I feel bad for him

He seemed more tramatized by the woman molesting him than the men, though.

midiscover said:

I feel bad for him

He seemed more tramatized by the woman molesting him than the men, though.

I thought I was imagining that. He seemed much more emotional and vivid when he spoke about her. But kinda glossed over the 3 men or seemed calmer or something. That whole interview was WAY weird IMO.

When he described taking the key out her coochie I thought he was gonna cry. But he was almost nonchalant when talking about getting head from the preacher in the church.

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babynoz said:

vainandy said:

TonyVanDam said:

Are you sure about THAT^?!? The word is still out about Tyler being bi on a down low.

He doesn't even strike me as bi. He seems to me like a full fledged queen.

Aaron McGruder seems to think so as well, judging by that 3rd Season episode of The Boondocks that was a straight up Tyler Perry/Madea parody.

vainandy said:

TonyVanDam said:

Are you sure about THAT^?!? The word is still out about Tyler being bi on a down low.

He doesn't even strike me as bi. He seems to me like a full fledged queen.

That dude like it up in there so deep his eyes water.

I know it doesn't matter...and no I didn't see the show....there is no way in hell that man is not at least swinging both sides.

sosgemini said:

phunkdaddy said:

Is it important that you discuss your sexual orientation with everyone on the org?

Not trying to be a smart ass but your sexual orientation is your personal business.

As far as TP goes if he's gay he is gay but i don't think he is obligated to omit that

to anyone anymore than Luther Vandross did.

Where am I talking about my sexual orientation?

Dude it went completely over your head. I never said you discussed it.

My point was if you're not obligated to discuss your sexual orientation with people

then why do you feel it's important for a celebrity to.

phunkdaddy said:

sosgemini said:

Where am I talking about my sexual orientation?

Dude it went completely over your head. I never said you discussed it.

My point was if you're not obligated to discuss your sexual orientation with people

then why do you feel it's important for a celebrity to.

Uhh, hasn't that been the gist of my contribution to this discussion? Arguing why I feel discussing Perry's sexuality and hypocrisy *is* justified?

sosgemini said:

phunkdaddy said:

Dude it went completely over your head. I never said you discussed it.

My point was if you're not obligated to discuss your sexual orientation with people

then why do you feel it's important for a celebrity to.

Uhh, hasn't that been the gist of my contribution to this discussion? Arguing why I feel discussing Perry's sexuality and hypocrisy *is* justified?

I hope you win.

phunkdaddy said:

sosgemini said:

Uhh, hasn't that been the gist of my contribution to this discussion? Arguing why I feel discussing Perry's sexuality and hypocrisy *is* justified?

I hope you win.

What's wrong? Feeling uncomfortable?

midiscover said:

I feel bad for him

He seemed more tramatized by the woman molesting him than the men, though.

Well, hell ya..

A woman putting a key in her coochie, and a child seeing that hairy shit knowing he has to get it..

Fuck that would traumatize me..

sosgemini said:

phunkdaddy said:

I hope you win.

What's wrong? Feeling uncomfortable?

Actually you are. Maybe discussing Tyler's sexuality makes you feel

better about yourself.

phunkdaddy said:

sosgemini said:

What's wrong? Feeling uncomfortable?

Actually you are. Maybe discussing Tyler's sexuality makes you feel

better about yourself.

I've actually given an academic lecture on the subject of homosexuality within the African American community and the role that black media plays in perpetuating homophobia within the black community and how that has created a toxic environment that increases HIV and AIDS rats within our black community. I think I am being civil and respectful of other's opinions during my conversations and within this thread. If you can't deal with an adult discussion then why don't you go post on the uptenth dildo thread or something. Cause I'm challenging thought and not forcing my opinion on you or anyone else.

I swear man....seriously.

phunkdaddy said:

sosgemini said:

It does, IMHO, when you perpetuate homophobia in your art and you refuse to discuss how religion within your community is perpetuating said homophobia within the black community all because your tired ass is scared of losing out in millions of profit.

...that's why I am pissed at Perry's tired ass and Oprah's too. To have this show aired during a very important day within the LGBT movement was straight up dangerous on Oprah's party.

Is it important that you discuss your sexual orientation with everyone on the org?

Not trying to be a smart ass but your sexual orientation is your personal business.

As far as TP goes if he's gay he is gay but i don't think he is obligated to omit that

to anyone anymore than Luther Vandross did.

Come on now, y'all's sexuality is flaunted all over the TV, movies, and music since forever. Isn't it only fair that we get a chance to flaunt ours also if we wish to do so?

