How do you look at women? What do you think of them?

I'm curious to hear your thoughts...

My last ditch effort at understanding men..

Usually I try to get a glimpse via a reflective surface. If that doesn't work I let them pass and pretend to crack my back. You can only use the back crack once every hour or so in any setting.

FauxReal said:

Usually I try to get a glimpse via a reflective surface. If that doesn't work I let them pass and pretend to crack my back. You can only use the back crack once every hour or so in any setting.

What do you mean, how do I look at them?

JDInteractive said:

What do you mean, how do I look at them?

Like..how do you see them? As equals? nuissances? people only needed to screw and procreate..

One fella told me he sees women as stallions who need to be broken...that disturbed me.

SherryJackson said:

JDInteractive said:

What do you mean, how do I look at them?

Like..how do you see them? As equals? nuissances? people only needed to screw and procreate..

One fella told me he sees women as stallions who need to be broken...that disturbed me.

That fella sounds like a clown. I love women, my Mum's one for goodness sake!

JDInteractive said:

SherryJackson said:

Like..how do you see them? As equals? nuissances? people only needed to screw and procreate..

One fella told me he sees women as stallions who need to be broken...that disturbed me.

That fella sounds like a clown. I love women, my Mum's one for goodness sake!

Awww ...

I love them too, I just don't want to live with or marry them.

uPtoWnNY said:

I love them too, I just don't want to live with or marry them.

Fair enough...

I sometimes wish they werent so beautiful.

I truly think some of them need to let go of that bullshit myth that the woman is always right.

...with my eyes? I don't look at women any different than I look at men. Most people annoy the crap out of me. Of course I often see women I think are attractive. But I rarely look at them and immediately think any one thing. I find it necessary to know people for a good long time before deciding if they're really worth the effort. Counterproductive? Yes (also probably why I have some great long, long time friends and rarely make new ones). But first impressions are nearly always wrong (in my experience). I realize I've danced around the kind of answer you were looking for, but I don't think I have one of those.

Cerebus said:

...with my eyes? I don't look at women any different than I look at men. Most people annoy the crap out of me. Of course I often see women I think are attractive. But I rarely look at them and immediately think any one thing. I find it necessary to know people for a good long time before deciding if they're really worth the effort. Counterproductive? Yes (also probably why I have some great long, long time friends and rarely make new ones). But first impressions are nearly always wrong (in my experience). I realize I've danced around the kind of answer you were looking for, but I don't think I have one of those.

Um, I believe she asked for responses from the gentlemen of the org...

JustErin said:

Cerebus said:

...with my eyes? I don't look at women any different than I look at men. Most people annoy the crap out of me. Of course I often see women I think are attractive. But I rarely look at them and immediately think any one thing. I find it necessary to know people for a good long time before deciding if they're really worth the effort. Counterproductive? Yes (also probably why I have some great long, long time friends and rarely make new ones). But first impressions are nearly always wrong (in my experience). I realize I've danced around the kind of answer you were looking for, but I don't think I have one of those.

Um, I believe she asked for responses from the gentlemen of the org...

Ouch 'n stuff. I think I kinda answered her question more than I thought I did anyway. But since I'm not a gentleman...

zaza said:

Women are usually much more clever, sensitive and they're not as bad as men.

Nah, women can be just as vicious and evil as men. They just do it differently.

And that shit about the world being a better place if women ran it? No way!

uPtoWnNY said:

equal with just different baggage.

i think female happiness is a theoretical concept, like absolute zero.

SherryJackson said:

How do you look at women? What do you think of them?

I feel sorry for a lot them.

I see so many who believe in fairytales and put themselves through the wringer to land or hang onto a man (or woman, for that matter). Getting up every morning and painting their faces...wearing uncomfortable clothes and shoes...shaving, waxing or electrolysizing this or that...starving themselves...devoting time they'd rather spend elsewhere to exercise they're only doing to make/keep themselves attractive...plastic surgery....the list goes on and on.

Sex & the City is not fun and empowering; it's poison. As are most rom-coms, magazines and pop music. They all push the notion that the be-all-and-end-all of life is a significant-other, as if that's the key to happiness.

This isn't to say that men don't have their version of this stuff - far from it - but you asked about women. I generally prefer them to dudes, but I see both genders as being mostly unenlightened.

...I should clarify that, when I see a skinny chick wearing the right uncomfortable clothes, who's painted her face in just the right way, I get a tingle in my special places and imagine having sexual relations with her (unless she's a good friend, in which case that thought is unappealing). Then I think of all the strings attached and the likely eventual outcome and I go on my merry way.

You asked.

Ace said:

SherryJackson said:

How do you look at women? What do you think of them?

I feel sorry for a lot them.

I see so many who believe in fairytales and put themselves through the wringer to land or hang onto a man (or woman, for that matter). Getting up every morning and painting their faces...wearing uncomfortable clothes and shoes...shaving, waxing or electrolysizing this or that...starving themselves...devoting time they'd rather spend elsewhere to exercise they're only doing to make/keep themselves attractive...plastic surgery....the list goes on and on.

Sex & the City is not fun and empowering; it's poison. As are most rom-coms, magazines and pop music. They all push the notion that the be-all-and-end-all of life is a significant-other, as if that's the key to happiness.

This isn't to say that men don't have their version of this stuff - far from it - but you asked about women. I generally prefer them to dudes, but I see both genders as being mostly unenlightened.

