Grown folks do grown folks thangs. If you roll like that, why not? I've done it. Loads (pardon the pun) of fun. I've got married friends who get down on a regular basis and for them it totally works.

It's for sure easier to navigate with three single people versus a couple and an extra. You have to be really careful to be a SECURE relationship for that to work. It's got to be a shared fantasy by all. If one person is talking the other person into it, or the extra is really into a particular sex and is involved for that reason, it can make a fantasy turn into a really awkward situation.

I'm thinking about writing a book about it, actually.

SupaFunkyOrgangrinderSexy said:

ONLY

IF

YOU

ARE

SINGLE.

Absolutely.

Also, threesomes seem to be "the" big thing, but most (heterosexual) men won't ever do a 2 guys / 1 girl thing and most women won't do a two girls / 1 guy thing, so it usually never happens.

JustErin said:

I couldn't agree with you more.

You are one of a kind

HotGritz said:

They can't handle competition with 1 dude yet alone 15.

Yes they can. They have to. You will have to have atruly ugly and disgusting woman not to have any competition. When she is average looking, you will defintely have competetition and when she is good looking, you could very well end up in a triangle relationship, or better yet even: a group relationship, with or without you even knowing it!

Just saying

Tremolina said:

HotGritz said:

They can't handle competition with 1 dude yet alone 15.

Yes they can. They have to. You will have to have atruly ugly and disgusting woman not to have any competition. When she is average looking, you will defintely have competetition and when she is good looking, you could very well end up in a triangle relationship, or better yet even: a group relationship, with or without you even knowing it!

Just saying

But that depends on what woman you choose and I am not talking about how she looks

Sorry, I can't be bothered to read all the replies...

If there was no emotional attachment to the other 2 people. Worth trying, sure.

Serious said:

Tremolina said:

Yes they can. They have to. You will have to have atruly ugly and disgusting woman not to have any competition. When she is average looking, you will defintely have competetition and when she is good looking, you could very well end up in a triangle relationship, or better yet even: a group relationship, with or without you even knowing it!

Just saying

But that depends on what woman you choose and I am not talking about how she looks

Oh yes, it depends on what she does with it, but there is thing about being the woman that all the men go for. It also depends on how you treat her yourself. But one thing is for sure with a good looking woman: you are gonna have competetion, lots of it.

Tremolina said:

Serious said:

But that depends on what woman you choose and I am not talking about how she looks

Oh yes, it depends on what she does with it, but there is thing about being the woman that all the men go for. It also depends on how you treat her yourself. But one thing is for sure with a good looking woman: you are gonna have competetion, lots of it.

Well like you said even an average looking woman can have tons of men all the time. I am no perfect beauty at all and all my life men have been after me. Even now that I am not so young anymore it's still the same. But competition doesn't make a difference as long as I am turning all the offers down and am I only interested in my man. And a not good looking woman might cheat on her partner with the first man who wants to fuck her.

Not for me. I believe my body was built for my mate and his was built for me til we reach our golden years or the grave, with no room for anyone else.

Well like you said even an average looking woman can have tons of men all the time. I am no perfect beauty at all and all my life men have been after me. Even now that I am not so young anymore it's still the same. But competition doesn't make a difference as long as I am turning all the offers down and am I only interested in my man. And a not good looking woman might cheat on her partner with the first man who wants to fuck her.

^

Most men would love to be a woman, I tell you that. All those offers to have sex without them even having to do or say anything. Just be there. A dream come true.

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[Edited 1/27/11 9:04am]

Tremolina said:

HotGritz said:

They can't handle competition with 1 dude yet alone 15.

Yes they can. They have to. You will have to have atruly ugly and disgusting woman not to have any competition. When she is average looking, you will defintely have competetition and when she is good looking, you could very well end up in a triangle relationship, or better yet even: a group relationship, with or without you even knowing it!

Just saying

all these trolls I see walking around with men on their arms...nah!!!

Of course we have to remember that beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. It's just....some men be holding some ugly women and get crazy if another dude is staring.

ZombieKitten said:

HotGritz said:

That's perceived competition. Many men convince themselves that, to a certain degree, the attractive woman may be off limits due to her many options. The reality is that a man will pursue that which he wants but when faced with the very real possibility that his conquest is not his to keep, he in fact will regress to a primitive & insecure creature wanting to control her and keep her faithful regardless if he himself is faithful. True women want to be wanted but I think moreso they want to be needed. Men want to be wanted.

I want to be wanted! that is my biggest turn-on. I wonder if it's not men that want to be needed? Because really, in the scheme of things, women don't need them at all

But women are already wanted- it's the need part that escapes them which is probably why so many women have issues with men and relationships; they don't feel needed and/or respected or if they do feel needed, it's not in a way they makes them feel special. As for men, seems to me men feel needed in the short term and not wanted in the long term.

Lisa10 said:

Sorry, I can't be bothered to read all the replies...

If there was no emotional attachment to the other 2 people. Worth trying, sure.

Do you realize that we have no emotional attachment whatsoever?

Poiple said:

Lisa10 said:

Sorry, I can't be bothered to read all the replies...

If there was no emotional attachment to the other 2 people. Worth trying, sure.

Do you realize that we have no emotional attachment whatsoever?

