was a NICE "not that kind of girl". On my thread exploring the topic, since I always hung out in a "guy harem", I supposed there was never an opportunity for anyone to approach me

Hmm I got loads of offers even at times when I was not single, although less than when I was. Maybe you really gave the vibe of being "too nice". I remember the thread, but it is something that I still don't understand.

Tremolina said:

ZombieKitten said:

omg first time anyone ever asked me!!!!

lol yeah right

Do I have to hide from your husband now?

he needs to know he has some competition now!!

Serious said:

ZombieKitten said:

I've had offers from randoms on the internet but I can't count those, they have never met me.

Don't forget, I have not been single since I was 18, and before that I never got a single offer - since it was a wide-spread assumption that I was a NICE "not that kind of girl". On my thread exploring the topic, since I always hung out in a "guy harem", I supposed there was never an opportunity for anyone to approach me

Hmm I got loads of offers even at times when I was not single, although less than when I was. Maybe you really gave the vibe of being "too nice". I remember the thread, but it is something that I still don't understand.

give me an example of a man offering sex to you, like what he did, what he said

Serious said:

Hmm I got loads of offers

Sounds more like you got offers of loads.

(j/k of course)

I'm sort of in ZK's boat. Married at 18...not much going on before then. Partners could be counted on one hand, even if you cut said hand in half lengthwise.

So I don't think that if I were even looking to do that, I would ever be in a position for it to happen.

Serious said:

Tremolina said:

lol actually, I meant that you must have like the act of turning a man down sometimes

I got what you were saying and I don't remember I ever liked to do that. Why would I?

For no good reason of course. I tried to make light of it and didn't mean it personally, sorry, but I do know some women that gett off on the power trip of having all kinds of men dancing around them, twisting them around her fingers, toying with them, rejecting them when they feel like it and tempting them when they feel lik it etc. Not that you are like that, but just saying some are.

FauxReal said:

Serious said:

Hmm I got loads of offers

Sounds more like you got offers of loads.

(j/k of course)

I'm sort of in ZK's boat. Married at 18...not much going on before then. Partners could be counted on one hand, even if you cut said hand in half lengthwise.

So I don't think that if I were even looking to do that, I would ever be in a position for it to happen.

ZombieKitten said:

Serious said:

Hmm I got loads of offers even at times when I was not single, although less than when I was. Maybe you really gave the vibe of being "too nice". I remember the thread, but it is something that I still don't understand.

give me an example of a man offering sex to you, like what he did, what he said

Most were way too stupid to mention them .

ZombieKitten said:

Tremolina said:

lol yeah right

Do I have to hide from your husband now?

he needs to know he has some competition now!!

Yeah, on the other side of the world!

ZombieKitten said:

OK, to clarify.

If a man from liquorland asks me "Could I carry that to your car for you?" when I've bought 48 cans of beer, is THAT an offer of sex? perhaps I've been going about this all wrong

[Edited 1/27/11 15:22pm]

For sure it's a way to check out if YOU are interested! If you say yes, you might. If you say no and walk on, you sure are not.

Tremolina said:

Serious said:

I got what you were saying and I don't remember I ever liked to do that. Why would I?

For no good reason of course. I tried to make light of it and didn't mean it personally, sorry, but I do know some women that gett off on the power trip of having all kinds of men dancing around them, twisting them around her fingers, toying with them, rejecting them when they feel like it and tempting them when they feel lik it etc. Not that you are like that, but just saying some are.

Well I am sure there are women who are like that, but I am totally not. I always feel I am not polite or that I might hurt somebody's feelings if I turn somebody down even if the man is a complete idiot who I know would just want to fuck me and doesn't care about me at all and will ask the next woman 5 minutes later. I still feel kind of sorry for him when I turn him down . And of course even more so if it is somebody I like, that is a nightmare.

Serious said:

ZombieKitten said:

give me an example of a man offering sex to you, like what he did, what he said

Most were way too stupid to mention them .

I don't care how stupid, give me an example of a situation

I need to know it perhaps I am reading into things too literally, if guys are using code I don't understand???

OK, remember that guy I told you about that was from Africa that wanted to party with me? I really thought he just wanted to party, but MAYBE, just MAYBE he wanted SEX from me

Tremolina said:

ZombieKitten said:

OK, to clarify.

If a man from liquorland asks me "Could I carry that to your car for you?" when I've bought 48 cans of beer, is THAT an offer of sex? perhaps I've been going about this all wrong

[Edited 1/27/11 15:22pm]

For sure it's a way to check out if YOU are interested! If you say yes, you might. If you say no and walk on, you sure are not.

I thought he was just being helpful. He carried them to the car, and waved as I drove away.

ZombieKitten said:

Serious said:

Most were way too stupid to mention them .

I don't care how stupid, give me an example of a situation

I need to know it perhaps I am reading into things too literally, if guys are using code I don't understand???