...I should clarify that, when I see a skinny chick wearing the right uncomfortable clothes, who's painted her face in just the right way, I get a tingle in my special places and imagine having sexual relations with her (unless she's a good friend, in which case that thought is unappealing). Then I think of all the strings attached and the likely eventual outcome and I go on my merry way.

You asked.

Ding! Ding! Ding! Although more with women, that's generally my regard for the human race.

Ace said:

SherryJackson said:

How do you look at women? What do you think of them?

I feel sorry for a lot them.

I see so many who believe in fairytales and put themselves through the wringer to land or hang onto a man (or woman, for that matter). Getting up every morning and painting their faces...wearing uncomfortable clothes and shoes...shaving, waxing or electrolysizing this or that...starving themselves...devoting time they'd rather spend elsewhere to exercise they're only doing to make/keep themselves attractive...plastic surgery....the list goes on and on.

Sex & the City is not fun and empowering; it's poison. As are most rom-coms, magazines and pop music. They all push the notion that the be-all-and-end-all of life is a significant-other, as if that's the key to happiness.

This isn't to say that men don't have their version of this stuff - far from it - but you asked about women. I generally prefer them to dudes, but I see both genders as being mostly unenlightened.

...I should clarify that, when I see a skinny chick wearing the right uncomfortable clothes, who's painted her face in just the right way, I get a tingle in my special places and imagine having sexual relations with her (unless she's a good friend, in which case that thought is unappealing). Then I think of all the strings attached and the likely eventual outcome and I go on my merry way.

You asked.

Damn ... I LOVE YOU !

even more that is

SherryJackson said:

JDInteractive said:

What do you mean, how do I look at them?

Like..how do you see them? As equals? nuissances? people only needed to screw and procreate..

One fella told me he sees women as stallions who need to be broken...that disturbed me.

you're asking a question about personality then, or that's how I'm hearing it. a woman's personality is judged no different than a man's personality. If they are nice, that's great. If they have a great sense of humor, even better. If they love animals, it's a god sign. If they act and talk crazy, well..that's a turn off. If they curse alot while talking, that's a huge turnoff. No different than a man.

I love it when women curse a lot... admittedly, I'm kinda broken.

Women are the most precious single thing on this planet.....................when their head is on correctly.

I see beautiful women as sex objects, but at the same time I find it easier to be a woman's friend than a man's. I enjoy their company.

While I have enormous respect for some men, I respect a greater number of women. I find them to be more intelligent, more reasonable, more respectable, more honest. Even the men I respect have huge character flaws that balance their brilliance.

Sometimes I think women are the way humans should be, less removed from children in some ways, both physically and mentally, connected, soft, emotional. Men seem to have this imbalance of something that makes them ugly, overgrown, hairy, bulbous, angry, clumsy.

But sometimes I think the respect I have for women comes from my attraction. Whatever. I like them.

Graycap23 said:

Women are the most precious single thing on this planet.....................when their head is on correctly.

In all seriousness, they all have a beauty (inner/outer) to them, something that makes them special.

I find that quality of character (as I get older) means more to me than any physical attribute. Some can be true queens, souls you can center and build a life around, whereas others make you ask "WTF?!"

Ace said:

SherryJackson said:

How do you look at women? What do you think of them?

I feel sorry for a lot them.

I see so many who believe in fairytales and put themselves through the wringer to land or hang onto a man (or woman, for that matter). Getting up every morning and painting their faces...wearing uncomfortable clothes and shoes...shaving, waxing or electrolysizing this or that...starving themselves...devoting time they'd rather spend elsewhere to exercise they're only doing to make/keep themselves attractive...plastic surgery....the list goes on and on.

Sex & the City is not fun and empowering; it's poison. As are most rom-coms, magazines and pop music. They all push the notion that the be-all-and-end-all of life is a significant-other, as if that's the key to happiness.

This isn't to say that men don't have their version of this stuff - far from it - but you asked about women. I generally prefer them to dudes, but I see both genders as being mostly unenlightened.

...I should clarify that, when I see a skinny chick wearing the right uncomfortable clothes, who's painted her face in just the right way, I get a tingle in my special places and imagine having sexual relations with her (unless she's a good friend, in which case that thought is unappealing). Then I think of all the strings attached and the likely eventual outcome and I go on my merry way.

You asked.

When I thought I couldn't love you more.....

Ace said:

SherryJackson said:

How do you look at women? What do you think of them?

I feel sorry for a lot them.

I see so many who believe in fairytales and put themselves through the wringer to land or hang onto a man (or woman, for that matter). Getting up every morning and painting their faces...wearing uncomfortable clothes and shoes...shaving, waxing or electrolysizing this or that...starving themselves...devoting time they'd rather spend elsewhere to exercise they're only doing to make/keep themselves attractive...plastic surgery....the list goes on and on.

Sex & the City is not fun and empowering; it's poison. As are most rom-coms, magazines and pop music. They all push the notion that the be-all-and-end-all of life is a significant-other, as if that's the key to happiness.

This isn't to say that men don't have their version of this stuff - far from it - but you asked about women. I generally prefer them to dudes, but I see both genders as being mostly unenlightened.

...I should clarify that, when I see a skinny chick wearing the right uncomfortable clothes, who's painted her face in just the right way, I get a tingle in my special places and imagine having sexual relations with her (unless she's a good friend, in which case that thought is unappealing). Then I think of all the strings attached and the likely eventual outcome and I go on my merry way.

You asked.

very