Harlepolis said:

"Haters gonna hate".

The most anti-debate skills phrase in the English language,,,,,,and nothing tickles the hell outta me than hearing grown ass people use it.

I've said it before

Unless you're a 15 year old girl on Facebook, you shouldn't be talking about haters

johnart said:

nursev said:

John you need couseling and I wanna see a dude say that too

I don't need counseling. I'd like a show where I can counsel others.

EDIT:

Well, I do need counseling, but I'd still like that show.

[Edited 11/5/10 13:54pm]

"That's what I'm talkin' about" & 24/7

Funkcreep said:

nursev said:

I think it condescending(spelling) to a person to say that-like ur better than that person

no, they're just being friendly. I like when chicks call me honey or sweetie. I guess it goes back to men and women are different (see Why is it ok to women to be sexist thread)

Chicks is another one that I hate

bboy87 said:

when old ass dudes address younger people as "Young blood"

"Lemme educate you on somethin', young blood"

No, stop calling me that and get the fuck away from me, you dusty ass loser

[Edited 11/5/10 13:58pm]

I don't mind that myself, I don't even mind it when some of them call me a "whippersnapper"(Ok ) just get to the point and skip all the "I was doing such & such long before you were so & so" speech

nursev said:

Funkcreep said:

no, they're just being friendly. I like when chicks call me honey or sweetie. I guess it goes back to men and women are different (see Why is it ok to women to be sexist thread)

Chicks is another one that I hate

If it's of any comfort I use it mostly when I'm trash talkin' or rippin into someone.

Harlepolis said:

nursev said:

I hate it when people I don't even know call me "Honey" like sales people and cashiers-pisses me off

I always shot back with "Excuse me?" when a stranger calls me "honey",,,I never let slide.

I hate when people use internet terminology like "OMG" I even heard somebody say "stefo"(STFU). C'mon now

I think Usher took OMG as far as it can go and I don't know what it is about "Honey" but it makes my blood boil I just don't think people should call folks terms like that and they don't know them-like you have a relationship with their ass

bboy87 said:

Harlepolis said:

"Haters gonna hate".

The most anti-debate skills phrase in the English language,,,,,,and nothing tickles the hell outta me than hearing grown ass people use it.

I've said it before

Unless you're a 15 year old girl on Facebook, you shouldn't be talking about haters

Quincy "Fossils" Jones use it now,,,,,,that should tell you how EVIL that word is

Harlepolis said:

bboy87 said:

when old ass dudes address younger people as "Young blood"

"Lemme educate you on somethin', young blood"

No, stop calling me that and get the fuck away from me, you dusty ass loser

[Edited 11/5/10 13:58pm]

I don't mind that myself, I don't even mind it when some of them call me a "whippersnapper"(Ok ) just get to the point and skip all the "I was doing such & such long before you were so & so" speech

I was on my way to class, with my earphones on, and this old dude who looked like he was one can away from alcohol poisoning tries to have a conversation with me and trying to instill wisdom

"Don't do the shit I did, mayne, Ever since my momma died in '74, my life's just been wrooooooooooong!"

Umm... you do see me wearing these headphones right?

You see me with this backpack on?

yeah......I'm just gonna scoot to this side of the bench....

Harlepolis said:

bboy87 said:

I've said it before

Unless you're a 15 year old girl on Facebook, you shouldn't be talking about haters

Quincy "Fossils" Jones use it now,,,,,,that should tell you how EVIL that word is

You already know my stance on Quincy "Ain't done shit listen worthy since Secret Garden and Bad" Jones' AARP gold standard membership with the Hometown Buffett dinner stickeron the back's senile ass

so I ain't gotta say nothin'!

nursev said:

Harlepolis said:

I always shot back with "Excuse me?" when a stranger calls me "honey",,,I never let slide.

I hate when people use internet terminology like "OMG" I even heard somebody say "stefo"(STFU). C'mon now

I think Usher took OMG as far as it can go and I don't know what it is about "Honey" but it makes my blood boil I just don't think people should call folks terms like that and they don't know them-like you have a relationship with their ass

Seriously, no joking here. What is it about a Hon, Honey or Sweetie that pisses y'all off so?

Friendliness and folk being warm towards one another is such a fleeting thing now days (I sound old, I should've started off with Listen here Young Blood ). I so welcome any sign of being personable and familiar and friendly. Everything is so PC and dry and to the point anymore.

I think you can use the most proper of terminology and be condescending or improper. It's all in the way it's said IMO. I can totally let a bitch (chick) have it by just calling her "m'am".

[Edited 11/5/10 14:15pm]

I just hate it when people curse for no reason. If something bad/frustrating happens, then fine. But I swear, the people at my highschool, it's like

"Man, there's a clear fucking blue sky today"

"Shit, I know."

Also, I hate it when people refer to me as "man." I'm a chick, thank you very much.

