ZombieKitten said:

NDRU said:

I didn't say you do that. I know allison does not!

Imagine if women did the very same thing, men would feel inadequate and humiliated!

Their fragile egos simply couldn't take the idea of "their" woman, mentally undressing other men, comparing package sizes, imagining themselves having sex with 15 others during the course of a day (some of them your mates, some your relatives, your boss, the postman etc), and staring with their tongues nearly hanging out!

and I don't mean that only you know she is doing it, EVERYONE knows it! Ah, it's just a woman being a woman, what can you do!

it would bother me because most women are not like that. Maybe if they were all like that and I still was attracted to them, then I might accept it more as long as I trusted them to not act on those feelings

But I don't know how I would feel, and I am very respectful of my gf's feelings. But I don't like being made to feel like there is something wrong with me because I think just like half of the world's population.

ZombieKitten said:

NDRU said:

I didn't say you do that. I know allison does not!

Imagine if women did the very same thing, men would feel inadequate and humiliated!

Their fragile egos simply couldn't take the idea of "their" woman, mentally undressing other men, comparing package sizes, imagining themselves having sex with 15 others during the course of a day (some of them your mates, some your relatives, your boss, the postman etc), and staring with their tongues nearly hanging out!

and I don't mean that only you know she is doing it, EVERYONE knows it! Ah, it's just a woman being a woman, what can you do!

^ This.

Many if not most men are intimidated and threatened by a woman's sexuality. They can't handle competition with 1 dude yet alone 15. The idea of a woman not wanting them or wanting them but not being fully satisfied is not something they can handle in a mature way. The whole madonna/whore syndrome rears its ugly head time and time again.

I don't care how evolved some men think they are...at the end of the day they like to think your pussy is "their pussy" and that you are at home waiting for them to lay it on you.

Probably not something I'd do myself, but I could see the appeal for some.

HotGritz said:

ZombieKitten said:

Imagine if women did the very same thing, men would feel inadequate and humiliated!

Their fragile egos simply couldn't take the idea of "their" woman, mentally undressing other men, comparing package sizes, imagining themselves having sex with 15 others during the course of a day (some of them your mates, some your relatives, your boss, the postman etc), and staring with their tongues nearly hanging out!

and I don't mean that only you know she is doing it, EVERYONE knows it! Ah, it's just a woman being a woman, what can you do!

^ This.

Many if not most men are intimidated and threatened by a woman's sexuality. They can't handle competition with 1 dude yet alone 15. The idea of a woman not wanting them or wanting them but not being fully satisfied is not something they can handle in a mature way. The whole madonna/whore syndrome rears its ugly head time and time again.

I don't care how evolved some men think they are...at the end of the day they like to think your pussy is "their pussy" and that you are at home waiting for them to lay it on you.

men deal with competition all the time. Every attractive woman that enters our world is constantly surrounded by men! Women may not act just like men, rather they want to be wanted. That is their version of wanting, which is what men do.

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TonyVanDam said:

JustErin said:

Not for me they aren't. I've been asked countless times to have one but it's just not my thing - especially 2 girls 1 dude.

What about 1 girl 2 dudes?

Yes, THIS^ is a serious question.

What about it? I already said I am not interested in it.

I've thought about it, been offered it...but ultimately I always say no. Contrary to what some dorks on here may think of me, I don't give it up to just anyone and certainly not to do something just to be able to say I did it.

JustErin said:

dorks

one of my top five mostest favoritist words ever

NDRU said:

ZombieKitten said:

Imagine if women did the very same thing, men would feel inadequate and humiliated!

Their fragile egos simply couldn't take the idea of "their" woman, mentally undressing other men, comparing package sizes, imagining themselves having sex with 15 others during the course of a day (some of them your mates, some your relatives, your boss, the postman etc), and staring with their tongues nearly hanging out!

and I don't mean that only you know she is doing it, EVERYONE knows it! Ah, it's just a woman being a woman, what can you do!

it would bother me because most women are not like that. Maybe if they were all like that and I still was attracted to them, then I might accept it more as long as I trusted them to not act on those feelings

But I don't know how I would feel, and I am very respectful of my gf's feelings. But I don't like being made to feel like there is something wrong with me because I think just like half of the world's population.

it's not JUST you it's ALL of you!!!

