If someone proposed to you and you refused, do they have the right to cut you, fix you, eat you alive???

My family is pissed im still interested in a black guy, and im black my damn self, our children are black for cryin out loud....

They want me to marry some dude thats been in love with me for years and I detest him with a purple passion. First of all im afraid of him cause number one, he has a girlfriend, number two, he follows me around constantly. I have never given him anything besides nothing!!! He's always trying to give me something. 2nd hand flowers, used cards, candy thats so old the wrappers are always stuck to them.....

I think hes just trying to fuck with me cause he senses i get annoyed when hes around. Why wont my family honor my own personal wishes??!!! I'm frikkin 40 sum odd years old and I just dont think I deserve some mole in a bar!!! NOR do i need to marry him!!! ugh. I dont understand what he says half the time and after being single for some 30 plus years, i just dont want to be bothered!!!!!

All I did was help old dude get a job and he hasnt let up on me since! Im battling pancreatic cancer with steriods right now and i dont need the aggravation! I dont!

My boyfriend wont even come to see me cause the dude is always trying to intimidate him into leaving.....thats just unneccesary!

He constanly whines and complains about what i didnt feed him, what i didnt do for him, how i didnt see him, but he will lie to his girlfriend and say he doesnt know me all the while asking me the best places to go!!

Im at my wits!

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At the age you're at and the health issues you're going through. I'd say take your distance from this dude and do what you want to do. It's not even worth it. It's your life at the end of the day. Yeah, sums it up.

You're not just battling crazy high blood pressure but cancer too? Wow. You really need to take your frustration down a notch (or ten...) and focus on your recovery. It's really too bad that your family doesn't seem to realize that. Maybe you need your doctor to have a serious talk with them? And you should probably take it slow with the guy you're interested in too, for now. Your life needs one big chill pill.

I hope i dont sound like a total ass....i feel like i aint no bad chick.... i know how be nice, kind and try to treat people decent, i guess its that one thorn....smh.

I'm kind of stuck on and have an issue with your boyfriend not coming to see you because he's intimidated by the other dude.

Regardless of any of it, your health comes first.

Efan said:

Efan said:

myfavorite said:

If someone proposed to you and you refused, do they have the right to cut you, fix you, eat you alive???

My family is pissed im still interested in a black guy, and im black my damn self, our children are black for cryin out loud....

They want me to marry some dude thats been in love with me for years and I detest him with a purple passion. First of all im afraid of him cause number one, he has a girlfriend, number two, he follows me around constantly. I have never given him anything besides nothing!!! He's always trying to give me something. 2nd hand flowers, used cards, candy thats so old the wrappers are always stuck to them.....

Im at my wits!

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Yeah....how could any chick resist a dude like that.

the red part reminds me of that Billy Preston song.

DesireeNevermind said:

myfavorite said:

If someone proposed to you and you refused, do they have the right to cut you, fix you, eat you alive???

My family is pissed im still interested in a black guy, and im black my damn self, our children are black for cryin out loud....

They want me to marry some dude thats been in love with me for years and I detest him with a purple passion. First of all im afraid of him cause number one, he has a girlfriend, number two, he follows me around constantly. I have never given him anything besides nothing!!! He's always trying to give me something. 2nd hand flowers, used cards, candy thats so old the wrappers are always stuck to them.....

Im at my wits!

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[Edited 10/18/10 0:44am]

Yeah....how could any chick resist a dude like that.

the red part reminds me of that Billy Preston song.

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now you know you cant be my man if your claim to fame is saying how much i do for ya....bitch azz ho ass mufukka....

* unsticking john.....i hope to be on my own.

NMuzakNSoul said:

DesireeNevermind said:

Yeah....how could any chick resist a dude like that.

the red part reminds me of that Billy Preston song.

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DesireeNevermind said:

NMuzakNSoul said:

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love that song. and sorry to hijack yo thread myfavorite. lmao. but lets party.

...its going down!!! :yay! .....

MFV you need to cook up some grits....

keep ya shyt together bitches....

I turn my head for a minute and the thread title done changed.

Picture please.

whassa MFV??

myfavorite said:

whassa MFV??

abbreviation of your org name. I could have said MYF but that sounds wrong.

you landed the plane......smh..my dumb azz...