it's a sexist thing....

with men... hot men... my stare is focused on their buldge, then their lips and eyes

men that r just men and r not hot... i go for the nose

women are different... first i look at their smile, their hair then their shoes

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If his dick is hanging out... I'll notice that first, I think that's all I will notice actually.

ZombieKitten said:

squirrelgrease said:

Titties.

I still suspect you are my husband

Devoting both sides of our brains to mams is incredibly time consuming and... and I forgot what I was talking about... I started thinking about sweater puppies.

BlackAdder7 said:

ratethis99 said:

And in what order do you notice them?

their hair follicles. i like to count as many as i can when i first meet a person, helps me get to know them better.

for me, i'm an eye person

Hi, Doctor.

I guess the main thing I want to talk about is my obsession with my physical appearance.

I've been told that I'm a good-looking person, yet I am fixated on my nose, feeling that surgically altering it will be the panacea that will magically transform my existence. I've even posted several threads about it in an online forum. I think I have BDD. Almost certainly, I have low-esteem, which I've been told is probably the true root of my problems in hanging on to the kind of romantic partner I'd like to have.

Someone on the online forum told me that my belief that landing this idealized partner will engender happiness for me is misguided. So, here I am, wanting to get a professional opinion.

Ace said:

Hi, Doctor.

I guess the main thing I want to talk about is my obsession with my physical appearance.

I've been told that I'm a good-looking person, yet I am fixated on my nose, feeling that surgically altering it will be the panacea that will magically transform my existence. I've even posted several threads about it in an online forum. I think I have BDD. Almost certainly, I have low-esteem, which I've been told is probably the true root of my problems in hanging on to the kind of romantic partner I'd like to have.

Someone on the online forum told me that my belief that landing this idealized partner will engender happiness for me is misguided. So, here I am, wanting to get a professional opinion.

Ace just wondering who are some men you consider to be good-looking? (and women)

ratethis99 said:

Ace said:

Hi, Doctor.

I guess the main thing I want to talk about is my obsession with my physical appearance.

I've been told that I'm a good-looking person, yet I am fixated on my nose, feeling that surgically altering it will be the panacea that will magically transform my existence. I've even posted several threads about it in an online forum. I think I have BDD. Almost certainly, I have low-esteem, which I've been told is probably the true root of my problems in hanging on to the kind of romantic partner I'd like to have.

Someone on the online forum told me that my belief that landing this idealized partner will engender happiness for me is misguided. So, here I am, wanting to get a professional opinion.

Ace just wondering who are some men you consider to be good-looking? (and women)

This has gotta be a joke, right?

Ace said:

ratethis99 said:

Ace just wondering who are some men you consider to be good-looking? (and women)

This has gotta be a joke, right?

And comic book superhero characters (and funny ones)

...and muppets (and marionettes)

Ace said:

ratethis99 said:

Ace just wondering who are some men you consider to be good-looking? (and women)

This has gotta be a joke, right?

No ... I just am surprised that you consider me to be good-looking so I maybe was wondering if you think ugly guys (like me) are good-looking...that's why i was curious what men u think r attractive.........

ratethis99 said:

Ace said:

This has gotta be a joke, right?

No ... I just am surprised that you consider me to be good-looking so I maybe was wondering if you think ugly guys (like me) are good-looking...that's why i was curious what men u think r attractive.........

obsession with one's own looks? Not attractive.

her hair.

ratethis99 said:

Ace said:

This has gotta be a joke, right?

No ... I just am surprised that you consider me to be good-looking so I maybe was wondering if you think ugly guys (like me) are good-looking...that's why i was curious what men u think r attractive.........

We really need an emoticon for :holyfuckingshit:.

NDRU said:

ratethis99 said:

No ... I just am surprised that you consider me to be good-looking so I maybe was wondering if you think ugly guys (like me) are good-looking...that's why i was curious what men u think r attractive.........

obsession with one's own looks? Not attractive.

As usual, NDRU knows the score.

Ace said:

NDRU said:

obsession with one's own looks? Not attractive.