HotGritz said:

ZombieKitten said:

I want to be wanted! that is my biggest turn-on. I wonder if it's not men that want to be needed? Because really, in the scheme of things, women don't need them at all

But women are already wanted- it's the need part that escapes them which is probably why so many women have issues with men and relationships; they don't feel needed and/or respected or if they do feel needed, it's not in a way they makes them feel special. As for men, seems to me men feel needed in the short term and not wanted in the long term.

to start off with, sure!

15 years down the track, not so much. But they need you to iron their shirts or find something, or go drop off something at the agency, or to tell you what's for dinner and to raise their kids etc.

ZombieKitten said:

HotGritz said:

But women are already wanted- it's the need part that escapes them which is probably why so many women have issues with men and relationships; they don't feel needed and/or respected or if they do feel needed, it's not in a way they makes them feel special. As for men, seems to me men feel needed in the short term and not wanted in the long term.

to start off with, sure!

15 years down the track, not so much. But they need you to iron their shirts or find something, or go drop off something at the agency, or to tell you what's for dinner and to raise their kids etc.

Aaah L'Amore L'Amore

HotGritz said:

ZombieKitten said:

to start off with, sure!

15 years down the track, not so much. But they need you to iron their shirts or find something, or go drop off something at the agency, or to tell you what's for dinner and to raise their kids etc.

Aaah L'Amore L'Amore

Je veux l'amour!

Poiple said:

Lisa10 said:

Sorry, I can't be bothered to read all the replies...

If there was no emotional attachment to the other 2 people. Worth trying, sure.

Do you realize that we have no emotional attachment whatsoever?

Tremolina said:

Well like you said even an average looking woman can have tons of men all the time. I am no perfect beauty at all and all my life men have been after me. Even now that I am not so young anymore it's still the same. But competition doesn't make a difference as long as I am turning all the offers down and am I only interested in my man. And a not good looking woman might cheat on her partner with the first man who wants to fuck her.

^

Most men would love to be a woman, I tell you that. All those offers to have sex without them even having to do or say anything. Just be there. A dream come true.

-

[Edited 1/27/11 9:04am]

My bf sure would love that . I keep telling him that it is not fun to turn these offers down all the time .

Tremolina said:

Most men would love to be a woman, I tell you that. All those offers to have sex without them even having to do or say anything. Just be there. A dream come true.

g'day love, how about it?

HotGritz said:

Tremolina said:

Yes they can. They have to. You will have to have atruly ugly and disgusting woman not to have any competition. When she is average looking, you will defintely have competetition and when she is good looking, you could very well end up in a triangle relationship, or better yet even: a group relationship, with or without you even knowing it!

Just saying

all these trolls I see walking around with men on their arms...nah!!!

Of course we have to remember that beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. It's just....some men be holding some ugly women and get crazy if another dude is staring.

LOL I am telling you: As long as she doesn't look anything like this:

or EVEN WORSE THIS :

SHE'LL BE just fine

ZombieKitten said:

Tremolina said:

Most men would love to be a woman, I tell you that. All those offers to have sex without them even having to do or say anything. Just be there. A dream come true.

g'day love, how about it?

oh the trauma....

Tremolina said:

ZombieKitten said:

g'day love, how about it?

oh the trauma....

I've never received an offer of sex from anyone who is worth doing. It's no walk in the park!

Serious said:

Tremolina said:

^

Most men would love to be a woman, I tell you that. All those offers to have sex without them even having to do or say anything. Just be there. A dream come true.

-

[Edited 1/27/11 9:04am]

My bf sure would love that . I keep telling him that it is not fun to turn these offers down all the time .

Now, now, I am sure there are times that you DO enjoy doing that

ZombieKitten said:

Tremolina said:

oh the trauma....

I've never received an offer of sex from anyone who is worth doing. It's no walk in the park!

Wanna have sex?

ZombieKitten said:

Tremolina said:

oh the trauma....

I've never received an offer of sex from anyone who is worth doing. It's no walk in the park!

I don't believe that. Even if you might be super picky I still don't believe that.

Tremolina said:

ZombieKitten said:

I've never received an offer of sex from anyone who is worth doing. It's no walk in the park!

Wanna have sex?

omg first time anyone ever asked me!!!!

Tremolina said:

Serious said:

My bf sure would love that . I keep telling him that it is not fun to turn these offers down all the time .

Now, now, I am sure there are times that you DO enjoy doing that

Not really . I do enjoy the attention sometimes though. But not all the time.

Serious said:

ZombieKitten said:

I've never received an offer of sex from anyone who is worth doing. It's no walk in the park!

I don't believe that. Even if you might be super picky I still don't believe that.

it's true.

The partners I've had have come about because of circumstances I've orchestrated. I can count the partners I've had on one hand.

ZombieKitten said:

Serious said:

I don't believe that. Even if you might be super picky I still don't believe that.

it's true.

The partners I've had have come about because of circumstances I've orchestrated. I can count the partners I've had on one hand.

Well I can do the same. But what about all the turned down ones? Even if you turned them down I cannot imagine they were all totally aweful. I turned down some quite special men over the years that other women might have not turned down probably. You are sexy, bright, talented and nice, there MUST have been offers from cool guys too.