I think all guys fantasize about it. However, one was what ultimately derailed one of my closest friend's marriage. The aftermath I think would be tough.

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Not for me they aren't. I've been asked countless times to have one but it's just not my thing - especially 2 girls 1 dude.

Well, I mean most things are worth considering. Just sayin.

I had one, once..it's taking a shower..someone's always left in the cold while the other is under the hot water spray. I feel it's something that's portrayed in movies and porno's as beening something that's really hot, but it just doesn't work out that way

I'm pretty sure it would only work if there aren't emotional ties between any of the participants

JustErin said:

Not for me they aren't. I've been asked countless times to have one but it's just not my thing - especially 2 girls 1 dude.

Yeah, that would totally not be my thing either.

Maybe with you and PunkMistress tho. I'd still be bottom, of course.

BlackAdder7 said:

I had one, once..it's taking a shower..someone's always left in the cold while the other is under the hot water spray. I feel it's something that's portrayed in movies and porno's as beening something that's really hot, but it just doesn't work out that way

DP involves everyone!

ZombieKitten said:

BlackAdder7 said:

I had one, once..it's taking a shower..someone's always left in the cold while the other is under the hot water spray. I feel it's something that's portrayed in movies and porno's as beening something that's really hot, but it just doesn't work out that way

DP involves everyone!

how could 2 women and one man...dp...:taking out my abacus:

ZombieKitten said:

BlackAdder7 said:

I had one, once..it's taking a shower..someone's always left in the cold while the other is under the hot water spray. I feel it's something that's portrayed in movies and porno's as beening something that's really hot, but it just doesn't work out that way

DP involves everyone!

True tho.

BlackAdder7 said:

ZombieKitten said:

DP involves everyone!

how could 2 women and one man...dp...:taking out my abacus:

there's your problem, you doing the wrong kind, mm+f is the way to go

johnart said:

ZombieKitten said:

DP involves everyone!

True tho.

If we are talking me and my husband and some other girl... HELL F****** NO...

Now if I werent married, and I was with 2 other people I didnt care about romantically... maybe..

johnart said:

ZombieKitten said:

DP involves everyone!

True tho.

But you don't even need 2 guys for that kind of fun.

ZombieKitten said:

BlackAdder7 said:

how could 2 women and one man...dp...:taking out my abacus:

there's your problem, you doing the wrong kind, mm+f is the way to go

but....but....

ZombieKitten said:

BlackAdder7 said:

how could 2 women and one man...dp...:taking out my abacus:

there's your problem, you doing the wrong kind, mm+f is the way to go

What are all these abbreviations??

JustErin said:

johnart said:

True tho.

But you don't even need 2 guys for that kind of fun.

I know but this thread is about THREESOMES

BlackAdder7 said:

I had one, once..it's taking a shower..someone's always left in the cold while the other is under the hot water spray. I feel it's something that's portrayed in movies and porno's as beening something that's really hot, but it just doesn't work out that way

I think you could get better at it.

Imagine if you had only had sex (a normal twosome) one time, you might think it was awkward, too. But after several hundred times it gets a little easier to feel like you know what you are doing.

Not that I know what I'm talking about; I am just speculating, but I think with some practice I could keep two women under the hot water, and they could help keep each other under it, too

but to answer the question, yes they are definitely worth considering.

Just considering them can be quite pleasant!

ZombieKitten said:

I'm pretty sure it would only work if there aren't emotional ties between any of the participants

My bf would love to have one as he has been dreaming about it all his life, but I am not willing to share him.

JustErin said:

johnart said:

True tho.

But you don't even need 2 guys for that kind of fun.

Well, it's the only way I'd consider having it.

NDRU said:

but to answer the question, yes they are definitely worth considering.

Just considering them can be quite peasant!

oh now you're getting all boushie on us!

Serious said:

ZombieKitten said:

I'm pretty sure it would only work if there aren't emotional ties between any of the participants

My bf would love to have one as he has been dreaming about it all his life, but I am not willing to share him.

I feel you on this...my GF had brought it up but I don't think I could handle it...I"ve been in 3somes twice before, but in situations with no emotional ties whatsoever...

BlackAdder7 said:

NDRU said:

but to answer the question, yes they are definitely worth considering.

Just considering them can be quite peasant!

oh now you're getting all boushie on us!

master of the misquote strikes again!!

johnart said:

JustErin said:

But you don't even need 2 guys for that kind of fun.

Well, it's the only way I'd consider having it.

Same.

SpaceInBetween said:

Serious said:

My bf would love to have one as he has been dreaming about it all his life, but I am not willing to share him.

I feel you on this...my GF had brought it up but I don't think I could handle it...I"ve been in 3somes twice before, but in situations with no emotional ties whatsoever...

My bf and I love each other so much and I would be willing to do a lot to make him happy, but I won't ruin our relationship by an experience like that. And I am pretty sure it will fuck up the relationship if one partner gives in and does something he/she doesnt really want to do.

BTW are you new to the org or do you just go by a new name here ?

? + =

for me the problem (other than a gf who has no interest in such a thing) is that I am only comfortable sexually with someone I am very close to emotionally. That means a threesome would have to be a relationship, not just a fun evening.

And that sounds...pretty good actually! Difficult, but if it could work it could be great! I love women. I am not scared of relationships. I would not mind two girlfriends.