OK, remember that guy I told you about that was from Africa that wanted to party with me? I really thought he just wanted to party, but MAYBE, just MAYBE he wanted SEX from me

A girl once said she wanted to party with me & my GF, I thought she wanted a threesome, and I turned her down in this bizarre uncomfortable way.

Years later I realized maybe she only meant party, and probably was very scared at my behavior. No wonder she did not want a ride home!

ZombieKitten said:

Tremolina said:

For sure it's a way to check out if YOU are interested! If you say yes, you might. If you say no and walk on, you sure are not.

I thought he was just being helpful. He carried them to the car, and waved as I drove away.

He offered to carry

You were supposed to ask if he was gonna help drink them too.

Drunken sex ensues.

You dropped the ball at step two though.

FauxReal said:

ZombieKitten said:

I thought he was just being helpful. He carried them to the car, and waved as I drove away.

He offered to carry

You were supposed to ask if he was gonna help drink them too.

Drunken sex ensues.

You dropped the ball at step two though.

I bought them from him at liquorland, he worked there, I assumed it's part of the service!

FauxReal said:

Serious said:

Hmm I got loads of offers

Sounds more like you got offers of loads.

(j/k of course)

I'm sort of in ZK's boat. Married at 18...not much going on before then. Partners could be counted on one hand, even if you cut said hand in half lengthwise.

So I don't think that if I were even looking to do that, I would ever be in a position for it to happen.

Well I am extremely picky to choose my man and since my early 20s I have always been in a serious relationship. That did not stop men from making offers. Especially musicians do that all the time, so I am even more surprised that Charlotte is not chased by all the musicians she hangs out with.

NDRU said:

ZombieKitten said:

I don't care how stupid, give me an example of a situation

I need to know it perhaps I am reading into things too literally, if guys are using code I don't understand???

OK, remember that guy I told you about that was from Africa that wanted to party with me? I really thought he just wanted to party, but MAYBE, just MAYBE he wanted SEX from me

A girl once said she wanted to party with me & my GF, I thought she wanted a threesome, and I turned her down in this bizarre uncomfortable way.

Years later I realized maybe she only meant party, and probably was very scared at my behavior. No wonder she did not want a ride home!

ZombieKitten said:

Tremolina said:

For sure it's a way to check out if YOU are interested! If you say yes, you might. If you say no and walk on, you sure are not.

I thought he was just being helpful. He carried them to the car, and waved as I drove away.

Well sure he was being helpfull, but maybe just not "just". Did he say or ask anything in particular? Smile at you a lot? Give you "the look"? lol

ZombieKitten said:

FauxReal said:

He offered to carry

You were supposed to ask if he was gonna help drink them too.

Drunken sex ensues.

You dropped the ball at step two though.

I bought them from him at liquorland, he worked there, I assumed it's part of the service!

Oh.

Yeah you're right then. HE wasn't trying to sex you up.

That guy from Africa though...

(I'm just bullshitting either way, don't mind me)

ZombieKitten said:

Serious said:

Most were way too stupid to mention them .

I don't care how stupid, give me an example of a situation

I need to know it perhaps I am reading into things too literally, if guys are using code I don't understand???

OK, remember that guy I told you about that was from Africa that wanted to party with me? I really thought he just wanted to party, but MAYBE, just MAYBE he wanted SEX from me

Probably he did, but I don't know for sure of course.

It's kinda embarrassing to tell these things .

NDRU said:

ZombieKitten said:

I don't care how stupid, give me an example of a situation

I need to know it perhaps I am reading into things too literally, if guys are using code I don't understand???

OK, remember that guy I told you about that was from Africa that wanted to party with me? I really thought he just wanted to party, but MAYBE, just MAYBE he wanted SEX from me

A girl once said she wanted to party with me & my GF, I thought she wanted a threesome, and I turned her down in this bizarre uncomfortable way.

Years later I realized maybe she only meant party, and probably was very scared at my behavior. No wonder she did not want a ride home!

Why did you not post this on the other thread?

Serious said:

FauxReal said:

Sounds more like you got offers of loads.

(j/k of course)

I'm sort of in ZK's boat. Married at 18...not much going on before then. Partners could be counted on one hand, even if you cut said hand in half lengthwise.

So I don't think that if I were even looking to do that, I would ever be in a position for it to happen.

Well I am extremely picky to choose my man and since my early 20s I have always been in a serious relationship. That did not stop men from making offers. Especially musicians do that all the time, so I am even more surprised that Charlotte is not chased by all the musicians she hangs out with.

they all work for the master and 75% of them are girls in their early 20s

I don't hang out with any musicians apart from the one I married, and the guitarist (who likes Thai girls).

ZombieKitten said:

FauxReal said:

He offered to carry

You were supposed to ask if he was gonna help drink them too.

Drunken sex ensues.

You dropped the ball at step two though.

I bought them from him at liquorland, he worked there, I assumed it's part of the service!

Is it part of "NORMAL" service that they help you all the way to your car?