XxAxX said:

you had me at *fuck* now, what's this thread about???

we're choosing a fuck buddy; so far, nobody has chosen one...

JoeTyler said:

XxAxX said:

you had me at *fuck* now, what's this thread about???

we're choosing a fuck buddy; so far, nobody has chosen one...

i didnt realise that this was a dating site

but ok

physco185 said:

JoeTyler said:

we're choosing a fuck buddy; so far, nobody has chosen one...

i didnt realise that this was a dating site

but ok

u just have to do what works for u.

dreamfactory313 said:

u just have to do what works for u.

yes i guess so

but i've never had me a fuck buddy

i really don't know how to find one...there r so many things to consider

I could do without either. Not physically of course, but all the other bullshit that comes with either one.

Even FWB come with drama at times...most times from what I have observed.

I like having my fuck buddy, sex was boring at first.... but now the sex is quite nice.

He lies to me constantly... he tell me things that he thinks I want to hear.

Crap like... "I love you" "I want to marry you" and the famous... "I want to buy you a good home and do right by you, you're a good woman"

He's so full of BS... but the dick is good, so I get my groove on and forget about the tender lies, even the lies about how he tries to impress me... (he uses enhancement crap and colors his pubes)...

whatever... I like who I am around him. I am using him just like he is using me.

paintedlady said:

I like having my fuck buddy, sex was boring at first.... but now the sex is quite nice.

He lies to me constantly... he tell me things that he thinks I want to hear.

Crap like... "I love you" "I want to marry you" and the famous... "I want to buy you a good home and do right by you, you're a good woman"

He's so full of BS... but the dick is good, so I get my groove on and forget about the tender lies, even the lies about how he tries to impress me... (he uses enhancement crap and colors his pubes)...

whatever... I like who I am around him. I am using him just like he is using me.

I do not care about the lies...BUT

I do not want a fuck buddy that colours his pubes

physco185 said:

paintedlady said:

I like having my fuck buddy, sex was boring at first.... but now the sex is quite nice.

He lies to me constantly... he tell me things that he thinks I want to hear.

Crap like... "I love you" "I want to marry you" and the famous... "I want to buy you a good home and do right by you, you're a good woman"

He's so full of BS... but the dick is good, so I get my groove on and forget about the tender lies, even the lies about how he tries to impress me... (he uses enhancement crap and colors his pubes)...

whatever... I like who I am around him. I am using him just like he is using me.

I do not care about the lies...BUT

I do not want a fuck buddy that colours his pubes

I feel bad in way, its my fault he does that... he's sorta old fashioned and prude-ish.

the first time I saw him naked, I saw gray pubes, all over... so I was like The hell????? How OLD ARE you????

I'm like 10+ years his junior.

I hurt him (his self confidence) bad. Since then, the triangle area (pubic bone) is black...

sonetimes the roots show... I told him he doesn't have to do that.... I got over it. He lies and denies he colors his hair.

But the sex is good, so I don't care what color his pubes are anymore, he should know that by now. We've been scrrewing each other for over a year now. We've become a good sex match now.

paintedlady said:

physco185 said:

I do not care about the lies...BUT

I do not want a fuck buddy that colours his pubes

I feel bad in way, its my fault he does that... he's sorta old fashioned and prude-ish.

the first time I saw him naked, I saw gray pubes, all over... so I was like The hell????? How OLD ARE you????

I'm like 10+ years his junior.

I hurt him (his self confidence) bad. Since then, the triangle area (pubic bone) is black...

sonetimes the roots show... I told him he doesn't have to do that.... I got over it. He lies and denies he colors his hair.

But the sex is good, so I don't care what color his pubes are anymore, he should know that by now. We've been scrrewing each other for over a year now. We've become a good sex match now.

Don't feel bad

because with FWB you r not supposed to have feelings

Well that's what i've been told

physco185 said:

paintedlady said:

I feel bad in way, its my fault he does that... he's sorta old fashioned and prude-ish.

the first time I saw him naked, I saw gray pubes, all over... so I was like The hell????? How OLD ARE you????

I'm like 10+ years his junior.

I hurt him (his self confidence) bad. Since then, the triangle area (pubic bone) is black...

sonetimes the roots show... I told him he doesn't have to do that.... I got over it. He lies and denies he colors his hair.

But the sex is good, so I don't care what color his pubes are anymore, he should know that by now. We've been scrrewing each other for over a year now. We've become a good sex match now.

Don't feel bad

because with FWB you r not supposed to have feelings

Well that's what i've been told

Every one's different...

I can not have sex with a person I don't have feelings for. Doesn't mean that I want to spend the rest of my life with a guy, it just means that I am attracted to him.

I don't want to marry my bed buddy, but he is sexy as hell...

its passionate... I love getting lost in his kisses. I love sucking him off, I love when he loses control and stumbles around me, since he is usually so confident.

I see a different side of him, a vulnerable side, I care for him, but its not love... more like infatuation.

With him its passionate and fun, and that's as far as I go with him. I don't want more than that from him. In time I will let him go, for now, I'll keep him around... but I always keep my eye out for "Mr. Right"... because, this guy is "Mr. Good enough for now".

[Edited 11/23/10 1:31am]

paintedlady said:

physco185 said:

Don't feel bad

because with FWB you r not supposed to have feelings

Well that's what i've been told

Every one's different...

I can not have sex with a person I don't have feelings for. Doesn't mean that I want to spend the rest of my life with a guy, it just means that I am attracted to him.

I don't want to marry my bed buddy, but he is sexy as hell...

its passionate... I love getting lost in his kisses. I love sucking him off, I love when he loses control and stumbles around me, since he is usually so confident.

