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Thread started 01/01/11 1:45pm

alexnvrmnd777

No One's Wearing Condoms Anymore! (NSFW)

I've definitely seen and heard this attitude in a lot of people over the past few years. Shit, it's rare that a woman ever asks me if I have one, let alone put one on! And, catch the story about the idiot in the Miami swimming pool. *smh* $5 says he's retarded!! lol

Condom Sales Declining, Rawdogging On The Rise

VIBE.COM By: GangStarr Girl Posted 12-15-2010 2:02 pm

Even in the age of HIV/AIDS, studies show that several people still aren’t using protection. According to research by Ian Daly, a Details magazine writer who penned "The Death of Safe Sex", condom sales in the United States are getting lower, syphilis is making a comeback, shooting up by 43% between 1994 and 2004, chlamydia cases have doubled in that same time span and since 2001 new cases of HIV have been spiking.

Daly interviewed several professional men (mainly physicians and lawyers), some of whom were married, for the article and his findings were astonishing:

“The only disease I ever got was crabs,” says Mike, 35, scanning the banquettes of women in too-short-for-Casual-Friday dresses, “and that was worth it!” This delights his friends, Evan, 37, and Alan, 43. Handily one-upping his pal, Alan recalls a wild night in a Miami swimming pool. “She ended up giving me Chlamydia,” he says. “And the sick thing is, two or three weeks later I saw her at a party and told her what happened—but she looked even better! So, dude, I took her home, and I got it again!” They all burst out laughing.

These men are a microcosm of what seems to be changing attitudes toward safe sex among the masses. According to doctors interviewed for the article, more people are starting to view STD’s as nuisances that can mostly be cured and in the cases of HIV, herpes and HPV, they’re seen more as chronic conditions like diabetes, which can be managed. People are also still believing that STDs, especially HIV are more of a homosexual male problem and that because they don’t know anyone infected with the more serious diseases, that they will be fine.

“It keeps us in business. It’s across the board, heterosexual and homosexual. I’m talking about a tremendous rise in Human Papilloma Virus [the cause of genital warts] and Chlamydia in the heterosexual population,” says Dr. Steven Berman, a Manhattan urologist who’s been in practice for 20 years. “People don’t want to be bothered. There’s a tremendous number of people with multiple partners now who might use a condom on the first contact but then frequently drop using condoms quickly afterwards. Even populations who are at risk—patients I’ve treated before for STDs—some men are resistant to using condoms. It’s not sinking in—the message is just not clear.”

Another contributing factor for people’s ignorance discussed in the Details article is that abstinence education has way a substantial amount of resources from sexual education programs that have been proven to work better. The federal government spends twice as much on abstinence programs as it does on the Division of STD Prevention at the CDC—the department that managed to quell outbreaks of gonorrhea and syphilis among soldiers after the Second World War. According to doctors, by displacing those funds you put people more at risk.

The bottom line is, fellas: It’s not just women like Kat Stacks you need to look out. Ladies: Although the Details piece focuses on men, it’s also a woman’s responsibility to make sure her partner wraps it up because unplanned pregnancy isn’t cute either.

Do you agree that people are taking STD’s less seriously these days? Why aren’t people wrapping it up? —Starrene Rhett (@GangStarrGirl)

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Reply #1 posted 01/01/11 2:45pm

luv4u

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Do men today still feel that it's the womans responsibility to take the pill or whateva so the dude has an excuse not to use a helmet on his dick?? hmmm

I've heard some men say that wearing a condom interferes with the pleasure aspect.

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Reply #2 posted 01/01/11 3:21pm

FauxReal

Looks like the movie "Eight Legged Freaks" should've been.

alexnvrmnd777 said:

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Reply #3 posted 01/01/11 4:08pm

BklynBabe

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As a Scorpio, I resent that picture! hmph!

