I told many a story of my trials and tribulations in this life which didnt begin until 2001. I was 38 years old. Up until then, my life was perfect. Went straight from high school to corporate america. I tried college, but i didnt have any skills beyond academia so it didnt work for meh.......worked my ass off some more, went on vacations, got married, had a bunch of kids, became a housewife, worked some more as they got older, until it hit me and my life totally changed.

I tripped out for nearly 10 years because my father wanted me to learn things about life i never knew, but within these past 10 years, my marriage was all fucked up, kids trippin out, i couldnt work no more, you name it.......

I held fast to my own memories and knew i could make it out of the madness and resume my self-made millionaire status....

Well, now my millionaire friends who all watched me go into this downward spiral and never offered to lend one hand, job, invitation or tank of gasoline are trippin out. I'm expected to be certain places, say certain things yada yada ya, but i'm thinking ... fuck them!? while they were following me around and lookin i seriously didnt know what the fuck to do and now i owe people???

my husband has become my jump-off, we dont talk, we are always screamin at each other, one of the kids found him in the club last week kissing on some fat ugly chick.......I tried to tell them stupid asses what they could do to help years ago, but all they wanted to do was look at me, look at me, look at me......they never saw his ugly ass and now i have to be the one to leave, make a decision and all that shyt. so now his patten is one of UNACCOUNTABILITY toward his own house, he makes me and kids miserable when he is here, and when he is away...NOT TO MENTION his off days from work are in the middle of the week! ..gawd! how much torture do i have to take. Now everyone sees and wants to say something about him, why now???

i swear fo god i should have moved 20 years ago, but i said, no, hang in there, make some changes, work your marriage out. I dont have anything else to salvage...he became an asshole and while my friends are seemingly all cool with me now.....its a lil too late he went from mild mannered to asshole, i go from giddy bubbly me to grumpy old bitch on the regular...smh.

and since the kids caught him, i damn sho aint gonna fuck him no more, and although its nice to have relationships and shyt, most of those are one sided.....am i just fucked in the game or what?!

the only reason i have a few bucks to spend around the house is because of my daughter and when he found out about that....he quit buying groceries altogther......* and you go the nerve to wanna come in here and eat the steak i bought for my kidsss?? bitch go eat them fukkin burritos you constantly bought for us to eat while your ass was in the restuarant and we were at home getting fat and weak.

I aint no punk bitch! I was a crazy bitch for a while, but i had a foundation that i built for myself and now im left with not even a third, AN EIGHTH (1/8) of what i built for myself and his skitsophrenic ass?? that bitch wouldnt have had a job were it not for my friends. now they are all HIS friends...Fuck my life.

myfavorite said:

I told many a story of my trials and tribulations in this life which didnt begin until 2001. I was 38 years old. Up until then, my life was perfect. Went straight from high school to corporate america. I tried college, but i didnt have any skills beyond academia so it didnt work for meh.......worked my ass off some more, went on vacations, got married, had a bunch of kids, became a housewife, worked some more as they got older, until it hit me and my life totally changed.

I tripped out for nearly 10 years because my father wanted me to learn things about life i never knew, but within these past 10 years, my marriage was all fucked up, kids trippin out, i couldnt work no more, you name it.......

I held fast to my own memories and knew i could make it out of the madness and resume my self-made millionaire status....

Well, now my millionaire friends who all watched me go into this downward spiral and never offered to lend one hand, job, invitation or tank of gasoline are trippin out. I'm expected to be certain places, say certain things yada yada ya, but i'm thinking ... fuck them!? while they were following me around and lookin i seriously didnt know what the fuck to do and now i owe people???

my husband has become my jump-off, we dont talk, we are always screamin at each other, one of the kids found him in the club last week kissing on some fat ugly chick.......I tried to tell them stupid asses what they could do to help years ago, but all they wanted to do was look at me, look at me, look at me......they never saw his ugly ass and now i have to be the one to leave, make a decision and all that shyt. so now his patten is one of UNACCOUNTABILITY toward his own house, he makes me and kids miserable when he is here, and when he is away...NOT TO MENTION his off days from work are in the middle of the week! ..gawd! how much torture do i have to take. Now everyone sees and wants to say something about him, why now???

i swear fo god i should have moved 20 years ago, but i said, no, hang in there, make some changes, work your marriage out. I dont have anything else to salvage...he became an asshole and while my friends are seemingly all cool with me now.....its a lil too late he went from mild mannered to asshole, i go from giddy bubbly me to grumpy old bitch on the regular...smh.

and since the kids caught him, i damn sho aint gonna fuck him no more, and although its nice to have relationships and shyt, most of those are one sided.....am i just fucked in the game or what?!

the only reason i have a few bucks to spend around the house is because of my daughter and when he found out about that....he quit buying groceries altogther......* and you go the nerve to wanna come in here and eat the steak i bought for my kidsss?? bitch go eat them fukkin burritos you constantly bought for us to eat while your ass was in the restuarant and we were at home getting fat and weak.

I aint no punk bitch! I was a crazy bitch for a while, but i had a foundation that i built for myself and now im left with not even a third, AN EIGHTH (1/8) of what i built for myself and his skitsophrenic ass?? that bitch wouldnt have had a job were it not for my friends. now they are all HIS friends...Fuck my life.

Well that certainly got it off your chest didn't it

Do you want my advice?

Separate from your husband - for your sake and for your kids. You have self respect build on that. Don't think I dont know what I am talking about because I have been there - divorced twice because they made me so unhappy. I was happier on my own and even if I was miserable I didn't have to contend with their bullshit either. I did have a child and took her into consideration when I divorced.

I also told my 2nd husband that if he didn't earn he didn't eat (and I stuck to it!) and I didnt cook him no food.

I met my present Husband who is wonderful at the age of 37 and have been with him for 13 years I am stable and happy.

Your husband is not respecting the family and especially not respecting his wife. I am always reminded that when we die if we have our self respect then that is all that matters. Yeah life will be tough for a while but isnt it tough already? I loved coming into a house where calmness reigned - no arguments - responsible for myself and my family - went out made new worthwhile friends - having your own independence after recovering from a bad relationship is indescribable. I also found that not having t put up with his moods, his griping, moaning, cleaning up after him as if a weight had been lifted off my shoulders.

See if you can get legal advice and start looking out for yourself because in the end your family will benefit and you will get the biggest payback.

Keep in touch and let me know how you are getting on and coping.

Regards

I wish you luck..

and much peace and happiness

I wish you much, much happiness, hon.

Also...

myfavorite said:

...never offered to lend one hand, job,

I'm sorry your going through this. Hold your head high and dont own his shame. Keep him out of your house, get a lawyer and just divorce his ass. You cannot rebuild anything in a relationship where such disrespect has been expressed to both you and your family. Dont worry...life will come back and bite him on the ass and he will be fucked because you wont be there to suck out the poison.....

StillGotIt said:

I'm sorry your going through this. Hold your head high and dont own his shame. Keep him out of your house, get a lawyer and just divorce his ass. You cannot rebuild anything in a relationship where such disrespect has been expressed to both you and your family. Dont worry...life will come back and bite him on the ass and he will be fucked because you wont be there to suck out the poison.....

Couldnt have said this better meself!

I'll deal wit yall later..im funna run da streets!!!

you have great kids... fuck the husband off!!!!!

and how did u get millions...i need some of it!!!

my kids love me soooo much, i work my ass off for them too.........i wish they would let me have a job tho...

n he only wants to fuck if he think i been with somebody else, and that could be a damn trip to the store, the library, work....ya know??? just dammed annoying!