Reply #30 posted 10/26/10 2:34am
ZombieKitten |
Lammastide said:
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you called me crazy didn't you!
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Reply #31 posted 10/26/10 2:36am
Lammastide |
ZombieKitten said:
Lammastide said:
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you called me crazy didn't you!
Never. Not admittedly, anyway. Ὅσον ζῇς φαίνου
μηδὲν ὅλως σὺ λυποῦ
πρὸς ὀλίγον ἐστὶ τὸ ζῆν
τὸ τέλος ὁ χρόνος ἀπαιτεῖ.” |
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Reply #32 posted 10/26/10 2:37am
ZombieKitten |
PurpleJedi said:
ZombieKitten said:
but how weird is it that if me and the kids are alone at home for 3 weeks, it does NOT happen
only when I am NOT AT HOME
...that's why we (men) NEED you (women)!
get a cleaner, a nanny and a fleshlight
because WE don't need to be needed like that
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Reply #33 posted 10/26/10 2:37am
ZombieKitten |
Lammastide said:
ZombieKitten said:
you called me crazy didn't you!
Never. Not admittedly, anyway.
too chicken!!!!! |
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Reply #34 posted 10/26/10 2:46am
kewlschool |
squirrelgrease said:
It seems to get harder to figure her out as the years progress. I saw my wife's shopping list the other day...
*Plastic tarp
*Duct Tape
*Rope
*Shovel
This really pissed me off because I specifically demanded Doritos and Grape Shasta. I guess she's got some kind of weird craft project to do that's way more important.
I believe the list included Rohypnol. Just saying. 99.9% of everything I say is strictly for my own entertainment |
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Reply #35 posted 10/26/10 2:49am
PurpleJedi |
ZombieKitten said:
PurpleJedi said:
...that's why we (men) NEED you (women)!
get a cleaner, a nanny and a fleshlight
because WE don't need to be needed like that
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Reply #36 posted 10/26/10 2:49am
kewlschool |
PunkMistress said:
ZombieKitten said:
nobody understands me at my house
I at least have three other females. I can't imagine being adrift in a sea of males all the time.
If it makes you feel any better, I'm indulging in a bit of female craziness right now.
I'm all butthurt that my husband offered me some constructive criticism on the chicken pot pie I made for dinner, then sat in front of the Food Network on TV and moaned and groaned with desire at some stupid bitch's peanut butter chocolate something or other.
Totally irrational, as I do appreciate the feedback on my cooking so I can make it better. And he liked the food I made, and it was in his belly. That dumb broad and her stupid food were on the television, not real, and it could have been utterly disgusting for all I know.
But it still upset me! I feel like that food is better than my food, and he likes it better and I suck. Strangely, I do not feel this way about him looking at hot chicks in porn.
Actually, after typing that out I'm not mad anymore.
This above is a clear example why men Thanks PM for your honesty. 99.9% of everything I say is strictly for my own entertainment |
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Reply #37 posted 10/26/10 2:58am
Reply #38 posted 10/26/10 3:05am
kewlschool |
ZombieKitten said:
PurpleJedi said:
must you do this?
I know that perhaps I should not take it that way (in my family), but I feel my efforts in maintaining some semblance of order go unnoticed and unappreciated, and that their carelessness and assumption that "oh, well mummy will clean it up so I don't have to" make me feel resentful. How can you do these things to me if you LOVE me?
And then calling me crazy is just the icing on the cake.
I can sympathize and understand your frustrations. Part of your predicament appears to be self inflictive, which then becomes a vicious cycle. You get angry cause the "appear" to take advantage of your work around the house-you feel like you don't have a voice-where people don't get your position-when you get angry-and loose control-thus the "crazy" moment. If your express your concerns that you need help with a (meaning one thing) specific thing and the why you need help with this one thing. You will be heard and they will at least attempt to help you if not flat out help you on this 1 thing. This will do 2 things; 1) you finally get to be heard-(no crazy moment) 2)They attempt to help you and/or stop the issue from happening. 'cause kids or spouse are involved they may need reminders and thank you for their help. Even if its something they should be doing on their own. This has generally worked for me. I give an example but didn't I write too much?
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Reply #39 posted 10/26/10 3:09am
ZombieKitten |
kewlschool said:
ZombieKitten said:
must you do this?
I know that perhaps I should not take it that way (in my family), but I feel my efforts in maintaining some semblance of order go unnoticed and unappreciated, and that their carelessness and assumption that "oh, well mummy will clean it up so I don't have to" make me feel resentful. How can you do these things to me if you LOVE me?
And then calling me crazy is just the icing on the cake.
