yesterday i did a client at work... she had never been to the salon before..

mind you this lady trully was a sweetheart... but as we got into conversation.. she felt the need to tell me about her sex life... and her current lack there of... anyway its not that this hasnt happened to me before but what utterly shocked me is that she wasnt a long time client of mine and she wasnt talking about it at a whisper level in the salon... now there is not alot that shocks me and this incident didnt but it got me thinking...

even though i consider my looks and sometimes my actions quite excentric... i gotta say when it comes to getting to know someone.. i couldnt just strike up a sex life convo with them...

i would have to say im more on the conservitive side when i meet someone new.. and gradually i let the devil out in me....

anyway i just figured i would ask you all

do you consider yourself conservitive in your words and actions.. or do you feel your more of a blunt outspoken person...

mind you i think neither are a bad thing to have.. sometimes i envie those who can speak there minds at all costs... i just tend to keep it to myself till i feel comfortable with a person...

xoxo Insatiable3

A little of both. I'm quiet and introverted, but I tell it like it is if you ask me a question.

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As I get older, I'm increasingly restrained in my words.

Lammastide said:

As I get older, I'm increasingly restrained in my words.

Really? I'm the opposite. I don't give a fuck no' mo'. Like it or lump it, that's my motto.

But in general, I weigh whether I even care enough to share my opinion with someone cuz if I don't care about you I'm prolly not gonna waste the energy.

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i figure hey, gotta cram as much living into as little time as is possible. that's why i try download as much really personal information about myself into initial encounters aspossible, to leave folks wanting more.

now, Adder, he'll hold back some. he'll talk about the weather but he won't say a word about his six toes. mind you, it's not really my place to mention the toe thing, but if it were me i'd work that into all of my conversations. how many people you know have six toes? that's what i'm talking about.

uPtoWnNY said:

A little of both. I'm quiet and introverted, but I tell it like it is if you ask me a question.

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Agreed

Generally a nice balance of both ~ given the situation on hand

Like to suss people out before I shock 'em as I do not want to offend. If you are a conservative personality I will respect that but if you are a gregarious and dont give a crap - well hell - it all comes out then! but I do love a laugh and a giggle and women do that so well together - either lewd, rude and crude or indepth discussion and problem solving.

WOMEN ARE WONDERFUL

I have no problem speaking my mind

but I've learned it isn't always necessary

sometimes we say a lot more

by keeping our mouths shut

i judge how i act by how you act and adjust my behaviour accordingly

insatiable3 said:

... i just tend to keep it to myself till i feel comfortable with a person...

I am exactly like this. I take along long time to warm up and come out of my shell.

For example I have been on the org for two years, but Im only just starting to talk to you all now!

Lammastide said:

As I get older, I'm increasingly restrained in my words.

Same.

I've never been one to try and draw attention to myself with odd or controversial opinions delivered in a loud voice but sometimes they slip out despite my best attempts at keeping them in

SCNDLS said:

Lammastide said:

As I get older, I'm increasingly restrained in my words.

Really? I'm the opposite. I don't give a fuck no' mo'. Like it or lump it, that's my motto.

But in general, I weigh whether I even care enough to share my opinion with someone cuz if I don't care about you I'm prolly not gonna waste the energy.

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Except I will waste expend the energy. Nothing like letting off some stress and steam on some tard mofo just asking to catch fade.

I don't talk much

I'm outspoken on the things I care about, but there's a way to say everything.

I'm quite conservative.

Lisa10 said:

I'm quite conservative.

Shanti0608 said:

Lisa10 said:

I'm quite conservative.

X a million!

Apart from that, i'm quite conservative. ....... Aren't I?

Lisa10 said:

Shanti0608 said:

X a million!

Apart from that, i'm quite conservative. ....... Aren't I?

Lisa10 said:

Shanti0608 said:

X a million!

Apart from that, i'm quite conservative. ....... Aren't I?

Shanti0608 said:

Lisa10 said:

I'm quite conservative.

that really must have been some juicy gossip

i love daves reaction...priceless!!!!!

endymion said:

Shanti0608 said:

that really must have been some juicy gossip

Ewwww don't say juicy!

See what you missed?

^^ omg, that's so cringeworthy. Seriously.

What a laugh though.

Shanti0608 said:

endymion said:

that really must have been some juicy gossip

Ewwww don't say juicy!

See what you missed?

Now my brain is overloading with all the gossip possibilities

Serves me right for not making the effort

endymion said:

Shanti0608 said:

Ewwww don't say juicy!

See what you missed?

Now my brain is overloading with all the gossip possibilities

Serves me right for not making the effort

After the holidays we are going to try to meet up again, you in?

If not, we will have to spread a nasty rumour about you!

Shanti0608 said:

endymion said:

Now my brain is overloading with all the gossip possibilities

Serves me right for not making the effort

After the holidays we are going to try to meet up again, you in?

If not, we will have to spread a nasty rumour about you!

Sure as long as I get to hear all the err juicy gossip

Have any plans been made yet ?

endymion said:

Shanti0608 said:

After the holidays we are going to try to meet up again, you in?

If not, we will have to spread a nasty rumour about you!

Sure as long as I get to hear all the err juicy gossip

Have any plans been made yet ?

Nothing planned as yet. Watch this space!