All of 'em... because I have a big heart and it's pretty hard to do better than me...

Yeah. One I have to keep in contact with, the other I wonder about regularly, but know it's best to not make any contact. It's unfortunate given how I felt about her, but it's for the best.

Yes, but that is what facebook is for

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missfee said:

Even though you have moved on, do you have that one ex from your past that you think about now and then (not in a sexual manner but in a "wonder how they are doing" manner)???

Just wondering.

Yes I'm bored.

am i pig if i say i only think of them sexually? there's a good reason i've moved on from old relationships, but i do reminisce over certain bodies and experiences...

whistle said:

missfee said:

Even though you have moved on, do you have that one ex from your past that you think about now and then (not in a sexual manner but in a "wonder how they are doing" manner)???

Just wondering.

Yes I'm bored.

am i pig if i say i only think of them sexually? there's a good reason i've moved on from old relationships, but i do reminisce over certain bodies and experiences...

Well no not a pig for thinking that, it's natural. The only reason why I said that in my original message is because, well in my opinion, it's a given that we think about the exes that broke our backs out or made us scream to the high heavens. I was just wondering if there was ever an ex in anyone's life that they thought about beyond the sex part is all.

FrenchGuy said:

Yes.

Unless our 'lationship has ended in bloodbath or hatred (or she's a psycho:-? ), I still have a fondness for some of my exes, for some reasons... I just hate to treat people like Kleenex : Like "yeah we did our thang, we had or time, now just disapear!". I find it quite... disrespectful

You know, nothing sexual, just the good memories, the presence, the scent.. Sometimes I'm going through epiphanies: When I hear THAT song, smell THAT perfume, go to THAT place, it brings back memories...

Sometimes I send them an e-mail, a text message, just to ask how she is, updating, etc... Just not tryina to interfere with her current relationship...

I'm a female, but what you said here is EXACTLY how I feel sometimes. You knocked it right on the head.