Pretty good list. I really agree with #7 the thinking we are psychic shit. That drives me nuts. I think it's funny the women don't agree with this list. Whether they are willing to admit it or not they do this shit. Maybe not every one of them, but the vast majority.

weused2luvhim said:

Pretty good list. I really agree with #7 the thinking we are psychic shit. That drives me nuts. I think it's funny the women don't agree with this list. Whether they are willing to admit it or not they do this shit. Maybe not every one of them, but the vast majority.

And I guess you personally know the vast majority of women?

I believe part of the problem is some men expect a woman to be perfect and are too damn lazy to seek out what they are truly looking for so they settle or some of them just like to bitch.

Vendetta1 said:

weused2luvhim said:

Pretty good list. I really agree with #7 the thinking we are psychic shit. That drives me nuts. I think it's funny the women don't agree with this list. Whether they are willing to admit it or not they do this shit. Maybe not every one of them, but the vast majority.

And I guess you personally know the vast majority of women?

I believe part of the problem is some men expect a woman to be perfect and are too damn lazy to seek out what they are truly looking for so they settle or some of them just like to bitch.

Ok what are you basing your opinions on? I'm gonna guess your experiences. That's what I'm basing mine on. I don't know you personally, you may be the perfect woman, I doubt it, but maybe. I did like your opinion on sucking dick.

weused2luvhim said:

Vendetta1 said:

And I guess you personally know the vast majority of women?

I believe part of the problem is some men expect a woman to be perfect and are too damn lazy to seek out what they are truly looking for so they settle or some of them just like to bitch.

Ok what are you basing your opinions on? I'm gonna guess your experiences. That's what I'm basing mine on. I don't know you personally, you may be the perfect woman, I doubt it, but maybe. I did like your opinion on sucking dick.

Sucking dick is an art.

I have no problem with your opinion but when you leave words out, I have to think you are painting us with broad strokes. Had you said "the vast majority of women I know", I'd been perfectly okay with that.

Vendetta1 said:

weused2luvhim said:

Ok what are you basing your opinions on? I'm gonna guess your experiences. That's what I'm basing mine on. I don't know you personally, you may be the perfect woman, I doubt it, but maybe. I did like your opinion on sucking dick.

Sucking dick is an art.

I have no problem with your opinion but when you leave words out, I have to think you are painting us with broad strokes. Had you said "the vast majority of women I know", I'd been perfectly okay with that.

Are you the Rembrandt of sucking cock? Licking that clit can also be an art form if done properly.

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uPtoWnNY said:

I appreciate women who understand that we don't have to do everything together. Men like certain things, women like certain things. I'm not interested in watching chick flicks, shopping or going to her friends' weddings. And I don't expect her to watch sporting events with me. Long as we don't get in each other's way, everything's cool.

I'm with you on the chick flicks and the shopping. And all sorts of things - I went to a wine tasting and vinyard tour with one of my gay besties instead of bringing the boyfriend yesterday and he thought that was awesome.

Weddings are familay affairs and are different, though. You bring the significant people in your life. Boyfriends/spouses/partners are required. I'll show up when you need me to also, so get over it.

weused2luvhim said:

Vendetta1 said:

Sucking dick is an art.

I have no problem with your opinion but when you leave words out, I have to think you are painting us with broad strokes. Had you said "the vast majority of women I know", I'd been perfectly okay with that.

Are you the Rembrandt of sucking cock? Licking that clit can also be an art form if done properly.

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I'd like to think I'm the Picasso. I have some abstract techniques.

Vendetta1 said:

weused2luvhim said:

Are you the Rembrandt of sucking cock? Licking that clit can also be an art form if done properly.

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I'd like to think I'm the Picasso. I have some abstract techniques.

weused2luvhim said:

Vendetta1 said:

I'd like to think I'm the Picasso. I have some abstract techniques.

Vendetta1 said:

BklynBabe said:

JustErin said:

All I have to say about these kinds of lists is, 'you are what you attract'.

Meaning, if you're only attracting the same type of partner over and over again, I'm thinking your real problem just might be you.

Exactly. If you have the same problems, no matter who you're with - you need to ask, "What's the common denominator?"

Oh - and to make it easier on yourself, ask it in front of a mirror.

Hershe said:

Vendetta1 said:

Isn't he married?...

She can talk to my wife.

weused2luvhim said:

Genesia said:

purplemansionFL said:

3. Talking about past boyfriends/husbands/lovers/flings/first crush. Any of that, and definitely Neva eva eva eva eva eva go into any details about encounters with these dudes. No matter how funny the story may be. TMI.

