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What does a woman really WANT from a man?
what does she actually NEED him for?
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$ and kids
and don't get me started with the "I want to grow old with somebody" bullshit because that's what the kids are for, so...
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well, if she wants children.... "For what it's worth, you're somewhere here on Earth..." | |
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you don't REALLY need a man for either these days!
ha! kids hate you as soon as they turn 11, so there's THAT argument!!! | |
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then, a man is truly useless for a woman these days! is the "I don't want to grow old alone" that important?? | |
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This woman wants regular hot sex and some companionship without it becoming smothering.
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I don't know, I spent most of my time alone already
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to open up jars and fix cars
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I'll throw some things out there, and these are all to do with esteem and ego: (none of these things are gender specific by the way - nothing only a man could provide)
a woman wants a man:
so she can fit in, conform, be accepted by today's societal norms (ie. singledom = traditionally a sign of "something wrong" - although that is changing and becoming a norm of its own)
she wants positive affirmation and attention through the desire a man shows for her. That being attractive is important, is something drummed into women from childhood. Obtaining and keeping a man is evidence she is attractive. Not just to herself but to her peers.
a man chose HER over other women, that makes her SPECIAL
I'll think of more
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I like my man as a friend
I like his company, his laughs, his fun, the chemistry, that we CLICK and "get" each other | |
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a woman needs a man for his penis and sperm
however some women have penis addictions that make them go crazy and marry the penis
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I don't think I'm hetero enough for penis to even factor into my equation | |
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a womans defenses are down when the penis is inside her
her emotions are turned up side down | |
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me either .... im such a prude in real life | |
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Y'know, I actually like men. Prince, in you I found a kindred spirit...Rest In Paradise. | |
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list the reasons! | |
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What? | |
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Ever heard of artificial insemination? And she don't need a man for money either...a true self-sufficient woman doesn't anyways.
Personally, I want a mate in life because I need someone who understands me, and have genuine fondness and/or love for me. That's I think why women need men (or in some cases other women). People need to feel loved...and secure in that love.
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Most women actually want a man to tell what she can and more importantly can not do. They want freedom and affection, but definitely also to be told when they're out of line. Kinda like dogs. | |
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I'd argue that is true. MOST people are happiest when existing within set boundaries - it feels VERY secure. Dogs love nothing more to be sure they are doing the right thing
From my experience men love that too and I can provide the boundaries | |
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Sex and money. Oh and love. Definitely love. | |
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Bullshit. Most men can't fuck and have lousy jobs. | |
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I once saw bullshit. It was full of giant black maggots. Truly disturbing. | |
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Going to bed now, it's been a long day.
Tomorrow...I promise! Prince, in you I found a kindred spirit...Rest In Paradise. | |
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to be honest
to be reliable, responsible
to reach stuff on the high shelf
and to kill all bugs (except ladybugs and lightning bugs [and bees; we need bees]) - and rodents Hag. Muse. Web Goddess. Taurean. Tree Hugger. Poet. Professional Nerd. Geek.
"Resistance is futile." "All shall love me and despair!" | |
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Just someone to not fuck her over.... | |
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add mature to that and I'll be in love | |
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I don't want money from my man and neither of us are feelin' for kids your your assertation is wrong.
...and actually, you don't grow old with your kids. You essentially only have them until college, then they go off into the world to make their own life, their own way. Your husband or wife is the one that gives you your meds, takes joyrides with you, or helps you in the garden in your sunset years: case in point, my 80 year old father and my mother, whom he's been married to for almost 46 years and 30+ of those years she worked her ass off and made her own money (enough tosingle handedly pay for university, while dad assumed the responsibilty to get me through prep school the years before)...so..yeah, I really don't know where you came up with what you wrote | |
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Girl in theory. I know too many family, friends, and acquaintances have grown ass children who went off to school and came back home!
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Maybe they just don't want to go to family and high school reunions alone? | |
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