Plus, with some of us being so out in the open, it shows people that we're not all the same and some of us even have the same tastes and likes as you and can be a good friend that you may have otherwise never thought you would have anything in common with. We're not all into Judy Garland and showtunes. I mean, how many gay folks have musical tastes as hard as mine and are so rigid that they not be softened? Hell, how many straight folks either for that matter?

vainandy said:

phunkdaddy said:

Is it important that you discuss your sexual orientation with everyone on the org?

Not trying to be a smart ass but your sexual orientation is your personal business.

As far as TP goes if he's gay he is gay but i don't think he is obligated to omit that

to anyone anymore than Luther Vandross did.

Come on now, y'all's sexuality is flaunted all over the TV, movies, and music since forever. Isn't it only fair that we get a chance to flaunt ours also if we wish to do so?

But for me, personally, the issue I take with this is you'd never ask someone "Is it important that you discuss your Black, Latino, Asian...and so on heritage/culture/etc with everyone?" Sexual identity (not habits or what specifically one might be "into", but identity is as much a part of us as our skin color, family roots, etc.

And i know the question was not asked of me, but Imma stick my 2cents in there anyway... yes it is most definitely important for me to discuss things about myself in an open and honest manner.

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johnart said:

vainandy said:

Come on now, y'all's sexuality is flaunted all over the TV, movies, and music since forever. Isn't it only fair that we get a chance to flaunt ours also if we wish to do so?

But for me, personally, the issue I take with this is you'd never ask someone "Is it important that you discuss your Black, Latino, Asian...and so on heritage/culture/etc with everyone? Sexual identity (not habits or what specifically one might be "into", but identity is as much a part of us as our skin color, family roots, etc.

And i know the question was not asked of me, but Imma stick my 2cents in there anyway... yes it is most definitely important for me to discuss things about myself in an open and honest manner.

Exactly. What people don't realize is, when we talk about our homosexuality, we aren't talking about a particular "topic of the day" and won't get off that particular topic and move on to another topic. It's not a "topic" with us. We are talking about our everyday lives and who we are. Just like when a co-worker talks about their wife and kids or even when the single straight ladies man brags about his sexual conquests. We're not really different than anyone else. We just happen to like the same sex.

vainandy said:

johnart said:

But for me, personally, the issue I take with this is you'd never ask someone "Is it important that you discuss your Black, Latino, Asian...and so on heritage/culture/etc with everyone? Sexual identity (not habits or what specifically one might be "into", but identity is as much a part of us as our skin color, family roots, etc.

And i know the question was not asked of me, but Imma stick my 2cents in there anyway... yes it is most definitely important for me to discuss things about myself in an open and honest manner.

Exactly. What people don't realize is, when we talk about our homosexuality, we aren't talking about a particular "topic of the day" and won't get off that particular topic and move on to another topic. It's not a "topic" with us. We are talking about our everyday lives and who we are. Just like when a co-worker talks about their wife and kids or even when the single straight ladies man brags about his sexual conquests. We're not really different than anyone else. We just happen to like the same sex.

For the straight folk, imagine if everytime you mentioned your wife/husband/bf/gf, held their hand in public, they gave you a pec on the cheek (I'm not talkin full on makeout tho folk do that shit too) there was folk there bitchin about "Why do you have to flaunt your sexuality in my face?" That is some dumb bullshit that NEEDS TO STOP because it sucks and it's ignorant and unintelligent behavior.

I don't have to edit my life to suit everyone else just so that I can participate in normal conversation.

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johnart said:

vainandy said:

Exactly. What people don't realize is, when we talk about our homosexuality, we aren't talking about a particular "topic of the day" and won't get off that particular topic and move on to another topic. It's not a "topic" with us. We are talking about our everyday lives and who we are. Just like when a co-worker talks about their wife and kids or even when the single straight ladies man brags about his sexual conquests. We're not really different than anyone else. We just happen to like the same sex.

For the straight folk, imagine if everytime you mentioned your wife/husband/bf/gf, held their hand in public, they gave you a pec on the cheek (I'm not talkin full on makeout tho folk do that shit too) there was folk there bitchin about "Why do you have to flaunt your sexuality in my face?" That is some dumb bullshit that NEEDS TO STOP because it sucks and it's ignorant and unintelligent behavior.

I don't have to edit my life to suit everyone else just so that I can participate in normal conversation.

[Edited 10/22/10 12:09pm]

They also have a picture of their spouse and children on the desk or on the walls of their office. Imagine if they were told to take the pictures down. They would be furious. Their sexuality is flaunted in every way but yet we're supposed to hide ours.

vainandy said:

johnart said:

For the straight folk, imagine if everytime you mentioned your wife/husband/bf/gf, held their hand in public, they gave you a pec on the cheek (I'm not talkin full on makeout tho folk do that shit too) there was folk there bitchin about "Why do you have to flaunt your sexuality in my face?" That is some dumb bullshit that NEEDS TO STOP because it sucks and it's ignorant and unintelligent behavior.

