If there's no love involved. Forget it! Let me share a quick story. I've had this co-worker i've been tring to get with for a long time but, ever since she found out i was a virgin. She kicked me to the curb! Is it wrong for a guy in his mid twentys to be one? I've had my chances but, these girls were never in love with me. I feel hopeless. I've been depressed for 2 years cause of that co-worker asking me that dreadfull question. Everything would been fine between me, and that girl if that never happned.
If there's no love involved. Forget it! Let me share a quick story. I've had this co-worker i've been tring to get with for a long time but, ever since she found out i was a virgin. She kicked me to the curb! Is it wrong for a guy in his mid twentys to be one? I've had my chances but, these girls were never in love with me. I feel hopeless. I've been depressed for 2 years cause of that co-worker asking me that dreadfull question. Everything would been fine between me, and that girl if that never happned.
Why not just not tell the next girl you really like that you're a virgin? I can understand how it can be a turn off even if one thinks there is nothing wrong with being one.
And what I think you might need to realize is that for many people, they can't totally fall in love with someone until they've been intimate with them. It's about getting to know the whole package.
If there's no love involved. Forget it! Let me share a quick story. I've had this co-worker i've been tring to get with for a long time but, ever since she found out i was a virgin. She kicked me to the curb! Is it wrong for a guy in his mid twentys to be one? I've had my chances but, these girls were never in love with me. I feel hopeless. I've been depressed for 2 years cause of that co-worker asking me that dreadfull question. Everything would been fine between me, and that girl if that never happned.
Why not just not tell the next girl you really like that you're a virgin? I can understand how it can be a turn off even if one thinks there is nothing wrong with being one.
And what I think you might need to realize is that for many people, they can't totally fall in love with someone until they've been intimate with them. It's about getting to know the whole package.
No, I didn't tell her. A friend of hers asked. I only replied saying "What do you think? Afterwards she said it was OK. But i had a strange feeling in the air it wasn't. Our communication haven't been the same after that. I haven't talk to her on the phone in a long time. I gave up after she wouldn't return my phone calls. I'm a really nice guy! I got her a card for her birthday that smelled like lavender *cause it's her favorite* I wrote her a love poem on valentines day *never said anything about* Hell... I even dropped the glasses, and physically changed myself for her! *sigh* My life is sad.
Why not just not tell the next girl you really like that you're a virgin? I can understand how it can be a turn off even if one thinks there is nothing wrong with being one.
And what I think you might need to realize is that for many people, they can't totally fall in love with someone until they've been intimate with them. It's about getting to know the whole package.
No, I didn't tell her. A friend of hers asked. I only replied saying "What do you think? Afterwards she said it was OK. But i had a strange feeling in the air it wasn't. Our communication haven't been the same after that. I haven't talk to her on the phone in a long time. I gave up after she wouldn't return my phone calls. I'm a really nice guy! I got her a card for her birthday that smelled like lavender *cause it's her favorite* I wrote her a love poem on valentines day *never said anything about* Hell... I even dropped the glasses, and physically changed myself for her! *sigh* My life is sad.
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Your life will get better...especially when you realize that being in a relationship isn't what you really need to be happy in life.
Why not just not tell the next girl you really like that you're a virgin? I can understand how it can be a turn off even if one thinks there is nothing wrong with being one.
And what I think you might need to realize is that for many people, they can't totally fall in love with someone until they've been intimate with them. It's about getting to know the whole package.
No, I didn't tell her. A friend of hers asked. I only replied saying "What do you think? Afterwards she said it was OK. But i had a strange feeling in the air it wasn't. Our communication haven't been the same after that. I haven't talk to her on the phone in a long time. I gave up after she wouldn't return my phone calls. I'm a really nice guy! I got her a card for her birthday that smelled like lavender *cause it's her favorite* I wrote her a love poem on valentines day *never said anything about* Hell... I even dropped the glasses, and physically changed myself for her! *sigh* My life is sad.
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If you're not yet dating her and you're writing love poems and the like, it could be things like that rather than your virginity that are pushing her away. I imagine for some women that could be too much too soon.
No, I didn't tell her. A friend of hers asked. I only replied saying "What do you think? Afterwards she said it was OK. But i had a strange feeling in the air it wasn't. Our communication haven't been the same after that. I haven't talk to her on the phone in a long time. I gave up after she wouldn't return my phone calls. I'm a really nice guy! I got her a card for her birthday that smelled like lavender *cause it's her favorite* I wrote her a love poem on valentines day *never said anything about* Hell... I even dropped the glasses, and physically changed myself for her! *sigh* My life is sad.
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If you're not yet dating her and you're writing love poems and the like, it could be things like that rather than your virginity that are pushing her away. I imagine for some women that could be too much too soon.
We tried to go out once but. She couldn't call me that weekend cause she forgot to pay the bill. This was before she found out that i was a virgin. I asked her out a couple times after that but, she would reply in a way of saying no.
If there's no love involved. Forget it! Let me share a quick story. I've had this co-worker i've been tring to get with for a long time but, ever since she found out i was a virgin. She kicked me to the curb! Is it wrong for a guy in his mid twentys to be one? I've had my chances but, these girls were never in love with me. I feel hopeless. I've been depressed for 2 years cause of that co-worker asking me that dreadfull question. Everything would been fine between me, and that girl if that never happned.
My opinion on this....
'You have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find your handsome prince'.... or something like that, anyway.
And people fall in and out of love all the time. If I'd have waited to be in love with someone before I had sex, I think i'd be a very lonely virgin right now.
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You should tell him to piss off.
