Ottensen said:

...................if I opened it and took even one sip he would leave and never forgive me...and this was in the hotel room that I was paying for for him as a vacation gift!

He also thought that the way to make up or communicate during or after a disagreement was to drop everything and have sex. Mind you, the lovemaking was good, but er, umm he thought that he could persuade me to do whatever he wanted via sex alone, and not by actually trying to solve issues...I believe the term they use nowadays is dickmatize: The man tried (in vain) to dick-matize me.

The last thing which ticked me off is that on finding that my ex-boyfriend was a relatively successful songwriter , he casually said to me in conversation that wouldn't it be great vengeance for me if we "took him": I was like, "take him where???" The man was proposing that we somehow scam my ex for money, y'all. The writing was on the wall then and there. Add that to the fact that he was messy and had the stinkiest feet in existence on top of everything else???? He had ta go.

He sure was was fine as hell, though. Just with a deceptive character, unevolved communication skills and stinky feet.

shit....not only was he a buzzkill, but sounds like he might have been a little dangerouse--scamming for money. WTF....what an asshole. And then the nerve to have stinky feet on top of it all........you are better off. Hmmmmm....maybe he has the beginnings of "jungle rot"

and thank you for expanding my vocabulary....."dickmatize"......

[Edited 11/1/10 23:42pm]

ScottRob said:

My ex didn't like the part time job i do. She would get jealous and possessive.

sooooooo.....what is this part time gig...the real housewives of the org might want to come by and support you on the job

Mach said:

Mental and Physical abuse ... 3 cracked ribs and tossed off a deck was THE very last straw

I was 19

OMG...all that and you were only 19!!!! How old was he?