I can sympathize and understand your frustrations. Part of your predicament appears to be self inflictive, which then becomes a vicious cycle. You get angry cause the "appear" to take advantage of your work around the house-you feel like you don't have a voice-where people don't get your position-when you get angry-and loose control-thus the "crazy" moment. If your express your concerns that you need help with a (meaning one thing) specific thing and the why you need help with this one thing. You will be heard and they will at least attempt to help you if not flat out help you on this 1 thing. This will do 2 things; 1) you finally get to be heard-(no crazy moment) 2)They attempt to help you and/or stop the issue from happening. 'cause kids or spouse are involved they may need reminders and thank you for their help. Even if its something they should be doing on their own. This has generally worked for me. I give an example but didn't I write too much?
Hey, KS can you please put your post into point form?
How's that?
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Reply #40 posted 10/26/10 3:17am
Genesia |
Revolution said:
I am happily married for 20 yrs this Dec....
Listen good.
Do NOT marry a girly girl...wives should be self sufficient and capable of doing even some of the more manly chores around the house. Not saying that she does, but she should be capable.
Do NOT be afraid of doing housework...that ain't just for them anymore, guys gotta pitch in. Laundry ain't that bad.
Laugh, Laugh, Laugh together....key.
Make her happiness your top priority....if she is happy, you are happy. Understand that, at times, it may feel like you are giving more than you get....deal with it.
Keep her liquored up.........a shared bottle of wine ALWAYS leads to a good night
Excuse me? I am probably the girliest girl you'll ever meet - and I carried three 40-lb bags of salt up a flight of stairs and put them in the water softener yesterday.
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Reply #41 posted 10/26/10 3:23am
kewlschool |
ZombieKitten said:
kewlschool said:
I can sympathize and understand your frustrations. Part of your predicament appears to be self inflictive, which then becomes a vicious cycle. You get angry cause the "appear" to take advantage of your work around the house-you feel like you don't have a voice-where people don't get your position-when you get angry-and loose control-thus the "crazy" moment. If your express your concerns that you need help with a (meaning one thing) specific thing and the why you need help with this one thing. You will be heard and they will at least attempt to help you if not flat out help you on this 1 thing. This will do 2 things; 1) you finally get to be heard-(no crazy moment) 2)They attempt to help you and/or stop the issue from happening. 'cause kids or spouse are involved they may need reminders and thank you for their help. Even if its something they should be doing on their own. This has generally worked for me. I give an example but didn't I write too much?
Hey, KS can you please put your post into point form?
How's that?
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Reply #42 posted 10/26/10 3:24am
ZombieKitten |
kewlschool said:
ZombieKitten said:
Hey, KS can you please put your post into point form?
How's that?
Yes, I'm a rambiling man and
so I asked for ONE thing, and???
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Reply #43 posted 10/26/10 3:25am
Reply #44 posted 10/26/10 3:28am
ZombieKitten |
blissagain said:
i just go and play guitar
it passes
it doesn't pass
she doesn't forget
she tallies it up and one day LEAVES YOU! |
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Reply #45 posted 10/26/10 3:29am
Fauxie |
I feel like I understand my wife better than anyone else ever could, and I understand what she does and why she does it, yet somehow she still leaves me totally incredulous sometimes. It's like... I understand, but still sometimes I just don't get it. Does that make any sense? My wife has a little bit of a split personality though, which certainly keeps me on my toes, but the 'good', as I generally see it, makes up maybe 90% and the 'bad' only 10%. Marriage is cool with me though. I wouldn't change anything, knowing what I know now, if I had the choice again. It's how I expected it to be. It's quite nice really. MY COUSIN WORKS IN A PHARMACY AND SHE SAID THEY ENEMA'D PRANCE INTO OBLIVION WITH FENTONILS!! |
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Reply #46 posted 10/26/10 3:31am
blissagain |
ZombieKitten said:
blissagain said:
i just go and play guitar
it passes
it doesn't pass
she doesn't forget
she tallies it up and one day LEAVES YOU!
see ya
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Reply #47 posted 10/26/10 3:31am
blissagain |
Fauxie said:
I feel like I understand my wife better than anyone else ever could, and I understand what she does and why she does it, yet somehow she still leaves me totally incredulous sometimes. It's like... I understand, but still sometimes I just don't get it. Does that make any sense? My wife has a little bit of a split personality though, which certainly keeps me on my toes, but the 'good', as I generally see it, makes up maybe 90% and the 'bad' only 10%. Marriage is cool with me though. I wouldn't change anything, knowing what I know now, if I had the choice again. It's how I expected it to be. It's quite nice really.
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Reply #48 posted 10/26/10 3:32am
ZombieKitten |
blissagain said:
ZombieKitten said:
it doesn't pass
she doesn't forget
she tallies it up and one day LEAVES YOU!
see ya
my SO(B) thinks I'm going on tour with him!!!
