no shit, I'm glad my little girls weren't in the room just now. | |
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Ack ~ apologies
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It's ok. I should have learned by now never to click any links on the org whatsoever. lol | |
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That's a truth ! | |
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It's a cool photo, but I assumed he'd be staring at his own reflection in a shop window or something. Ὅσον ζῇς φαίνου
μηδὲν ὅλως σὺ λυποῦ πρὸς ὀλίγον ἐστὶ τὸ ζῆν τὸ τέλος ὁ χρόνος ἀπαιτεῖ.” | |
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that doesnt sound like narcissism to me. | |
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maybe you could learn to use this trait to your advantage?
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Tremolina said:
that doesnt sound like narcissism to me. more like assholism.... | |
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Uh oh.
I think our resident Dutchipoo is trying to tell us he needs an intervention. Ὅσον ζῇς φαίνου
μηδὲν ὅλως σὺ λυποῦ πρὸς ὀλίγον ἐστὶ τὸ ζῆν τὸ τέλος ὁ χρόνος ἀπαιτεῖ.” | |
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A fews years back I made the mistake of going with him to get a haircut. No lie, after the haircut, he looked at himself in the mirror for 5-10 minutes. It was bad.
Do you remember lying in bed
With your covers pulled up over your head? Radio playin' so no one can see - The Ramones | |
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lol yeah, that sounds bad.
I am not a psychologist, but I have a client who is diagnosed with narcissism and it's not like he is always looking in the mirror or finding himself extremely handsome or something like that. Everybody always thinks about the myth of the handsome young man that couldn't stop looking at himself, but narcissism is more an issue of having an extreme sense of self importance and pride as a way of self defense, which extreme vanity could be a part of, but not necessarily. My client basically suffers from having a personality that is vulnerable to severe depressions and psychoses whenever his pride is hurt, for example when he gets really hurt or offended by somebody. Everybody has pride and everybody hurts when their pride is offended, but a narcissist hurts extremely and as a consequence has real trouble in dealing with that in a normal way. S/he just can't let go off it and can't put it into perspective anymore. The offense starts to rule their minds, their lives and everybody around them. Justice must be done at all cost, but when this fails to materialise and the offense remains, the narcissist world crumbles. The narcissist becomes severely depressed and vulnerable to abuse by others, or starts abusing others himself, or drugs, alcohol, etc.
It's THAT bad.
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One of the old salesmen in our office is/was a narcissist. He was a good-looking guy and even though he pretended to be modest, he basked in the attention that women gave him. He was always fishing for compliments, and was always charming the ladies. Needless to say, he screwed around on his wife one-too-many times and now is living back down south after his divorce.
I checked out his FB page just out of curiosity (not his "friend")...his occupation is now "Personal Trainer". PERFECT. By St. Boogar and all the saints at the backside door of Purgatory! | |
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You d be better off looking at yourself and asking what you get out of having this person as a friend. You probably have selfish reasons for talking to him. | |
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I can't think of any. I cringe when I see his picture show up on called ID. I almost don't answer it, but then he'll leave a voice mail and then you have to deal with it sooner or later. Reminds me of a Seinfeld episode when Jerry tries to defriend some guy but changes his mind after the guy starts weeping. I guess I feel sorry for my friend. Do you remember lying in bed
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Cool...he just called and I got him off the phone in 2 minutes flat!!! Kept changing subject on him and then said "hey really gotta go"! It would really suck to be married to somebody like this. Do you remember lying in bed
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Easy.
Instead of his name, call him princess. He'll get the point really quick. ~Time Spent Learning is a Time Never Wasted~
~They say the skies the limit And to me that's really true But my friend you have seen nothing Just wait till I get through~ | |
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Challenge him to a game of one-on-one and win by at least ten points. | |
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By St. Boogar and all the saints at the backside door of Purgatory! | |
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