I see a different side of him, a vulnerable side, I care for him, but its not love... more like infatuation.

With him its passionate and fun, and that's as far as I go with him. I don't want more than that from him. In time I will let him go, for now, I'll keep him around... but I always keep my eye out for "Mr. Right"... because, this guy is "Mr. Good enough for now".

[Edited 11/23/10 1:31am]

after reading this i decided that i really want a FWB too

eleven said:

paintedlady said:

Every one's different...

I can not have sex with a person I don't have feelings for. Doesn't mean that I want to spend the rest of my life with a guy, it just means that I am attracted to him.

I don't want to marry my bed buddy, but he is sexy as hell...

its passionate... I love getting lost in his kisses. I love sucking him off, I love when he loses control and stumbles around me, since he is usually so confident.

I see a different side of him, a vulnerable side, I care for him, but its not love... more like infatuation.

With him its passionate and fun, and that's as far as I go with him. I don't want more than that from him. In time I will let him go, for now, I'll keep him around... but I always keep my eye out for "Mr. Right"... because, this guy is "Mr. Good enough for now".

[Edited 11/23/10 1:31am]

after reading this i decided that i really want a FWB too

I think women are discouraged for liking a guy just for his sex... people pressure women to fall in "love" or be serious with a guy.

I think you can be seriously digging a guy for just his skills in the bedroom... some men are only good for just that.

It depends on where you are at in your life, but once a FWB... keep it that way. Men don't like women that switch up on them. If it gets too heavy, then move on.

There's always more dick after all. Always keep one eye open until you find a healthy match for you to get serious with.

Oh.. and my FWB doesn't know he is a FWB... I only told him that I wasn't looking for marriage.

That's all he needs to know.

paintedlady said:

I think women are discouraged for liking a guy just for his sex... people pressure women to fall in "love" or be serious with a guy.

I think you can be seriously digging a guy for just his skills in the bedroom... some men are only good for just that.

It depends on where you are at in your life, but once a FWB... keep it that way. Men don't like women that switch up on them. If it gets too heavy, then move on.

There's always more dick after all. Always keep one eye open until you find a healthy match for you to get serious with.

Oh.. and my FWB doesn't know he is a FWB... I only told him that I wasn't looking for marriage.

That's all he needs to know.

wow u r good

that is great advice

thanks

JoeTyler said:

XxAxX said:

you had me at *fuck* now, what's this thread about???

we're choosing a fuck buddy; so far, nobody has chosen one...

XxAxX said:

JoeTyler said:

we're choosing a fuck buddy; so far, nobody has chosen one...

Althom!

What a sad ass thread!!! ..

you bitches need stamina....! ..

i really dont know where that came from??

[Edited 11/23/10 19:02pm]

eleven said:

i agree

love is over rated

Of course it's easier!

IF you're cut out for it, that is.

Some people are bound to catch feelings for anyone they're intimate with. If you know or suspect that about yourself, don't get into a fuckbuddy situation. You'll only be luring that person in with false pretenses and setting yourself up for future emotional drama.

Edit: it's easier until you find the perfect person that makes love effortless. Mostly effortless.

[Edited 11/23/10 8:03am]

I am in love with my fuck buddy and he knows it.

BlackAdder7 said:

XxAxX said:

Althom!

he brings new meaning to the words 'self-lubricating'

XxAxX said:

and the moral of the story is - never trust a robot lol

paintedlady said:

eleven said:

after reading this i decided that i really want a FWB too

I think women are discouraged for liking a guy just for his sex... people pressure women to fall in "love" or be serious with a guy.

I think you can be seriously digging a guy for just his skills in the bedroom... some men are only good for just that.

It depends on where you are at in your life, but once a FWB... keep it that way. Men don't like women that switch up on them. If it gets too heavy, then move on.

There's always more dick after all. Always keep one eye open until you find a healthy match for you to get serious with.

Oh.. and my FWB doesn't know he is a FWB... I only told him that I wasn't looking for marriage.

That's all he needs to know.

lol....

Sometimes I think it would be easier but I'm sure it comes with its own set of problems. I know I'm not able to handle it at this point in my life. Maybe someday though...

yeah well, at this point, why not two or three!

i already love just about everyone i know...

I couldn't do it. I know I know...feelings complicate things....but I know I couldn't achieve that level of intimacy without loving that person. Idk...maybe I'm just strange...

Although if morality, ethics, and feelings didn't stand in my way, I suppose it would be easier.

But are we really that hedonistic?

[Edited 11/23/10 21:55pm]

SherryJackson said:

I couldn't do it. I know I know...feelings complicate things....but I know I couldn't achieve that level of intimacy without loving that person. Idk...maybe I'm just strange...

Although if morality, ethics, and feelings didn't stand in my way, I suppose it would be easier.

But are we really that hedonistic?

[Edited 11/23/10 21:55pm]

i'd answer u if i knew what it meant

2 b honest i have not gone gown that path...yet

i never even had a one night stand and i'm in my 40's...

when is comes 2 men i feel like exploding ......i just don't get them anymore

and sex without complications sounds like heaven

so if i ever meet someone and the situation arises...unlike b4...i would prob say yes

Hedonist...

a person whose life is devoted to the pursuit of pleasure and self-gratification

Well u only live once...right

I used to have 2 (both lasted for years and years). Now I have none. Well, sorta one...

It sucks.

I need a new one.

i shoulda waited to have one night stands...i had em all in my twenties.........i knew exactly what was comin by the time my divorced years rolled around...