Here's a Marie Claire article about a woman who has no problem with her husband actually doing gay porn. Enjoy!

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kitbradley said:

vainandy said:

Yeah, they call those boys "twinks". Seems to be very popular but is a huge turn-off for me. that's why I primarily watch thug porn. Nothing like seeing a hard, thugged out, butch, muscular dude screwing the crap out of some poor, lucky guy. I love that sh*t!!! I'm finding that several straight females I know enjoying watching that type of thing, too.

Thug porn as in black gay porn? It turns me off because these black men have let the big dick stereotype go to their heads. The reason folks started shaving and trimming their dicks is so they could give the illusion that they are bigger. With all this talk over the years about black men having the biggest dicks on the face of the planet, they have let it go to their heads and started shaving to make them look even bigger. "Thug" my ass. Can you see a damn so-called "thug" sitting in a bathtub shaving his dick like a little queen ass bitch? I don't think so.

I'm tellin' ya honey, I'm sick of these damn bitch ass motherfuckers ruining perfectly good dicks by shaving them and making them look like little boys with big dicks. I'm gonna talk about 'em honey! The motherfuckers!

Baby, there was a time when my motto was "If it ain't black, send it back!" but honey, I'm bout at the end of my rope with these insecure motherfuckers about their dick size. I'd rather have a furry kitten that purrs than a damn lion with the mange. I'm drinkin' tonight and I'm gonna talk about them son of a bitches honey!

I know straight men who shave. It's all a matter of personal preference. Some men shave because it enhances the feeling in that area. Some men shave for hygiene reasons. Some just like that clean look. Personally, it doesn't make any difference to me whether a man shaves or not.

As far as men in Male/Male porn shaving, I find that to be prevelant in many of the films that are overly produced. I can't stand films where the guys are prepped for the camera (i.e., makeup, oiled bodies, perfect grooming, etc) and the sex is scripted and directed. this is why I prefer amatuer thug porn. You tend to see more normal, every day "real" men just being themselves and they seem to enjoy the sex more.

vainandy said:

kitbradley said:

Yeah, they call those boys "twinks". Seems to be very popular but is a huge turn-off for me. that's why I primarily watch thug porn. Nothing like seeing a hard, thugged out, butch, muscular dude screwing the crap out of some poor, lucky guy. I love that sh*t!!! I'm finding that several straight females I know enjoying watching that type of thing, too.

Thug porn as in black gay porn? It turns me off because these black men have let the big dick stereotype go to their heads. The reason folks started shaving and trimming their dicks is so they could give the illusion that they are bigger. With all this talk over the years about black men having the biggest dicks on the face of the planet, they have let it go to their heads and started shaving to make them look even bigger. "Thug" my ass. Can you see a damn so-called "thug" sitting in a bathtub shaving his dick like a little queen ass bitch? I don't think so.

I'm tellin' ya honey, I'm sick of these damn bitch ass motherfuckers ruining perfectly good dicks by shaving them and making them look like little boys with big dicks. I'm gonna talk about 'em honey! The motherfuckers!

Baby, there was a time when my motto was "If it ain't black, send it back!" but honey, I'm bout at the end of my rope with these insecure motherfuckers about their dick size. I'd rather have a furry kitten that purrs than a damn lion with the mange. I'm drinkin' tonight and I'm gonna talk about them son of a bitches honey!

I just clicked on this thread and this post was the first one I ended up reading. This damn vainandy !

kitbradley said:

vainandy said:

Yeah, they call those boys "twinks". Seems to be very popular but is a huge turn-off for me. that's why I primarily watch thug porn. Nothing like seeing a hard, thugged out, butch, muscular dude screwing the crap out of some poor, lucky guy. I love that sh*t!!! I'm finding that several straight females I know enjoying watching that type of thing, too.

Your post just validated the article.

Yes, but as I am shallow as a puddle the guys have been majorly hot!!!

Nope.

kitbradley said:

I know straight men who shave. It's all a matter of personal preference. Some men shave because it enhances the feeling in that area. Some men shave for hygiene reasons. Some just like that clean look. Personally, it doesn't make any difference to me whether a man shaves or not.

Those are very valid reasons for shaving. In past relationships I have requested my men do this....that is....if they ever hope to get a BJ. I'm not burying my face in no stinky bush.

I think my sexy died...:-/

Yes, it does. I've recently been introduced to gay porn and it's far superior to straight. The people actually seem to be half way interested and enjoy it unlike straight porn.

Layzie said:

Yes, it does. I've recently been introduced to gay porn and it's far superior to straight. The people actually seem to be half way interested and enjoy it unlike straight porn.

Exactly.

That's hot.

Alej said:

That's hot.

Vendetta1 said:

Alej said:

That's hot.