True, most women aren't like that at all. It's probably worse than you think because they aren't just imagining SEX with other guys, they are letting themselves feel infatuated with other guys here and there (just a harmless crush!) and their fantasies are running the whole gamut of how it might be to live a whole life with another guy who is not you.

NDRU said:

HotGritz said:

^ This.

Many if not most men are intimidated and threatened by a woman's sexuality. They can't handle competition with 1 dude yet alone 15. The idea of a woman not wanting them or wanting them but not being fully satisfied is not something they can handle in a mature way. The whole madonna/whore syndrome rears its ugly head time and time again.

I don't care how evolved some men think they are...at the end of the day they like to think your pussy is "their pussy" and that you are at home waiting for them to lay it on you.

men deal with competition all the time. Every attractive woman that enters our world is constantly surrounded by men! Women may not act like men, but they want to be wanted. That is their version of wanting, which men do.

[Edited 1/26/11 17:22pm]

That's perceived competition. Many men convince themselves that, to a certain degree, the attractive woman may be off limits due to her many options. The reality is that a man will pursue that which he wants but when faced with the very real possibility that his conquest is not his to keep, he in fact will regress to a primitive & insecure creature wanting to control her and keep her faithful regardless if he himself is faithful. True women want to be wanted but I think moreso they want to be needed. Men want to be wanted.

NDRU said:

HotGritz said:

^ This.

Many if not most men are intimidated and threatened by a woman's sexuality. They can't handle competition with 1 dude yet alone 15. The idea of a woman not wanting them or wanting them but not being fully satisfied is not something they can handle in a mature way. The whole madonna/whore syndrome rears its ugly head time and time again.

I don't care how evolved some men think they are...at the end of the day they like to think your pussy is "their pussy" and that you are at home waiting for them to lay it on you.

men deal with competition all the time. Every attractive woman that enters our world is constantly surrounded by men! Women may not act just like men, rather they want to be wanted. That is their version of wanting, which is what men do.

I agree women have a need to be wanted I know I completely relate to that. However we also want, perhaps yearn (see my previous post about a whole life ) it's different to your raw physical want, but it's there nonetheless and it's just as dangerous.

HotGritz said:

NDRU said:

men deal with competition all the time. Every attractive woman that enters our world is constantly surrounded by men! Women may not act like men, but they want to be wanted. That is their version of wanting, which men do.

[Edited 1/26/11 17:22pm]

That's perceived competition. Many men convince themselves that, to a certain degree, the attractive woman may be off limits due to her many options. The reality is that a man will pursue that which he wants but when faced with the very real possibility that his conquest is not his to keep, he in fact will regress to a primitive & insecure creature wanting to control her and keep her faithful regardless if he himself is faithful. True women want to be wanted but I think moreso they want to be needed. Men want to be wanted.

I want to be wanted! that is my biggest turn-on. I wonder if it's not men that want to be needed? Because really, in the scheme of things, women don't need them at all

ZombieKitten said:

HotGritz said:

That's perceived competition. Many men convince themselves that, to a certain degree, the attractive woman may be off limits due to her many options. The reality is that a man will pursue that which he wants but when faced with the very real possibility that his conquest is not his to keep, he in fact will regress to a primitive & insecure creature wanting to control her and keep her faithful regardless if he himself is faithful. True women want to be wanted but I think moreso they want to be needed. Men want to be wanted.

I want to be wanted! that is my biggest turn-on. I wonder if it's not men that want to be needed? Because really, in the scheme of things, women don't need them at all

I certainly do not have any want to be needed. I want to be wanted.

JustErin said:

I certainly do not have any want to be needed. I want to be wanted.

