Kind of in a lovey dovey mood today. So, who was your first love/when was it/what was the outcome etc?

Ron

My ex-wife.

johnart said:

Ron

He was total bum. But I was young and naive. Pretty glad I didn't stay around and marry or worse have children by him.

The late 1990's...Damn I was a bad ass biatch! What the hell was I thinking? Yeah, we do stupid shit when we're young.

its kinda hard...every time I "thought" I was in love...I found somebody that I had an even more intense feeling for.

So...I'll tell you my very first love. His name was Nelson, he was puerto rican, we were in kindergarten and he had the biggest ears and the widest smile.......and I just loved everything about him. He used to give me his breakfast cereal sometimes and he liked to hold my hand and sit next to me in the circle.

Some crazy dumbass.

My real love is my last love.

PunkMistress said:

Some crazy dumbass.

My real love is my last love.

Yeah, that is true for me too.

i don't know. i've met a couples that haven't bloomed. i have this strange idea that people are somewhat destined to each other(ala hedwig and the angry inch style)...maybe it will happend..if not i am still happy i am able to live.

KatSkrizzle said:

PunkMistress said:

Some crazy dumbass.

My real love is my last love.

Yeah, that is true for me too.

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PunkMistress said:

KatSkrizzle said:

Yeah, that is true for me too.

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PunkMistress said:

johnart said:

Ron

Truly.

PunkMistress said:

KatSkrizzle said:

Yeah, that is true for me too.

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some ole dude who couldnt control his libido. I had helpeded him tho...

I'm such a loser sometimes...

First puppy love--a kid I met online at sixteen. i thought it was love...until...

I met my ex, Darren. THAT was love. He's a sweet guy when the world isn't "upsetting his balance" which could randomly pop on and off at any time.

Some girl throughout elementy named "Tiffany". REALLY appreciated my arts! Most girls now don't. The outcome was her parents wouldn't let her date till she was 20!

johnart said:

PunkMistress said:

Truly.

Both of you...

This boy named Rob who lived around the corner.

First it was riding our bikes, playing frisbee baseball, and hide-n-seek...

Then it was making out furiously by the time we were in high school.

We were teenage/college off-and-on for a long time, until he suddenly married a girl from our high school: Her Dad offered to set him up in business if he just married his little girl...

Now that I see them around town, I just laugh. He is sooooo whipped!

KatSkrizzle said:

PunkMistress said:

Some crazy dumbass.

My real love is my last love.

Yeah, that is true for me too.

What I thought was love in the past wasn't. I was in a long-term relationship, and even almost got married.

It wasn't until I met the last guy that I realized what it felt like to really love someone.

Unfortunately, it didn't work out.

The first time I thought I was in love .... some boy named Ronald. That was when I was a teen and didn't know what love was.

Now that I know what love is... I did love a man named David, but he didn't love me the way I needed to be loved. He and I both moved on, I have two of his children.

The nice thing is that I learned to really love myself and how to love someone truly through my failed relationship with David. I discovered much about myself, and now I am a different person.

Earlier this year, David begged for a do-over with me. He wanted me back, and because of what I learned about myself I told him these words..

"You could never love me the way I deserve, its just not in you to do so, but I wish you the best on your journey in finding love. I hope you learn how to love yourself before trying to dare to love someone else."

He looked at me in a way where I know he didn't understand. I hope he truly learns to love himself.

i was 20...he was 19

for some reason he always walked around with an erection???

but it was tragic...he died from a drug overdose

it took years 4 me to recover

His name was Peter...what a horrible waste of life

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johnart said:

Ron

My first love was in high school...from 10th grade on up to my first year in college. We didn't work out because I think what he was more so a puppy love than a mature true love. So we grew apart and went our separate ways. He has a family now with three kids, I'm happy for him.

My first true love was my ex. I just finally got to the point of forgiving him for taking me for granted in our relationship, but our love was deep. We have a lot of history together. He's one that I just can't seem to forget and will always care about no matter what.

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This thread makes me sad I don't wanna think about it. The real question is have you ever loved someone that didn't truly love you?

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nursev said:

This thread makes me sad I don't wanna think about it. The real question is have you ever loved someone that didn't truly love you?

I was engaged about 6 years back.

I think I was in love with the idea of being a bride and planning a wedding, than with him...

So I think that part was mutual.

But what made me think about this was that when we were breaking up, I asked him why he wanted to marry me in the first place. His reply: "We looked good on paper."

johnart said:

Ron

Awww...

So, we're talkin' real love here? I'd have to say Sweetie. I was a youthful idiot - but, through him, I now understand what love really is.