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Reply #4 posted 01/01/11 4:49pm

KidaDynamite

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FauxReal said:

Looks like the movie "Eight Legged Freaks" should've been.

alexnvrmnd777 said:

I can't stop laughing at this picture. falloff

But yeah, some folks are just nasty.

surviving on the thought of loving you, it's just like the water
I ain't felt this way in years...
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Reply #5 posted 01/01/11 4:58pm

tinaz

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I dont get the humping a scorpion image?? confuse

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Reply #6 posted 01/01/11 5:00pm

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tinaz said:

I dont get the humping a scorpion image?? confuse

I don't either. I think a crab would've been been more fitting. lol

surviving on the thought of loving you, it's just like the water
I ain't felt this way in years...
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Reply #7 posted 01/01/11 5:01pm

ThreadBare

Scorpions carry deadly venom that can even kill...

hmm

And that stinger arched over the scorpion's "partner" really drives that point home.

disbelief

So to speak.

[Edited 1/1/11 17:02pm]

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Reply #8 posted 01/01/11 5:02pm

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KidaDynamite said:

tinaz said:

I dont get the humping a scorpion image?? confuse

I don't either. I think a crab would've been been more fitting. lol

I know! lol

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Reply #9 posted 01/01/11 5:02pm

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ThreadBare said:

Scorpions carry deadly venom that can even kill...

hmm

And that stinger arched over the scorpion's "partner" really drives that point home.

disbelief

So to speak.

[Edited 1/1/11 17:02pm]

hmmm That makes sense... nod

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Reply #10 posted 01/01/11 5:04pm

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ThreadBare said:

Scorpions carry deadly venom that can even kill...

hmm

Mr.Knowitall ThreadBare to the rescue. Thanks sir! lol

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Reply #11 posted 01/01/11 5:11pm

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BklynBabe said:

As a Scorpio, I resent that picture! hmph!

haha yeah me too

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Reply #12 posted 01/01/11 5:22pm

ThreadBare

KidaDynamite said:

ThreadBare said:

Scorpions carry deadly venom that can even kill...

hmm

Mr.Knowitall ThreadBare to the rescue. Thanks sir! lol

nana

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Reply #13 posted 01/01/11 5:40pm

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luv4u said:

Do men today still feel that it's the womans responsibility to take the pill or whateva so the dude has an excuse not to use a helmet on his dick?? hmmm

I've heard some men say that wearing a condom interferes with the pleasure aspect.

When the guy does that, they need to accept the repercussion of whatever comes next. Pregnancy, HIV, some other STD, or whatever.

I mean, I understand that condoms don't feel THAT great and all, but if you're just meeting or getting to know someone, common sense would say it's GOT to be a requirement!

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Reply #14 posted 01/01/11 6:18pm

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purplemookiebut said:

BklynBabe said:

As a Scorpio, I resent that picture! hmph!

haha yeah me too

That makes three of us... people should know we are the dominant partner... hmph!

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Reply #15 posted 01/01/11 11:40pm

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ThreadBare said:

Scorpions carry deadly venom that can even kill...

hmm

And that stinger arched over the scorpion's "partner" really drives that point home.

disbelief

So to speak.

[Edited 1/1/11 17:02pm]

It looks like the scorpion wanted to do some penetrating of it's own neutral

Is the dude wearing a head wrap? Where they do that at?

Ole hoe ass scorpion disbelief

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Reply #16 posted 01/01/11 11:50pm

SherryJackson

As I believe Snoop Dog said once..

A condom is referred to as a Jimmy [Kimmel]. Nobody finds it funny and everyone hates it when it's on.

lol

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Reply #17 posted 01/02/11 5:11am

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SherryJackson said:

As I believe Snoop Dog said once..

A condom is referred to as a Jimmy [Kimmel]. Nobody finds it funny and everyone hates it when it's on.

lol

it's sad that jokes about Jimmy are funnier than Jimmy is himself.

everyone's a fruit & nut case
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Reply #18 posted 01/02/11 6:35am

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I believe the homie Snoop said it best!