TeenPr1nceChick said:

I just hate it when people curse for no reason. If something bad/frustrating happens, then fine. But I swear, the people at my highschool, it's like

"Man, there's a clear fucking blue sky today"

"Shit, I know."

Also, I hate it when people refer to me as "man." I'm a chick, thank you very much.

This is awesome

...oh nurseyyyyy!

johnart said:

nursev said:

I think Usher took OMG as far as it can go and I don't know what it is about "Honey" but it makes my blood boil I just don't think people should call folks terms like that and they don't know them-like you have a relationship with their ass

I think you can use the most proper of terminology and be condescending or improper. It's all in the way it's said IMO. I can totally let a bitch (chick) have it by just calling her "m'am".

There it is. I can't help but to feel smugness in the way some people use it,,,,,I just don't like it when strangers act so familiar to me in general.

You wanna be nice and show respect? Drop the pretenses.

DesireeNevermind said:

Cheese On Bread.

Fucking hate that saying. I don't even know what it means.

I think that's a carribean thing. My ex used to say that and the tone in which he said it gave me the impression that it was something you said to avoid saying "Jesus Christ" in vain. I never really asked him what it meant I just assumed it was some colloquialism he got from his dad since he said it too.

TeenPr1nceChick said:

I just hate it when people curse for no reason. If something bad/frustrating happens, then fine. But I swear, the people at my highschool, it's like

"Man, there's a clear fucking blue sky today"

"Shit, I know."

Also, I hate it when people refer to me as "man." I'm a chick, thank you very much.

Yes, I hate that too. One time in Home Depot a guy was talking to an old friend of his:

1st Man: How's it going, long time no see

2nd Man: Just F***ing living life

How dumb! That is strike one your a loser

Conversate.....

If I ever hear this word again, I'm slapping the hell out of someone

Harlepolis said:

johnart said:

I think you can use the most proper of terminology and be condescending or improper. It's all in the way it's said IMO. I can totally let a bitch (chick) have it by just calling her "m'am".

There it is. I can't help but to feel smugness in the way some people use it,,,,,I just don't like it when strangers act so familiar to me in general.

You wanna be nice and show respect? Drop the pretenses.

But by that you're allowing yourself to be irritated by folk who are honestly being nice.

johnart said:

nursev said:

I think Usher took OMG as far as it can go and I don't know what it is about "Honey" but it makes my blood boil I just don't think people should call folks terms like that and they don't know them-like you have a relationship with their ass

Seriously, no joking here. What is it about a Hon, Honey or Sweetie that pisses y'all off so?

Friendliness and folk being warm towards one another is such a fleeting thing now days (I sound old, I should've started off with Listen here Young Blood ). I so welcome any sign of being personable and familiar and friendly. Everything is so PC and dry and to the point anymore.

I think you can use the most proper of terminology and be condescending or improper. It's all in the way it's said IMO. I can totally let a bitch (chick) have it by just calling her "m'am".

[Edited 11/5/10 14:15pm]

Mostly I just think it's not good to do this-people have to remember that first impressions are a bitch-sometimes when folks make me mad like this I will choose to not spend my money in that store again. Also ur actions speak alot to-what are you doing while saying these things to people? I took my son to buy school clothes back in Aug and we were buying jeans-the cashier was kinda throwing his stuff in a bag and saying "here you go honey" as if to shit on the stuff he just bought. I have never spent another dollar there-sometimes you don't have to tell a person off, but hit them where it really hurts in the pocket .

johnart said:

TeenPr1nceChick said:

I just hate it when people curse for no reason. If something bad/frustrating happens, then fine. But I swear, the people at my highschool, it's like

"Man, there's a clear fucking blue sky today"

"Shit, I know."

Also, I hate it when people refer to me as "man." I'm a chick, thank you very much.

This is awesome

...oh nurseyyyyy!

Well, I don't happen to have a problem with people calling me hon or sweetie or chick or whatever, if they're being friendly about it.

johnart said:

TeenPr1nceChick said:

I just hate it when people curse for no reason. If something bad/frustrating happens, then fine. But I swear, the people at my highschool, it's like

"Man, there's a clear fucking blue sky today"

"Shit, I know."

Also, I hate it when people refer to me as "man." I'm a chick, thank you very much.

This is awesome

...oh nurseyyyyy!

I get that all the time driving thru McD's my voice is deep for a lady so I'm use to it-I just correct them and keep going

nursev said:

johnart said:

Seriously, no joking here. What is it about a Hon, Honey or Sweetie that pisses y'all off so?

Friendliness and folk being warm towards one another is such a fleeting thing now days (I sound old, I should've started off with Listen here Young Blood ). I so welcome any sign of being personable and familiar and friendly. Everything is so PC and dry and to the point anymore.

I think you can use the most proper of terminology and be condescending or improper. It's all in the way it's said IMO. I can totally let a bitch (chick) have it by just calling her "m'am".

