Even though you have moved on, do you have that one ex from your past that you think about now and then (not in a sexual manner but in a "wonder how they are doing" manner)???

Just wondering.

Yes I'm bored.

Yup.

Just one from when I was really young.

Many.............

Sure.

Yes.

Unless our 'lationship has ended in bloodbath or hatred (or she's a psycho:-? ), I still have a fondness for some of my exes, for some reasons... I just hate to treat people like Kleenex : Like "yeah we did our thang, we had or time, now just disapear!". I find it quite... disrespectful

You know, nothing sexual, just the good memories, the presence, the scent.. Sometimes I'm going through epiphanies: When I hear THAT song, smell THAT perfume, go to THAT place, it brings back memories...

Sometimes I send them an e-mail, a text message, just to ask how she is, updating, etc... Just not tryina to interfere with her current relationship...

FrenchGuy said:

Yes.

Unless our 'lationship has ended in bloodbath or hatred (or she's a psycho:-? ), I still have a fondness for some of my exes, for some reasons... I just hate to treat people like Kleenex : Like "yeah we did our thang, we had or time, now just disapear!". I find it quite... disrespectful

You know, nothing sexual, just the good memories, the presence, the scent.. Sometimes I'm going through epiphanies: When I hear THAT song, smell THAT perfume, go to THAT place, it brings back memories...

Sometimes I send them an e-mail, a text message, just to ask how she is, updating, etc... Just not tryina to interfere with her current relationship...

Is this someone that you cared deeply about? Or someone you just so happened to date for a short period of time?

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Graycap23 said:

Many.............

Many....hmmmm

missfee said:

FrenchGuy said:

Yes.

Unless our 'lationship has ended in bloodbath or hatred (or she's a psycho:-? ), I still have a fondness for some of my exes, for some reasons... I just hate to treat people like Kleenex : Like "yeah we did our thang, we had or time, now just disapear!". I find it quite... disrespectful

You know, nothing sexual, just the good memories, the presence, the scent.. Sometimes I'm going through epiphanies: When I hear THAT song, smell THAT perfume, go to THAT place, it brings back memories...

Sometimes I send them an e-mail, a text message, just to ask how she is, updating, etc... Just not tryina to interfere with her current relationship...

Is this someone that you cared deeply about? Or someone you just so happened to date for a short period of time?

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there... THREE of them. Someone I cared about. I used to be more 'intrusive' (especially after we broke up), and one day one of my exes told me showing her too much affection made her feel "guilty" about being with someone else... So I'm just behaving like aregular friend.

I don't know if you still have real deep feeling about that person, but, if she has moved on, so should you.. Maybe one day in 10 years time you'll be together again... But don't let those thoughts emprison you emotionnally.

pretty much all of them, and the ones that never were, too

Memories of my high school sweetheart will always haunt my mind. We broke up, she had an abortion for another guy and soon descended into drugs. When I saw her years ago she looked like hell. But those most beautiful eyes were still there.

all of them, why wouldn't I?

FrenchGuy said:

missfee said:

Is this someone that you cared deeply about? Or someone you just so happened to date for a short period of time?

[Edited 11/29/10 11:33am]

there... THREE of them. Someone I cared about. I used to be more 'intrusive' (especially after we broke up), and one day one of my exes told me showing her too much affection made her feel "guilty" about being with someone else... So I'm just behaving like aregular friend.

I don't know if you still have real deep feeling about that person, but, if she has moved on, so should you.. Maybe one day in 10 years time you'll be together again... But don't let those thoughts emprison you emotionnally.

Well I'm a female and yes there is an ex that I do still deeply care about, even though he's made shambles of his life now (and would have dragged me right on down with him had I stayed...thank God I came to my senses in enough time). There's no way I would go back to him and I do have a man in my life now that I do care about and very much in love with....but somehow, I'll never forget that one ex of mine. Even though there's definitely no chance in hell for us in this lifetime, I do hope that he will get himself together and finally be happy with himself. We email each other now and then, but we keep it cordial and that's it. Just seems like he's still overall unhappy with himself. It's just that sometimes, now and then (few and far in between) that I wonder if he still thinks about me once in a while too.

robertlove said:

all of them, why wouldn't I?

I don't know. I just asked. Curious about how men think...at least in that aspect.

Identity said:

Memories of my high school sweetheart will always haunt my mind. We broke up, she had an abortion for another guy and soon descended into drugs. When I saw her years ago she looked like hell. But those most beautiful eyes were still there.

