any good advice on how to get over him?

that totally SUCKS!!!!!!!

I've always cried a lot and been depressed for about 6 months. No quick fixes

my mum always said "nothing like a new love to get over an old one" but I think in the long run that's not such good advice. A period of being single to get your head straight is only a good thing.

Audexia said:

zaza said:

Audexia said:

any good advice on how to get over him?

Welcome to that thing called "life". What to do? Listen to a lot of music, hang out with friends and say to yourself he's a fool because he just missed one of the most amazing ladies ever

whinge to everyone who will listen, but not for too long, or they will stop listening

Awwww..I'm sorry.

Well, don't go to food for comfort. Bad idea, trust me.

The best thing to do is go to music. Music and time heal all. But like ZK says...ain't no quick fixes for a broken heart. Just gotta give it time...

and it helps if you have someone to talk to. I'm here if you need that.

ZombieKitten said:

zaza said:

ZombieKitten said:

whinge to everyone who will listen, but not for too long, or they will stop listening

That's my method

I thought you went the new love method??

ZombieKitten said:

zaza said:

ZombieKitten said:

I thought you went the new love method??

Right now? Yes. But in the past? Oh, I miss those drama threads...

I can't think of anything to say to that - which reminds me!!! The kids are watching a DVD, so I can safely go answer that orgnote now

ZombieKitten said:

zaza said:

ZombieKitten said:

I can't think of anything to say to that - which reminds me!!! The kids are watching a DVD, so I can safely go answer that orgnote now

OK, I tried, still speechless

ZombieKitten said:

zaza said:

ZombieKitten said:

OK, I tried, still speechless

AND I didn't have a shower yet. For some reason on warm days, I like to go for days at a time without one

Audexia said:

any good advice on how to get over him?

Get a photo of the offending person, glue it to ur Dart board & throw some Darts at it, improves ur aim & who knows u could become a proffessional Dart player & earn loads of dosh

Either that or go round to their house & Superglue the locks.

littlefish said:

Audexia said:

any good advice on how to get over him?

Get a photo of the offending person, glue it to ur Dart board & throw some Darts at it, improves ur aim & who knows u could become a proffessional Dart player & earn loads of dosh

Either that or go round to their house & Superglue the locks.

if you still have the key to their place, sew prawns into their curtain hems, or pour some milk on the carpet of their car you will thank me!!!

ZombieKitten said:

zaza said:

ZombieKitten said:

AND I didn't have a shower yet. For some reason on warm days, I like to go for days at a time without one

I love that

that is very, um EUROPEAN of you

what was it Napoleon used to say to Josephine?

"Darling! Don't wash, I'm coming home!!!"

ZombieKitten said:

ZombieKitten said:

that totally SUCKS!!!!!!!

I've always cried a lot and been depressed for about 6 months. No quick fixes

my mum always said "nothing like a new love to get over an old one" but I think in the long run that's not such good advice. A period of being single to get your head straight is only a good thing.

That's quick though compared to me. My pain about Peter is still totally there . I doubt it will ever go away .

Audexia said:

any good advice on how to get over him?

As I am the last person who could give any advice on that I can just give you a .

Serious said:

ZombieKitten said:

that totally SUCKS!!!!!!!

I've always cried a lot and been depressed for about 6 months. No quick fixes

my mum always said "nothing like a new love to get over an old one" but I think in the long run that's not such good advice. A period of being single to get your head straight is only a good thing.

That's quick though compared to me. My pain about Peter is still totally there . I doubt it will ever go away .

but to be honest, I've never broken up with a life partner of 17 years!!!

longest before the master was 5 years, and actually, that one I didn't grieve, I was sick of him and I just got a new one

ZombieKitten said:

Serious said:

That's quick though compared to me. My pain about Peter is still totally there . I doubt it will ever go away .

but to be honest, I've never broken up with a life partner of 17 years!!!

longest before the master was 5 years, and actually, that one I didn't grieve, I was sick of him and I just got a new one

Yeah that's a big difference. I was so sure we would last forever . But he was with me for that long too and he is doing totally fine without me .

Audexia said:

any good advice on how to get over him?

Time, this too shall pass. As others have suggested lean on friends & family for support, a shoulder to cry on.

Serious said:

ZombieKitten said:

but to be honest, I've never broken up with a life partner of 17 years!!!

longest before the master was 5 years, and actually, that one I didn't grieve, I was sick of him and I just got a new one

Yeah that's a big difference. I was so sure we would last forever . But he was with me for that long too and he is doing totally fine without me .

you know all I can say to that is "bastard!!!!"

what can you do!

ZombieKitten said:

Serious said:

Yeah that's a big difference. I was so sure we would last forever . But he was with me for that long too and he is doing totally fine without me .

you know all I can say to that is "bastard!!!!"

what can you do!

Serious said:

ZombieKitten said:

you know all I can say to that is "bastard!!!!"

what can you do!

I want to kiss you right now

ZombieKitten said:

Serious said:

That's quick though compared to me. My pain about Peter is still totally there . I doubt it will ever go away .

but to be honest, I've never broken up with a life partner of 17 years!!!

longest before the master was 5 years, and actually, that one I didn't grieve, I was sick of him and I just got a new one

i don't know why this makes me laugh but it does. Z.Z., you are one of a kind.

ZombieKitten said:

Serious said:

I want to kiss you right now

Awwww

TD3 said:

ZombieKitten said:

but to be honest, I've never broken up with a life partner of 17 years!!!

longest before the master was 5 years, and actually, that one I didn't grieve, I was sick of him and I just got a new one

i don't know why this makes me laugh but it does. Z.Z., you are one of a kind.

She is . She is awesome . Sadly for me the new one doesn't help much to ease my pain. Especially when we are apart .

TD3 said:

ZombieKitten said:

but to be honest, I've never broken up with a life partner of 17 years!!!

longest before the master was 5 years, and actually, that one I didn't grieve, I was sick of him and I just got a new one

i don't know why this makes me laugh but it does. Z.Z., you are one of a kind.

hey! I was 24, I didn't know any better

I'm still WITH that rebound guy btw, 16 years later

so, maybe it's not such a silly theory my mum had!