[Edited 11/5/10 14:15pm]

Mostly I just think it's not good to do this-people have to remember that first impressions are a bitch-sometimes when folks make me mad like this I will choose to not spend my money in that store again. Also ur actions speak alot to-what are you doing while saying these things to people? I took my son to buy school clothes back in Aug and we were buying jeans-the cashier was kinda throwing his stuff in a bag and saying "here you go honey" as if to shit on the stuff he just bought. I have never spent another dollar there-sometimes you don't have to tell a person off, but hit them where it really hurts in the pocket .

You're right, first impressions are a bitch.

I've steered off folk who've rejected my trying to be nice because I thought them (perhaps wrongly) stand-offish and stuck up.

I thinks there's crossed and mixed signals and mis-interpreted intentions all over the damn place.

johnart said:

Harlepolis said:

There it is. I can't help but to feel smugness in the way some people use it,,,,,I just don't like it when strangers act so familiar to me in general.

You wanna be nice and show respect? Drop the pretenses.

But by that you're allowing yourself to be irritated by folk who are honestly being nice.

Thats why I said "some". Because the other some are genuinely nice.

Everytime I visit my auntie who lives in Arizona, old folks there shower me with "sweetie", "honey", "dahling", and "child, I don't say nothing because again some of them don't mean nothing by it.

But when these 15 years who were fresh snots in their daddy's balls address me as honey just for the sake of ending a sentence,,,,somebody's ass is gonna get verbally abused

Funkcreep said:

TeenPr1nceChick said:

I just hate it when people curse for no reason. If something bad/frustrating happens, then fine. But I swear, the people at my highschool, it's like

"Man, there's a clear fucking blue sky today"

"Shit, I know."

Also, I hate it when people refer to me as "man." I'm a chick, thank you very much.

Yes, I hate that too. One time in Home Depot a guy was talking to an old friend of his:

1st Man: How's it going, long time no see

2nd Man: Just F***ing living life

How dumb! That is strike one your a loser

I hate people that think cursing somehow makes them older or cooler. Also used to have a friend who called me and the rest of her friends "bitch" and "whore" frequently, as if it was a term of endearment. She's not my friend anymore.

johnart said:

nursev said:

I hate it when people I don't even know call me "Honey" like sales people and cashiers-pisses me off

Is that a woman thing? I love when sales ladies call me "Hon".

I wish some hot sales dude would too.

Me too.

And me too.

"Don't"

"Never"

"Always"

"You don't..."

"You can't..."

Harlepolis said:

johnart said:

But by that you're allowing yourself to be irritated by folk who are honestly being nice.

Thats why I said "some". Because the other some are genuinely nice.

Everytime I visit my auntie who lives in Arizona, old folks there shower me with "sweetie", "honey", "dahling", and "child, I don't say nothing because again some of them don't mean nothing by it.

But when these 15 years who were fresh snots in their daddy's balls address me as honey just for the sake of ending a sentence,,,,somebody's ass is gonna get verbally abused

Well I'd have to agree with a 15 year old calling anyone other than another 15 year old or younger Honey.

"Bon Jovi is the best band ever!!!"

It's the argument going around where I work today as it's been announced that Bon Jovi is coming to town on tour.

"I speak my mind" - most people don t have a mind worth listening to in the first place.

"You don t understand" - what exactly don t I understand? I ve been on this earth the same amount of time as you and it is your victim stance that makes you think you are special and different.

johnart said:

nursev said:

Mostly I just think it's not good to do this-people have to remember that first impressions are a bitch-sometimes when folks make me mad like this I will choose to not spend my money in that store again. Also ur actions speak alot to-what are you doing while saying these things to people? I took my son to buy school clothes back in Aug and we were buying jeans-the cashier was kinda throwing his stuff in a bag and saying "here you go honey" as if to shit on the stuff he just bought. I have never spent another dollar there-sometimes you don't have to tell a person off, but hit them where it really hurts in the pocket .

You're right, first impressions are a bitch.

I've steered off folk who've rejected my trying to be nice because I thought them (perhaps wrongly) stand-offish and stuck up.

I thinks there's crossed and mixed signals and mis-interpreted intentions all over the damn place.

People have gotten so confrontational. ANYTHING can be taken as an insult. Honestly, I'm not spending the time in my day thinking of how I can insult the next person I come into contact with. I'm also not spending time in my day thinking about EXACTLY what I need to say to the next person I come into contact with that will not insult their delicate constitution.

When I come to work in the morning I have a list of 50 patients, mostly women (and a man here or there on occasion) that I will come into contact with. I will be in their holy presence for, hopefully about 10-15 minutes minimum, 2 hours maximum. I want them to be as comfortable as they can be, but frankly, I'm not going to spend a lot of time making sure the experience is EXACTLY what THEY think it should be. I'm friendly, efficient and professional, if that somehow rubs someone the wrong way, too damn bad.

To be bugged or insulted by someone who called you "Hon" in the spance of a minute interaction? Pishaw...to each their own of course, but seriously, I'm more insulted by the person who is outright rude.

rant over....sorry.