Ok, this might sound weird, but when is your son's birthday? He sounds like he could have been born in July.

StonedImmaculate said:

^^^

Nice!

Im not worried about him as a "man" though. He does great in school, plays football, baseball and rugby, is on the yearbook and school newspaper staffs...very well rounded.

I just cant understand why he's such a simp when it comes to this girl.

He's had other girls that he liked and "dated". He's always faithful, though he had opportunities to not be.

Never has he been so wrapped up!!!!

He actually gave me attitude!

"So I guess I cant bring "S" to Thanksgiving dinner?"

[Edited 11/13/10 1:25am]

I wouldn't allow that heffa at thanksgiving either. The beauty about being an ADULT, is that you can shoose who you want to associate with. He's still underage.

Perhaps he doesn't know his true pimpish skill yet. Perhaps he has no game. It also sounds like he's lazy in relationships. You know, letting the woman inititate everything. Ususally when guys are like that they have bitches as girlfriends or wives.

I think you better buy that silly boy a case of condoms, and tell him good luck, and that he BETTA not impregnate that Heffa. Hopefully when he gets to college he's going to find the promised land of ample ass opportunity. He'll start smelling himself, and realize that she's toxic. And as he gets older im sure his friends will give him shit for being a simp. Sounds like he needs to start smelling himself...like most cutie pie boys...something to think about.

Just my

ZombieKitten said:

paintedlady said:

wow!

both grandma's have brown eyes - so it's not like you could say one of them was cheating

I thought it was determined by the parents. If we look at it like this:

B = brown (dominant)

b = blue (recessive)

Then the possible combos would be as follows: BB (brown eyes), B from mom and b from dad (brown eyes), B from dad and b from mom (brown eyes), or bb (blue eyes). If you have brown eyes from a Bb and the Master has the same (Bb), there is the possibility your sons could get a 'b' from each you and him, resulting in blue eyes.

I'm going by memory of 10th grade biology here, so I *could* be wrong. And I don't remember how you get green eyes.

Sorry for the off topic...

jone70 said:

ZombieKitten said:

both grandma's have brown eyes - so it's not like you could say one of them was cheating

I thought it was determined by the parents. If we look at it like this:

B = brown (dominant)

b = blue (recessive)

Then the possible combos would be as follows: BB (brown eyes), B from mom and b from dad (brown eyes), B from dad and b from mom (brown eyes), or bb (blue eyes). If you have brown eyes from a Bb and the Master has the same (Bb), there is the possibility your sons could get a 'b' from each you and him, resulting in blue eyes.

I'm going by memory of 10th grade biology here, so I *could* be wrong. And I don't remember how you get green eyes.

Sorry for the off topic...

http://museum.thetech.org...lator.html

apparently my kids had a

50% chance of having brown eyes

10% of having green eyes

40% of having blue eyes

now IF my partner has green eyes, like his mother always insists (look more grey to me though)

apparently my kids had a

50% chance of having brown eyes

30% of having green eyes

20% of having blue eyes

all 3 kids have clear blue eyes

I'm witcha guy. If she's disrespectful to you and your wife, no way in hell she sits at

your table for Thanksgiving and be disrespectful in front of other family members

and friends. If your son wants to put up with her stank attitude, then it is one of those

life lessons he will have to learn. This story sounds like that MTV show Parental Control

where parents have kids with disrespectful boyfriends or girlfriends.

your son has to make his own mistakes

you've told him what you think ... now leave it

sure ... set the rules for you and yours being respected... if she steps out of line in your house POLITELY tell her that it's unacceptable... show some class... so your son is proud of you

all this wanting to throw a shoe at her etc just sounds really childish... i think you're being petty... and you need to grow up

boys need to find out what girls are all about in their own way. Preach condoms to him!

phunkdaddy said:

I'm witcha guy. If she's disrespectful to you and your wife, no way in hell she sits at

your table for Thanksgiving and be disrespectful in front of other family members

and friends. If your son wants to put up with her stank attitude, then it is one of those

life lessons he will have to learn. This story sounds like that MTV show Parental Control

where parents have kids with disrespectful boyfriends or girlfriends.

His friend, your house, and your rules. She wouldn't be welcomed into my home either if she's been obnoxious and rude. It appears this young woman hasn't been reared. Your son just has his nose wide open that's all, this too shall pass. As others have mentioned, just make sure he has condoms.

JerseyKRS said:

boys need to find out what girls are all about in their own way. Preach condoms to him!

You are right. Kids are hard headed...just like we were.

Rick James once said "cocaine is a hell of a drug" well replace the appropriate body part of this future 35 year old grandmother in place of cocaine and well...

but I remember my teenage skank love and how my dad tried to ban me from seeing her, and I can tell you I stayed with her for much longer than I would have without the pressure to break up.

Genesia said:

The more you object to this girl, the more he's going to resist, so I'd lay off on the objections. He knows how you feel by now.

About the only thing you can do at this point is impress upon him the important of not getting her pregnant. Because that would be a disaster.

Thats what me and my wife have come to.

As for the condoms, I've had that talk with him but again, we dont give them the opportunity to have anything like that happen.

blissagain said:

your son has to make his own mistakes

you've told him what you think ... now leave it

sure ... set the rules for you and yours being respected... if she steps out of line in your house POLITELY tell her that it's unacceptable... show some class... so your son is proud of you

all this wanting to throw a shoe at her etc just sounds really childish... i think you're being petty... and you need to grow up

We have been more than polite about this. This crap has been going on for close to a year and it was just around Aug/Sept that the real arguing started.

As for me being childish and petty...I guess. Wanting to throw my shoe at her and actually throwing my shoe at her are two separate things.

What did I do at that football game? She walked up and hugged me...I hugged her back and said "Hey sweetie" and she walked on.

As she walked away I envisioned my shoe cracking her in the back of the head.

Again...I know how to act. I'm just venting here folks!