My goodness

I even sometimes find myself thinking about the one that broke my heart with the "I just wanna be friends" dagger.

missfee said:

Even though you have moved on, do you have that one ex from your past that you think about now and then (not in a sexual manner but in a "wonder how they are doing" manner)???

Just wondering.

Yes I'm bored.

Yes I do.

NDRU said:

pretty much all of them, and the ones that never were, too

PurpleJedi said:

I even sometimes find myself thinking about the one that broke my heart with the "I just wanna be friends" dagger.

Awww

missfee said:

Even though you have moved on, do you have that one ex from your past that you think about now and then (not in a sexual manner but in a "wonder how they are doing" manner)???

Just wondering.

Yes I'm bored.

missfee said:

PurpleJedi said:

I even sometimes find myself thinking about the one that broke my heart with the "I just wanna be friends" dagger.

Awww

Listen, I'm happily married and wouldn't trade it in for anything. (well, maybe for Scarlet Johanson in a catsuit )

...but sometimes I find myself thinking back to that time (20 years ago!!!), and what I did wrong, how bad I felt, what she must look like now, blah, blah. It was worse b/c she started dating some preppy, pretty-boy after our "un-date" and it made me feel like shit-on-a-stick.

Then I bumped into her about 2 or 3 years afterwards, and she was with some big, fat, dumbkupf and helping him fill out a job application.

I can't lie, I was like

pondering

Catwoman is always with me

HuMpThAnG said:

Nope.

kpowers said:

Catwoman is always with me

It better be THIS Catwoman (also, I read all your posts in my mind with Adam West's voice. Cool?):

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RodeoSchro said:

kpowers said:

Catwoman is always with me

It better be THIS Catwoman (also, I read all your posts in my mind with Adam West's voice. Cool?):

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I hit that big time

yes... my first true love... the one i gave my virginity to... there'll always be an unbreakable bond there... kind of magic you know?... i mean sure i love my wife... but i often think about my first true love... i hope whoever she's with is treating her like the princess she is... i don't really know what went wrong between us... the things we fought about seem so trivial now.. so insignificant... we were fools for allowing our spell to be broken... but don't get me wrong... i love my wife... it's just that... well you know... sometimes it just hits me from nowhere... memories come flooding back.... it might be a certain song... a scent in the air... and in my thoughts i'm in her arms again.... losing myself in her eyes... i get kind of short of breath... and then it passes... slowly... and i'm back with my wife... who i love by the way... don't get me wrong... it's just that the first person you give yourself to will always hold a special power of you... a kind of power that..................naaa... i'm just fuckin' with ya.... there's no-one really

blissagain said:

yes... my first true love... the one i gave my virginity to... there'll always be an unbreakable bond there... kind of magic you know?... i mean sure i love my wife... but i often think about my first true love... i hope whoever she's with is treating her like the princess she is... i don't really know what went wrong between us... the things we fought about seem so trivial now.. so insignificant... we were fools for allowing our spell to be broken... but don't get me wrong... i love my wife... it's just that... well you know... sometimes it just hits me from nowhere... memories come flooding back.... it might be a certain song... a scent in the air... and in my thoughts i'm in her arms again.... losing myself in her eyes... i get kind of short of breath... and then it passes... slowly... and i'm back with my wife... who i love by the way... don't get me wrong... it's just that the first person you give yourself to will always hold a special power of you... a kind of power that..................naaa... i'm just fuckin' with ya.... there's no-one really

Vendetta1 said:

blissagain said:

yes... my first true love... the one i gave my virginity to... there'll always be an unbreakable bond there... kind of magic you know?... i mean sure i love my wife... but i often think about my first true love... i hope whoever she's with is treating her like the princess she is... i don't really know what went wrong between us... the things we fought about seem so trivial now.. so insignificant... we were fools for allowing our spell to be broken... but don't get me wrong... i love my wife... it's just that... well you know... sometimes it just hits me from nowhere... memories come flooding back.... it might be a certain song... a scent in the air... and in my thoughts i'm in her arms again.... losing myself in her eyes... i get kind of short of breath... and then it passes... slowly... and i'm back with my wife... who i love by the way... don't get me wrong... it's just that the first person you give yourself to will always hold a special power of you... a kind of power that..................naaa... i'm just fuckin' with ya.... there's no-one really