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Reply #49 posted 10/26/10 3:33am
Fauxie |
blissagain said:
Fauxie said:
I feel like I understand my wife better than anyone else ever could, and I understand what she does and why she does it, yet somehow she still leaves me totally incredulous sometimes. It's like... I understand, but still sometimes I just don't get it. Does that make any sense? My wife has a little bit of a split personality though, which certainly keeps me on my toes, but the 'good', as I generally see it, makes up maybe 90% and the 'bad' only 10%. Marriage is cool with me though. I wouldn't change anything, knowing what I know now, if I had the choice again. It's how I expected it to be. It's quite nice really.
hello sir
Hello! How's things? MY COUSIN WORKS IN A PHARMACY AND SHE SAID THEY ENEMA'D PRANCE INTO OBLIVION WITH FENTONILS!! |
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Reply #50 posted 10/26/10 3:35am
kewlschool |
ZombieKitten said:
kewlschool said:
Yes, I'm a rambiling man and
so I asked for ONE thing, and???
But you didn't say why?
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Reply #51 posted 10/26/10 3:35am
ZombieKitten |
kewlschool said:
ZombieKitten said:
so I asked for ONE thing, and???
But you didn't say why?
because it would be nice to read your post? |
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Reply #52 posted 10/26/10 3:37am
blissagain |
Fauxie said:
blissagain said:
hello sir
Hello! How's things?
good mate... never better... life's good... lotsa music... became a dad... luckily my wife is the mum... phew
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Reply #53 posted 10/26/10 3:39am
Fauxie |
blissagain said:
Fauxie said:
Hello! How's things?
good mate... never better... life's good... lotsa music... became a dad... luckily my wife is the mum... phew
Congratulations!
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Reply #54 posted 10/26/10 4:35am
july |
My wife is mean. She expect me to do as she says, soon or fast after she says it. I love her dearly.
We have two kids. I'm beginning to think. I'm whipped by her female genitalia. |
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Reply #55 posted 10/26/10 4:39am
Cerebus |
july said:
My wife is mean. She expect me to do as she says, soon or fast after she says it. I love her dearly.
We have two kids. I'm beginning to think. I'm whipped by her female genitalia.
Careful. She wouldn't like that. |
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Reply #56 posted 10/26/10 11:30am
PunkMistress |
PunkMistress said:
ThreadBare said:
... do women get any easier to understand ever???
No.
The best you can hope for is to have a woman who is aware of the differences between men and women, and doesn't expect you to think and behave like a woman. One who tries to outline for you clearly what she wants and doesn't want from you, and what things will piss her off.
Many wives try to make their husbands understand them, which will never happen. It's much smarter to just tell him exactly what things bother you, and exactly what things make you feel good. She should also expect to explain these things over and over again.
Husbands, if you are lucky enough to have a wife like this, listen to her.
I feel like elucidating this last point a bit more.
Just as women make the mistake of trying to make their man understand them, men make the mistake of expecting their woman to "make sense" as he defines it. When it comes to her emotions, she will rarely "make sense" to you. This does not matter. Her feelings are still real. Treat them as such, not as something that's stupid just because you don't relate to it or wouldn't react the same way.
For example: If she cries over something that you can't imagine crying over, it's not stupid for her to cry over it. Just as it's not stupid for you to get very excited about a sports championship that she couldn't care less about. Yes, women, if it's important to him, it's important. Don't you want the same respect?
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Reply #57 posted 10/26/10 11:38am
Shanti0608 |
PunkMistress said:
PunkMistress said:
No.
The best you can hope for is to have a woman who is aware of the differences between men and women, and doesn't expect you to think and behave like a woman. One who tries to outline for you clearly what she wants and doesn't want from you, and what things will piss her off.
Many wives try to make their husbands understand them, which will never happen. It's much smarter to just tell him exactly what things bother you, and exactly what things make you feel good. She should also expect to explain these things over and over again.
Husbands, if you are lucky enough to have a wife like this, listen to her.
I feel like elucidating this last point a bit more.
Just as women make the mistake of trying to make their man understand them, men make the mistake of expecting their woman to "make sense" as he defines it. When it comes to her emotions, she will rarely "make sense" to you. This does not matter. Her feelings are still real. Treat them as such, not as something that's stupid just because you don't relate to it or wouldn't react the same way.
For example: If she cries over something that you can't imagine crying over, it's not stupid for her to cry over it. Just as it's not stupid for you to get very excited about a sports championship that she couldn't care less about. Yes, women, if it's important to him, it's important. Don't you want the same respect?
I like this thread.
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Reply #58 posted 10/26/10 1:04pm
Shorty |
I like this thread too.
Zombie...I feel for you...we are similar in some ways.
"not a fan" yeah...ok |
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Reply #59 posted 10/26/10 1:12pm
Harlepolis |
squirrelgrease said:
It seems to get harder to figure her out as the years progress. I saw my wife's shopping list the other day...
*Plastic tarp
*Duct Tape
*Rope
*Shovel
This really pissed me off because I specifically demanded Doritos and Grape Shasta. I guess she's got some kind of weird craft project to do that's way more important.
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