ZombieKitten said:

NDRU said:

The question is, have I ever dated a sane person?

each one I met was saner than the last, I come out crazy in comparison

My gf is dating a crazy person right now, my computer has just sent me over the edge.

NDRU said:

ZombieKitten said:

each one I met was saner than the last, I come out crazy in comparison

My gf is dating a crazy person right now, my computer has just sent me over the edge.

it still works well enough to org, and that is the main thing

I was married to one that was crazy. Doctor's diagnosis type crazy. Dated another who was just crazy like paranoid and illogical. Like "If you'll cheat at a game of spades, why wouldn't you cheat on me?!"... . Eventually they met one another and became friends...sort of.

Yes. All of 'em. That's why I'm single. Also, I was over every person who goes to a doctor being diagnosed with a disorder requiring medication about ten years ago. People are just kinda broken in general.

I hope I don't sound crazy, the guy is good for me, really good, but I'm so paranoid about making a mistake and getting hurt cause I grew up seeing my family splitting up, my aunt & uncle fighting, working with clients with broken families, etc. that it scares me that things may not work out for me though I deserve to have someone good, and he is. I'm the kind who pushes people away if I get too close and I was starting to do it but have to break the pattern. I really believe this is the life lesson that will change me for the better, but it scares me too. After years of disappointments in my own life, I don't know how to enjoy a good thing anymore.

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No, I have never dated anyone from the ORG. 'Cause we are all some crazy sons of b*#*@#%!

Hi ORG!

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alphastreet said:

I hope I don't sound crazy, the guy is good for me, really good, but I'm so paranoid about making a mistake and getting hurt cause I grew up seeing my family splitting up, my aunt & uncle fighting, working with clients with broken families, etc. that it scares me that things may not work out for me though I deserve to have someone good, and he is. I'm the kind who pushes people away if I get too close and I was starting to do it but have to break the pattern. I really believe this is the life lesson that will change me for the better, but it scares me too. After years of disappointments in my own life, I don't know how to enjoy a good thing anymore.

It sounds like you know exactly how to enjoy it. Don't push him away, don't worry so much about what COULD happen in the future, enjoy it for what it is, NOW. A lot of families split up and fight - human nature kinda sucks. But you're the only one who can break your own pattern.

Cerebus said:

Yes. All of 'em. That's why I'm single. Also, I was over every person who goes to a doctor being diagnosed with a disorder requiring medication about ten years ago. People are just kinda broken in general.

not everyone wakes you up to listen to hallucinations or stands over you and informs you they were thinking about stabbing you. Not even some crazy folk.

FauxReal said:

Cerebus said:

Yes. All of 'em. That's why I'm single. Also, I was over every person who goes to a doctor being diagnosed with a disorder requiring medication about ten years ago. People are just kinda broken in general.

not everyone wakes you up to listen to hallucinations or stands over you and informs you they were thinking about stabbing you. Not even some crazy folk.

So.... is that supposed to be encouraging.... and in what way? Just makes me think I'm right in deciding to avoid such things altogether.

Oh... and I've had a girlfriend wake me up to listen to the hallucinations, but that was the acid, and she wasn't. I had to assure her that I heard the same thing, then I went back to sleep.

If you ever hear me gripe about a cat named Darren, then yeah...that's my craziest ex. Not that it's 100% his fault, though. His life was just....hard. It's a long story, but basically all the mistreatment as a kid and as and adult (and his compliance with it...) just sort of mutated him. I mean, he has the potential to be a wonderful person. But he'll do little inconsiderate things (from literally dumping me without even telling me to later blowing me off for a 253 MK match on his PS3...) that make it hard to see him as very dependent. And he knows he's flawed, knows he's got fam issues but just...I dunno...goes aboit it in a strange way. We've tried fifty million times to make it work. We've failed so, so many times. And just when I think he's long gone, he comes back. Well this Summer was the last straw. Once I saw he hadn't changed, I decided to let him go myself. And it was hard. For all his faults, that man is an animal in the boudoir!! Lord help me...

But he wouldn't be so...afflicted if he would just really, really address his issues. And the majority of them circulate around his mother.

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Cerebus said:

FauxReal said:

not everyone wakes you up to listen to hallucinations or stands over you and informs you they were thinking about stabbing you. Not even some crazy folk.