Actually, this point seems nonsensical to me on second thought. If you're in a relationship with someone wouldn't you want to know about their past anyway? It would be pretty odd to especially live together if you didn't know how the other person has lived her life before meeting you. I think that if you're really capable of being in a relationship with someone, you should also be able to accept that the other person has a past too.

For that matter, speaking about your first crush is usually just an anecdotal thing. Nobody should take that too seriously.

Why do women think that they deserve all of the power?

minneapolisFunq said:

novabrkr said:

purplemansionFL said:

3. Talking about past boyfriends/husbands/lovers/flings/first crush. Any of that, and definitely Neva eva eva eva eva eva go into any details about encounters with these dudes. No matter how funny the story may be. TMI.

Actually, this point seems nonsensical to me on second thought. If you're in a relationship with someone wouldn't you want to know about their past anyway? It would be pretty odd to especially live together if you didn't know how the other person has lived her life before meeting you. I think that if you're really capable of being in a relationship with someone, you should also be able to accept that the other person has a past too.

For that matter, speaking about your first crush is usually just an anecdotal thing. Nobody should take that too seriously.

Yeah, I didn't get that one at all either. There's a lot of important information there that can be shared if you're both comfortable with it. And if they don't want to hear all the gory details, they can just tell you to stop.

minneapolisFunq said:

Why do women think that they deserve all of the power?

What are you talking about?

A couple more things I can/should add:

"Does this (article of clothing) make me look fat?" - Stop asking us this shit! I'm tempted to just say, "yep, like a friggin' whale."

"If you could sleep with one of my friends/family members, who would it be?" - No matter how innocently you may bring up this question, you're trying to create drama for nothing. While some guys are complete manwhores and will fuck nearly anyone with a pussy attached, most of us are with you because we want to be with you and nobody else. Otherwise we would have left you already. If my woman asked me that, I'd be tempted to tell her that I'd have a three-way with her sister and her best friend while she watched.

Vendetta1 said:

I've met ONE man in my life who gave a damn about whether I came or not. I can suck dick for 50 hours but asking for cunnilingus is being demanding OR it results in his doing it so bad that I ask him to stop.

As for going down and eating pussy , do guys object because they think you're asking them to eat vomit or is it because they try to please you but are clueless about a woman's anatomy? If it's the latter, then at least they're trying to be a good man. They just need some guidance. Some women are more than willing and eager to do this, but I know some women think their men should know how to get them off when they aren't even sure how to get themselves off. While this should probably be taught in school, you have too many wacko "Christian" groups who try to stop this from being taught because it's supposedly an abomination against God.

JustErin said:

All I have to say about these kinds of lists is, 'you are what you attract'.

Meaning, if you're only attracting the same type of partner over and over again, I'm thinking your real problem just might be you.

Thank you. Far too many people jump in and out of relationships without ever dealing with the reasons why the last one didn't work in the first place. I've seen ladies dump guys who treated them like shit only to hook up with another guy who acts the same way the last guy did. Or in the case of some men, they're on their fourth wife, and they don't understand why their wife is being shady. Then we find out that he first met his wife at the strip club when she was twirling the pole and he was the patron, and that his previous three wives were also strippers.

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and once again, I'd like to add that these problems seem to me problems very young or immature people seem to experience. Also that it sounds like stuff they are likely to run into in the first few weeks/months of a relationship.

ZombieKitten said:

and once again, I'd like to add that these problems seem to me problems very young or immature people seem to experience. Also that it sounds like stuff they are likely to run into in the first few weeks/months of a relationship.

I read the links you posted and I saw quite a few issues that I've had with men listed in the links you posted but its cool. I think it just boils down to communication. People really need to open up and say what they want and don't want on both ends and not expect to change a person. Do your thing and allow the other to do their thing.

To answer the ?:

1) A gag reflex.

heybaby said:

ZombieKitten said:

and once again, I'd like to add that these problems seem to me problems very young or immature people seem to experience. Also that it sounds like stuff they are likely to run into in the first few weeks/months of a relationship.

I read the links you posted and I saw quite a few issues that I've had with men listed in the links you posted but its cool. I think it just boils down to communication. People really need to open up and say what they want and don't want on both ends and not expect to change a person. Do your thing and allow the other to do their thing.

and also not to come into a relationship with assumptions and prejudices about men/women

like latin men are mamas boys (usually they are ) but sometimes, just sometimes they marry someone who is exactly the opposite of their mum because they have had ENOUGH

2)Wear granny panties

kewlschool said:

2)Wear granny panties

and mom jeans