From a young G's perspective
And before me dig out a bitch I have ta' find a contraceptive
You never know she could be earnin' her man,
And learnin' her man, and at the same time burnin' her man
Now you know I ain't wit that shit, Lieutenant
Ain't no pussy good enough to get burnt while I'm up in it
Now that's realer than real-deal Holyfield
And now all you hookas and ho's know how I feel
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Reply #19 posted 01/02/11 7:42am

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eek

FauxReal said:

Looks like the movie "Eight Legged Freaks" should've been.

alexnvrmnd777 said:

eek eek eek That is fucking scary!! I'm a grown man, but this pic is just....

If you want kids to never have sex, show this...

Back on topic...Yeah, I've noticed the same thing about women : Not many would ask you to put on condom. I don't know why. a girlfriend once told me it's a matter of education. She told me some girls just don't know how to bring the subject, and they're afraid they guy would feel insukted or suspected carrying STDs. They're afraid of the man's reaction... And yeah, so what if the man indeed has a STD??? You'll cach just because you were afraid of asking him when it's matter of health??

Everybody is somebody, but nobody wants to be themselves.
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Reply #20 posted 01/02/11 7:47am

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Reply #21 posted 01/02/11 7:53am

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No glove, no love, man.

Not only do I not want yo' babies, I don't want yo' crustaceans either! lol

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Reply #22 posted 01/02/11 7:57am

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carlcranshaw said:

lol lol lol >>> posted on my Facebook wall! lol

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Reply #23 posted 01/02/11 8:03am

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luv4u said:

I've heard some men say that wearing a condom interferes with the pleasure aspect.

For me it was the other way round : I had always had potected sex (from my virgin days on:lol: ), and I remeber the first time I did it without a condom on (after tests of course)... It was so ... different, I was more sensitive, so I ejaculated after a quicker than usual boxed ... My Gf was like :confused: ...

So yeah, condoms kind of interfere with the pleasure aspect. But in my case, it makes sex last longe... Plus it's safe, dammit!

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Reply #24 posted 01/02/11 8:53am

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Condoms do not protect you from herpes, crabs, scabies, genital warts...

but they are still a good idea for protection of those STD's that tend to be symptomless.

Question: Why are "crabs" called crabs when they are in your crotch but called lice when they camp out on your scalp? Isn't it all the same?

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Reply #25 posted 01/02/11 9:39am

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FrenchGuy said:

luv4u said:

I've heard some men say that wearing a condom interferes with the pleasure aspect.

For me it was the other way round : I had always had potected sex (from my virgin days on:lol: ), and I remeber the first time I did it without a condom on (after tests of course)... It was so ... different, I was more sensitive, so I ejaculated after a quicker than usual boxed ... My Gf was like :confused: ...

So yeah, condoms kind of interfere with the pleasure aspect. But in my case, it makes sex last longe... Plus it's safe, dammit!

yeahthat

almost identical story...

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Reply #26 posted 01/02/11 10:46am

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That's ridiculous, I always wear a condom to the ORG or should I say Whorg. evillol

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Reply #27 posted 01/02/11 6:39pm

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Acrylic said:

No glove, no love, man.

Not only do I not want yo' babies, I don't want yo' crustaceans either! lol

falloff

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Reply #28 posted 01/02/11 6:57pm

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BklynBabe said:

I believe the homie Snoop said it best! From a young G's perspective And before me dig out a bitch I have ta' find a contraceptive You never know she could be earnin' her man, And learnin' her man, and at the same time burnin' her man Now you know I ain't wit that shit, Lieutenant Ain't no pussy good enough to get burnt while I'm up in it Now that's realer than real-deal Holyfield And now all you hookas and ho's know how I feel

nod thumbs up!

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Reply #29 posted 01/02/11 7:36pm

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kewlschool said:

That's ridiculous, I always wear a condom to the ORG or should I say Whorg. evillol

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