I don't have to edit my life to suit everyone else just so that I can participate in normal conversation.

[Edited 10/22/10 12:09pm]

They also have a picture of their spouse and children on the desk or on the walls of their office. Imagine if they were told to take the pictures down. They would be furious. Their sexuality is flaunted in every way but yet we're supposed to hide ours.

I know it seems so dumb, but for that very reason,more than a rainbow sticker or an equality sign, all I wanted was this on our van.

[img:$uid]http://i68.photobucket.com/albums/i9/jgascot/personal/aamagnet-1.jpg[/img:$uid]

johnart said:

vainandy said:

They also have a picture of their spouse and children on the desk or on the walls of their office. Imagine if they were told to take the pictures down. They would be furious. Their sexuality is flaunted in every way but yet we're supposed to hide ours.

I know it seems so dumb, but for that very reason,more than a rainbow sticker or an equality sign, all I wanted was this on our van.

[img:$uid]http://i68.photobucket.com/albums/i9/jgascot/personal/aamagnet-1.jpg[/img:$uid]

And I can just picture you driving it wearing that damn Snuggie.

vainandy said:

johnart said:

I know it seems so dumb, but for that very reason,more than a rainbow sticker or an equality sign, all I wanted was this on our van.

[img:$uid]http://i68.photobucket.com/albums/i9/jgascot/personal/aamagnet-1.jpg[/img:$uid]

And I can just picture you driving it wearing that damn Snuggie.

That's right bitch. With the kids (dogs) in the back. I'm normal as the next soccer mom.

johnart said:

vainandy said:

And I can just picture you driving it wearing that damn Snuggie.

That's right bitch. With the kids (dogs) in the back. I'm normal as the next soccer mom.

With a Shitney Houston CD playing "Didn't We Almost Have It All" in the car.

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vainandy said:

johnart said:

For the straight folk, imagine if everytime you mentioned your wife/husband/bf/gf, held their hand in public, they gave you a pec on the cheek (I'm not talkin full on makeout tho folk do that shit too) there was folk there bitchin about "Why do you have to flaunt your sexuality in my face?" That is some dumb bullshit that NEEDS TO STOP because it sucks and it's ignorant and unintelligent behavior.

I don't have to edit my life to suit everyone else just so that I can participate in normal conversation.

[Edited 10/22/10 12:09pm]

They also have a picture of their spouse and children on the desk or on the walls of their office. Imagine if they were told to take the pictures down. They would be furious. Their sexuality is flaunted in every way but yet we're supposed to hide ours.

Amen, and amen!

vainandy said:

johnart said:

That's right bitch. With the kids (dogs) in the back. I'm normal as the next soccer mom.

With a Shitney Houston CD playing "Didn't We Almost Have It All" in the car.

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Sangin along at top of my lungs throught the McD's drive thru.

vainandy said:

johnart said:

That's right bitch. With the kids (dogs) in the back. I'm normal as the next soccer mom.

With a Shitney Houston CD playing "Didn't We Almost Have It All" in the car.

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Y'all crazy as hell

johnart said:

vainandy said:

With a Shitney Houston CD playing "Didn't We Almost Have It All" in the car.

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Sangin along at top of my lungs throught the McD's drive thru.

And I'd be across the street at the Dairy Queen drive thru with my pig in my Cadillac buying him a frozen blizzard like the bitch on "Designing Women".

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sosgemini said:

phunkdaddy said:

Actually you are. Maybe discussing Tyler's sexuality makes you feel

better about yourself.

I've actually given an academic lecture on the subject of homosexuality within the African American community and the role that black media plays in perpetuating homophobia within the black community and how that has created a toxic environment that increases HIV and AIDS rats within our black community. I think I am being civil and respectful of other's opinions during my conversations and within this thread. If you can't deal with an adult discussion then why don't you go post on the uptenth dildo thread or something. Cause I'm challenging thought and not forcing my opinion on you or anyone else.

I swear man....seriously.

That's the problem. You actually believe you come off intellectual but you really come off

as stupid. I challenged you on something and you can't deal yet you accuse others of

being on a witch hunt to prove a point and you're doing the same exact thing only worse.

It's not even that serious man. Let's agree to disagree. Moving on.

vainandy said:

We're not all into Judy Garland and showtunes.

johnart said:

For the straight folk, imagine if everytime you mentioned your wife/husband/bf/gf, held their hand in public, they gave you a pec on the cheek (I'm not talkin full on makeout tho folk do that shit too) there was folk there bitchin about "Why do you have to flaunt your sexuality in my face?" That is some dumb bullshit that NEEDS TO STOP because it sucks and it's ignorant and unintelligent behavior.