So.... is that supposed to be encouraging.... and in what way? Just makes me think I'm right in deciding to avoid such things altogether.

Oh... and I've had a girlfriend wake me up to listen to the hallucinations, but that was the acid, and she wasn't. I had to assure her that I heard the same thing, then I went back to sleep.

No, no....I was relating your post to my post right before it, that's all. You were talking about accepting that everyone is kinda broken, so I was saying not everyone wants to stab you in your sleep though.

I have been told that i am crazy....but i don't think so

phyco185 said:

I have been told that i am crazy....but i don't think so

They never do...

FauxReal said:

phyco185 said:

I have been told that i am crazy....but i don't think so

They never do...

what???

u want to fight......

No I haven't. Weirdly.

Maybe a few went crazy trying to live without me.

phyco185 said:

FauxReal said:

They never do...

what???

u want to fight......

FauxReal said:

phyco185 said:

what???

u want to fight......

hahahahaha

OMG...r the mans fingers up the!!!!!!

ok i am ready..................

all women are insane, so yes

whistle said:

all women are insane, so yes

umm okay.....

yep... they're often great in bed

I dated one crazy guy for only a month (he didn't start showing signs of crazy until the last two weeks into our relationship when his true self started to show). Anyway, I knew something was up when I talked to him one night and he said "be sure to call me when you wake up tomorrow morning" and when I asked him why, his response was "because I want to be the first voice you hear when you wake up"... So I was like yeah whatever, I got up the next morning and didn't even bother to call. Are you kidding me? So the afternoon of the next day, he calls me and I swear, word for word this is how the conversation started off:

Me: hello

Crazy: Hey baby how you doing?

Me: Fine and you?

Crazy: I'm good. So are your fingers broke?

Me: (Confused) Fingers broke?

Crazy: Yeah are your fingers broke? Because you didn't call me when you woke up this morning! Didn't I ask you last night to call me as soon as you got up?

Me: Ummm, I think I'll be needing to talk to you another time, bye.

Then this fool blows up my phone later that evening to apologize for his sadistic behavior. And me, giving him the benefit of the doubt, I said okay. Continued to go out with him a couple of more times until I finally told him that it wasn't going to work out and that it would be best if we were to remain as friends. He acted like he was fine with it. So the next weekend we were hanging out as friends (I know, my mistake..trying to be nice sometimes makes you look like a naive dumbass), he tries to kiss me, I pull away and ask him what is he doing? He goes "You fuckin' bitch, why the fuck are you out here with me if you didn't still want to be with me? All of y'all stuck up college bitches are the same, think the sun rises and falls with yo asses!!!" I'm like in extreme shock Like wow where in the hell did that come from? And since I drove my car, while he is continuing to curse me out (and mind you we was out in public so people were watching like wtf is going on?) I yelled back "You a crazy motherfucka and you need to get your head examined you dumbass fucka!!!!" and then I power walked to my car and left his ass there.

missfee said:

whistle said:

all women are insane, so yes

umm okay.....

some (many) men would say that all women are insane biatches...

JoeTyler said:

missfee said:

umm okay.....

some (many) men would say that all women are insane biatches...

We are!

The crazies I've dated were always subtle about it. Little clues dropped here or there. My last relationship was the worst, but then again, an argument could be made that I was the crazy person there. He was completely incapable of fidelity. I stayed. For years. I even considered staying after finding out he'd been with one woman for over 12 years.

I'm better now though, those nice men in their white coats helped me clear my head and face reality. I've got their number if anyone needs it!

chocolate1 said:

Oh yeah... I think I'm a Magnet.

Oh law-red

My guy wants to hear me too often and I didn't like all the attention and was also confused about whether this is good or not, cause I didn't feel the need to prove any feelings by talking 24 7 though we have done it.

Someone I dated in high school, set a building on fire that killed 7 people. I win.

I was interested in and kind-of-dating a woman once who was struggling with suicidal tendencies. The unusual thing was that it wasn't due to depression or even feeling displeased with herself or her life. It was just some kind of very self-destructive fire, and I could see it in her eyes sometimes.

Nope. Crazy people scare the fuck outta me. In the UK, since they closed all the institutions, they wander round like a mini zombie invasion, you can spot em a mile off.