As usual, NDRU knows the score.

I'm going to get some surgery pretty soon (just had a consultation...lots of surgery on my face.)

ace i wanna see your pic

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ratethis99 said:

Ace said:

As usual, NDRU knows the score.

I'm going to get some surgery pretty soon (just had a consultation...lots of surgery on my face.)

ace i wanna see your pic

[Edited 1/18/11 17:03pm]

you did say you'ld post yours, Ratethis.

ratethis99 said:

And in what order do you notice them?

1. eyes

2. clean fingernails

3. nice teeth/grill

4. bulge in the pants/big feet

5. good skin

Once I get past this stuff I can assess the body and the personality and the income potential.

zaza said:

InternationalLover82 said:

eyes, i love brown eyes

Brown eyes

and your eyes

ratethis99 said:

Ace said:

As usual, NDRU knows the score.

I'm going to get some surgery pretty soon (just had a consultation...lots of surgery on my face.)

Plastic surgeons will always give you an unbiased opinion.

I will never forget a U.S. TV interview I saw with an honest plastic surgeon a number of years back. In essence, he admitted that plastic surgery was for losers, that it could not effect anything more for the recipient (and, in fact, probably less) than a good, old-fashioned dose of self-esteem.

Dude, if this isn't a put-on, you are deranged. And any woman will tell you that a man who obsesses about his looks is a total turn-off.

This is just crazy.

P.S. What's turning people off is your complete and total lack of self-esteem and a sorely misguided view of life.

...Again, if this isn't a total put-on.

Ace said:

ratethis99 said:

No ... I just am surprised that you consider me to be good-looking so I maybe was wondering if you think ugly guys (like me) are good-looking...that's why i was curious what men u think r attractive.........

We really need an emoticon for :holyfuckingshit:.

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these responses are genius.

Love balloons.

I notice their beautiful eyes which leads to their heart & soul.

Yeah right!

IT'S TITS & ASS ALL DAY BABY!!!

With a little bit of cameltoe on the side.

Actually I am being serious...I am THAT obsessed with looks (it's about 95% what I think about.)

And I'm into other men (not women.)

Depends how far away they are. I should wear glasses nearly all the time, but I don't, so usually the first thing I notice about them is a blurry, general body shape and size, or often more their clothes and the colours of them. Most of the time because of my sight I don't really look at ppl while I'm out and about, just the ppl I'm with. I don't really look at other women that much because of this (not so much through some saintly devotion to my wife).

Fauxie said:

Depends how far away they are. I should wear glasses nearly all the time, but I don't, so usually the first thing I notice about them is a blurry, general body shape and size, or often more their clothes and the colours of them. Most of the time because of my sight I don't really look at ppl while I'm out and about, just the ppl I'm with. I don't really look at other women that much because of this (not so much through some saintly devotion to my wife).

I had a friend in school who frowned all the time. She was always forgetting to wear her glasses, so it turns out she was trying to work out people's expressions, and frowned (without realising!) when she was looking at people

ZombieKitten said:

Fauxie said:

Depends how far away they are. I should wear glasses nearly all the time, but I don't, so usually the first thing I notice about them is a blurry, general body shape and size, or often more their clothes and the colours of them. Most of the time because of my sight I don't really look at ppl while I'm out and about, just the ppl I'm with. I don't really look at other women that much because of this (not so much through some saintly devotion to my wife).

I had a friend in school who frowned all the time. She was always forgetting to wear her glasses, so it turns out she was trying to work out people's expressions, and frowned (without realising!) when she was looking at people

I might do that too, then. I don't know though. I'll have to ask somebody. While possibly frowning as I try to work out who I'm asking.

Fauxie said:

ZombieKitten said:

I had a friend in school who frowned all the time. She was always forgetting to wear her glasses, so it turns out she was trying to work out people's expressions, and frowned (without realising!) when she was looking at people

I might do that too, then. I don't know though. I'll have to ask somebody. While possibly frowning as I try to work out who I'm asking.

has anyone ever called you a grumpy bastard? and you wonder why they would think that??