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What do you do when your feelings are hurt? Do you cry?
Laugh?
Have an orgasm?
I get really angry. I want to slam and smash things. It feels shitty and I kind of wish I didn't get that way.
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Apply a bandage and move on.
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Lately...cry. | |
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What does applying a bandage mean for you? Having a drink? Giving yourself a mental kick in the ass? | |
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I hate crying.
But you feel better after.
Sometimes. | |
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Lover come hack 2 me is what i do! | |
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You...invite someone to chop you with an axe? | |
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Yes, sometimes.
I'm very sensitive lately. I was texting with someone the other day and I got one of these, "oh god nm erin" and just reading that made me tear up.
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Yuck.
I hate feeling dismissed. | |
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Mentally apply a bandage. I try not to get too angry, it uses a lot of energy.
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I was just like, "ugh he's just so mean to meeeeeeeeeeeeee!"
Things like that used to just piss me off. | |
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I stew a bit, | |
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take it out on everyone by yelling and being snippy I suppose | |
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Ditto. | |
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actually, I should point out it's everyone else - I'm talking innocent bystanders, the one who hurt my feelings I'm too proud to let know | |
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I am usually shocked at first, but once it sinks in, I'm pissed. After I calm down, I need to go back and let the person know that my feelings were hurt and why. If I do it right away, I tend to say something I can't take back... "Love Hurts. Your lies, they cut me. Now your words don't mean a thing. I don't give a damn if you ever loved me..." -Cher, "Woman's World" | |
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I stew for a while, then talk about it with friends who haven't hurt my feelings. Then I figure there's really nothing to be done about it, so I try to forget about it and move on.
But in general I do not forgive.
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oh i hear you! THAT one doesn't DESERVE to know~!
it's really hard to walk up to someone and say, 'hey, that hurt'. why i prefer a | |
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these situations should come with an 'edit' button | |
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so, from now on, I am going to burst into tears at the scene of impact - honesty is the best policy! AND I'm going to do it in a natural involuntary way so as not to LAY ON THE GUILT, because I'm not that type. | |
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On here, I have typed whole rants then hit "cancel response" because I knew it was mean, rude, or worthy of a ban. "Love Hurts. Your lies, they cut me. Now your words don't mean a thing. I don't give a damn if you ever loved me..." -Cher, "Woman's World" | |
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me too! in fact, from now on i'm going to be so honest i'll beat folks to the punch by crying before they can hurt my feelings!!!
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whoah!!! | |
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Seriously, tell us. | |
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That's mean! | |
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see, above
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