Vendetta1 said:

Layzie said:

Yes, it does. I've recently been introduced to gay porn and it's far superior to straight. The people actually seem to be half way interested and enjoy it unlike straight porn.

Exactly.

Yep it's the shit. Glad y'all ladies like that lol

Lammastide said:

mimi02 said:

According to the article, the appeal is based on not just the physical, but the type of sex that's had.

James Colangelo, PsyD states "When females see something that is sexually explicit but that they can't fully understand, it leaves room for their imagination to go wild. Women can fantasize about what it would feel like to be involved in that kind of sex, and that fantasy can really be anything she wants it to be."

These types of sex scenes tend to be less about sensuality.

Interesting stuff.

I don't have enough familiarity with gay romance novels to speak much on them. I also am very critical of cinematic porn (straight or gay) at this point in my life, but I admittedly know it more, and I'd argue sensuality is the key ingredient in all of it. Not sensuality in the sense of a soft, loving intimacy, but sensuality in a denotative respect, that appeals with abandon to sight, smell, sound, taste, touch. In this vein, I'd argue gay porn particularly can be downright hypersensual: The penetration of a male is an evocative notion in and of itself, but it's decidedly graphic here, and far more than in straight porn the men appeal to a very specific look or archetype even from the point of full dress; there is focus on parts of the male body that produce smell (buttholes, armpits); vocalizations like male grunting, moaning and talk is considerably more prevalent than in straight porn; taste ...well, let's just say the taste of a partner often figures -- and less begrudingly so -- in gay porn; and appeals to tactile sensation run the gamut even in a single scene from affectionate carressing and kissing to full-on physical invasion, aggression, even (willful) humiliation and pain. That's comprehensively sensual stuff.

Now, there is technically analogous stuff in straight porn, of course. But a big difference I got is that in gay porn the participants actually seemed into it. They may not love their partner, but they downright feast on, worship and serve them -- and getting them off seemed as gratifying, if not more gratifying, to a guy than his own getting off. (And I speculate this may be largely true of gays' attitudes toward sex in general.) I rarely got that impression from the straight porn I saw. Those men seemed there solely to have an orgasm; the women -- and the sex act itself -- were merely means to an end. The guys didn't seem invested in their partner's bodies except to play to the camera. The female orgasm was never a centerpiece, and her more general pleasure was faked and ridiculously overwrought simply to stroke the male ego. Frankly, the guys didn't seem to be having much fun either. I recall they rarely spoke or emoted at all; heck, half the time (particularly in gonzo or POV porn) they didn't even appear on camera except as an anonymous erection. And at the moment of the male orgasm, what I recall is guys often reached it with minimal participation from the woman; rather they often masturbated themselves unto some part of the woman(!?!) She may as well have been a magazine, a blowup doll, a Fleshjack... a toilet.

I still suspect the depth of participant investment in gay porn intrigues many women, because it's something they don't generally see in most straight adult entertainment. That the guys are hotter is probably icing on the cake. And I guess I don't buy that women don't understand gay sex. Heck, the mechanics are pretty much the same.

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Every word you say is true. I have no idea why straight men do not play with women's nipples as much as gays play with eachothers either. All they do is squeeze the whole breast, usually with their cock in the middle.

Another thing is women usually look like they are counting how many times that thing has bobbed in and out of their mouth. The men look like they could care less if the guy is in their mouth all day "cause they love every minute of it.

ScarletScandal said:

I work in an adult video store, and I've noticed the trend. Man and Woman couples come in, and the Woman will go to the gay section and look at it. Sometimes the men go with them as well. It reminds me of that scene in the movie "Fluffer", when the gay guy and his female co-worker are talking and he asks her "So why do you like gay sex?" and she says "I like looking at penises."

Exactly, I have no interest in looking at other women and could care less if they ever get off. I like watching those things get red and more deffined. I also am not comparing my body, boobs etc, with the guys. Watching women brings out my insecurity too.

i dont wanna see ass all turned up in my face...thats why i stopped going to porn shops. they would get mad cause i would go in making jokes just to make myself comfortable...

mimi02 said:

According to an article in the December issue of Cosmo it does......

The following is from "The New Trend That is Turning Women On"

"Recently women have been reading so much gay erotica that romance-novel publishers-like Harlequin and Running Press-have launched a series solely about male lovers to satisfy female audiences. One author of these books even told us that close to 90% of her fan mail comes from chicks."

My opinion is that it is what it is. To me, as a heterosexual female, I consider male/male sex scenes interested, but it doesn't make me "horny".

So to the ladies of the Org, it's time to put in your two cents on the topic.

Does gay male sex turn you on?

Interesting. As a female "switch hitter" it does not turn me on. Now two women on the other hand.................