ScottRob said:

For about three months or so I've been doing a job that is a bit different. i've been working as a kind of body model. It's not as glamorous as it sounds - it's not catwalk or magazines or anything classy like that i'm afraid. It's just body, not face - i'm no johnny depp, believe me. Basically, i pose for art classes, discussion groups, underwear catalogues, things like that. But it's just underwear and nude stuff - so not everybody's cup of tea. It's not particularly challenging, but people are nice and money is great.

My girlfriend at the time of being offered the job, thought it was interesting and kinda cool, but as it's gone on, she became more and more possessive and jealous about it. To the point that last week, she said it was me or the job.

How would you react if your partner started doing what I was doing?

I bet you girlfriend is wondering if your nude photo are for a lot of people besides other women.

ZombieKitten said:

A friend of mine is a dancer, and she has loads of work on, so much so, that she hasn't had much time for her boyfriend. So, he gave her an ultimatum "me or the dancing" - it was horrible!!! She had a show to do the night he told her that, and her dancing was so half-hearted, poor thing struggling not to cry for 2 sets.

"DANCE is my LIFE!" she said

and he got dropped

This is where I just don't understand people! Here someone has a decent job paying good money and then the asshole significant other wants to start putting restrictions or ultimatums on your livelihood. FUCK THAT! You knew what I did when you met me and it was ok then, but now you gonna have issues?! STEP, MOFO!

TonyVanDam said:

ScottRob said:

For about three months or so I've been doing a job that is a bit different. i've been working as a kind of body model. It's not as glamorous as it sounds - it's not catwalk or magazines or anything classy like that i'm afraid. It's just body, not face - i'm no johnny depp, believe me. Basically, i pose for art classes, discussion groups, underwear catalogues, things like that. But it's just underwear and nude stuff - so not everybody's cup of tea. It's not particularly challenging, but people are nice and money is great.

My girlfriend at the time of being offered the job, thought it was interesting and kinda cool, but as it's gone on, she became more and more possessive and jealous about it. To the point that last week, she said it was me or the job.

How would you react if your partner started doing what I was doing?

I bet you girlfriend is wondering if your nude photo are for a lot of people besides other women.

And so what if it was? What does that have to do with anything?

JustErin said:

TonyVanDam said:

I bet you girlfriend is wondering if your nude photo are for a lot of people besides other women.

And so what if it was? What does that have to do with anything?

I agree. I never get Tony's way of thinking. SHe just doesn't make any sense to me...

Shyra said:

ZombieKitten said:

A friend of mine is a dancer, and she has loads of work on, so much so, that she hasn't had much time for her boyfriend. So, he gave her an ultimatum "me or the dancing" - it was horrible!!! She had a show to do the night he told her that, and her dancing was so half-hearted, poor thing struggling not to cry for 2 sets.

"DANCE is my LIFE!" she said

and he got dropped

This is where I just don't understand people! Here someone has a decent job paying good money and then the asshole significant other wants to start putting restrictions or ultimatums on your livelihood. FUCK THAT! You knew what I did when you met me and it was ok then, but now you gonna have issues?! STEP, MOFO!

it's immature, however, this couple is early 20s and didn't live together, so I guess he thought the whole deal is a non-event if he never sees her - I can see his point, but I side with her - he is just a boyfriend, dancing is EVERYTHING to her.

JustErin said:

TonyVanDam said:

I bet you girlfriend is wondering if your nude photo are for a lot of people besides other women.

And so what if it was? What does that have to do with anything?

The girlfriend is paranoid AND worry. It means a lot, and not in a good way neither.

ScottRob said:

JustErin said:

And so what if it was? What does that have to do with anything?

I agree. I never get Tony's way of thinking. SHe just doesn't make any sense to me...

OFF-TOPIC: And you also can NOT get your facts straight neither. I'm a male. Please do not let my avatar of Danica Collins fool you.

haha can i draw u? i like to paint! that sounds like a fun job

TonyVanDam said:

JustErin said:

And so what if it was? What does that have to do with anything?

The girlfriend is paranoid AND worry. It means a lot, and not in a good way neither.

Paranoid and worried about what? :confused:

JustErin said:

TonyVanDam said:

The girlfriend is paranoid AND worry. It means a lot, and not in a good way neither.

Paranoid and worried about what? :confused:

Never mind.

TonyVanDam said:

ScottRob said:

I agree. I never get Tony's way of thinking. SHe just doesn't make any sense to me...

OFF-TOPIC: And you also can NOT get your facts straight neither. I'm a male. Please do not let my avatar of Danica Collins fool you.

lol. Whoopsie! Apologies to all the women on here for getting your sex wrong. Bit of an insult to them i feel!

purplemookiebut said:

haha can i draw u? i like to paint! that sounds like a fun job

lol. If you like. But.... show me the money!!!

TonyVanDam said:

JustErin said:

Paranoid and worried about what? :confused:

Never mind.

Another valid argument from you there Tony.