AndGodCreatedMe said:

Serious said:

Silly you, OF COURSE it was very much appreciated !

Thx

So where do you go from here?

Can David come to you?

(sorry did not read the thread)

I don't know. I want to return right now, but I should stay away for some time (3 months at least I think ) so that it is more likely that I am allowed back into the country for sure. And I had planned to look for a job again once I am back home, so I have no idea what to do .

It would be very hard if not impossible to get a visa for him. And he needs to be in Trinidad for high season (starting February) to make some money and before that it could never work with a visa . So the earliest he could come was summer. His wife (they are still not divorced although they are officially seperated for 1 1/2 years now, I think the divorce didn't even start yet, everything takes forever when 2 countries are involved and one is a 3rd world country ) sued him for custody of the kids alone and his lawyer told me he should come to Germany for the trial, but I have no idea when it would take place and if he would even get a visa. And it only makes sense if he gets a visa for a longer time, otherwise the flight is way too expensive. Once he is divorced and both countries acknowledge the divorce which might take a long time again we could marry at last and then it should be easier for me to stay in Trinidad at least for 6 months a year. It would still be very hard though that he would be allowed to come to Austria even if we were married .

[Edited 12/18/10 5:58am]

Serious said:

AndGodCreatedMe said:

Thx

So where do you go from here?

Can David come to you?

(sorry did not read the thread)

I don't know. I want to return right now, but I should stay away for some time (3 months at least I think ) so that it is more likely that I am allowed back into the country for sure. And I had planned to look for a job again once I am back home, so I have no idea what to do .

It would be very hard if not impossible to get a visa for him. And he needs to be in Trinidad for high season (starting February) to make some money and before that it could never work with a visa . So the earliest he could come was summer. His wife (they are still not divorced although they are officially seperated for 1 1/2 years now, I think the divorce didn't even start yet, everything takes forever when 2 countries are involved and one is a 3rd world country ) sued him for custody of the kids alone and his lawyer told me he should come to Germany for the trial, but I have no idea when it would take place and if he would even get a visa. And it only makes sense if he gets a visa for a longer time, otherwise the flight is way too expensive. Once he is divorced and both countries acknowledge the divorce which might take a long time again we could marry at last and then it should be easier for me to stay in Trinidad at least for 6 months a year. It would still be very hard though that he would be allowed to come to Austria even if we were married .

[Edited 12/18/10 5:58am]

I cannot imagine how hard this must be for you Try to stay positive

Serious said:

MarySharon said:

Thank you Marroussia .

U're welcome, it make me feel powerless. I wish I could do something

Keep the faith and good luck.

AndGodCreatedMe said:

Serious said:

I don't know. I want to return right now, but I should stay away for some time (3 months at least I think ) so that it is more likely that I am allowed back into the country for sure. And I had planned to look for a job again once I am back home, so I have no idea what to do .

It would be very hard if not impossible to get a visa for him. And he needs to be in Trinidad for high season (starting February) to make some money and before that it could never work with a visa . So the earliest he could come was summer. His wife (they are still not divorced although they are officially seperated for 1 1/2 years now, I think the divorce didn't even start yet, everything takes forever when 2 countries are involved and one is a 3rd world country ) sued him for custody of the kids alone and his lawyer told me he should come to Germany for the trial, but I have no idea when it would take place and if he would even get a visa. And it only makes sense if he gets a visa for a longer time, otherwise the flight is way too expensive. Once he is divorced and both countries acknowledge the divorce which might take a long time again we could marry at last and then it should be easier for me to stay in Trinidad at least for 6 months a year. It would still be very hard though that he would be allowed to come to Austria even if we were married .

[Edited 12/18/10 5:58am]

I cannot imagine how hard this must be for you Try to stay positive

Thank you, I try, but it's really hard !

MarySharon said:

Serious said:

Thank you Marroussia .

U're welcome, it make me feel powerless. I wish I could do something

I feel so powerless myself....

TD3 said:

Keep the faith and good luck.

Thanks a lot