I NEED to be WANTED

JustErin said:

ZombieKitten said:

I want to be wanted! that is my biggest turn-on. I wonder if it's not men that want to be needed? Because really, in the scheme of things, women don't need them at all

I certainly do not have any want to be needed. I want to be wanted.

I have enough of being needed it KILLS me

4 people and a dog needing me 24/7 is too much for me

In movies, the older woman gets depressed and feels purposeless because her children move out and don't need her any more. Is that like a previous generational thing?

I consider it on a regular basis. My wife will talk about it but she's not serious. I'm pretty sure it's because I'd like the other participant to be a colleges age woman.

ZombieKitten said:

NDRU said:

men deal with competition all the time. Every attractive woman that enters our world is constantly surrounded by men! Women may not act just like men, rather they want to be wanted. That is their version of wanting, which is what men do.

I agree women have a need to be wanted I know I completely relate to that. However we also want, perhaps yearn (see my previous post about a whole life ) it's different to your raw physical want, but it's there nonetheless and it's just as dangerous.

yes, well we all share the same feelings, just different degrees of them

weused2luvhim said:

I consider it on a regular basis. My wife will talk about it but she's not serious. I'm pretty sure it's because I'd like the other participant to be a colleges age woman.

yup, you better NEVER mention that to her

did you hear the one about the plumber, carpenter and accountant?

XxAxX said:

did you hear the one about the plumber, carpenter and accountant?

I think I have that dvd.

ZombieKitten said:

HotGritz said:

That's perceived competition. Many men convince themselves that, to a certain degree, the attractive woman may be off limits due to her many options. The reality is that a man will pursue that which he wants but when faced with the very real possibility that his conquest is not his to keep, he in fact will regress to a primitive & insecure creature wanting to control her and keep her faithful regardless if he himself is faithful. True women want to be wanted but I think moreso they want to be needed. Men want to be wanted.

I want to be wanted! that is my biggest turn-on. I wonder if it's not men that want to be needed? Because really, in the scheme of things, women don't need them at all

I only want to fuck, I don't care if I am wanted or needed

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JustErin said:

TonyVanDam said:

What about 1 girl 2 dudes?

Yes, THIS^ is a serious question.

What about it? I already said I am not interested in it.

I've thought about it, been offered it...but ultimately I always say no. Contrary to what some dorks on here may think of me, I don't give it up to just anyone and certainly not to do something just to be able to say I did it.

I hear you.

NDRU said:

ZombieKitten said:

I want to be wanted! that is my biggest turn-on. I wonder if it's not men that want to be needed? Because really, in the scheme of things, women don't need them at all

I only want to fuck, I don't care if I am wanted or needed

maybe, but you make sure you make yourself useful so she keeps you around in case she wants to fuck also, right?

ZombieKitten said:

NDRU said:

I only want to fuck, I don't care if I am wanted or needed

maybe, but you make sure you make yourself useful so she keeps you around in case she wants to fuck also, right?

yes I loosen the pickle jar lid real good, just in case

NDRU said:

ZombieKitten said:

maybe, but you make sure you make yourself useful so she keeps you around in case she wants to fuck also, right?

yes I loosen the pickle jar lid real good, just in case

I rest my case

NDRU said:

ZombieKitten said:

maybe, but you make sure you make yourself useful so she keeps you around in case she wants to fuck also, right?

yes I loosen the pickle jar lid real good, just in case

is pickle jar a metaphor for lady parts???

orger said:

NDRU said:

yes I loosen the pickle jar lid real good, just in case

is pickle jar a metaphor for lady parts???

yes, and her sweet sweet dill vinegar

NDRU said:

orger said:

is pickle jar a metaphor for lady parts???

yes, and her sweet sweet dill vinegar

hot!

Pickle jars have lots and lots of pickles in them.

johnart said:

Pickle jars have lots and lots of pickles in them.

and pickle juice

orger said:

johnart said:

Pickle jars have lots and lots of pickles in them.

and pickle juice

Lots of pickles just a-swimmin' in each other's pickle juices...inside the jar.