Huggiebear said:

Age ain't nothing but a number. I am in an extreme relationship, I am only 34 yet my male partner is nearly 70. He was born April 1 1941 and I was born April 30 1976, and yet its not a barrier, he looks very good for his age, has excellent health and can still work a 60 hour week. If anything he makes me look old and tired.

"extreme relationship"

ZombieKitten said:

Lisa10 said:

I love that word.

me too!

Me threeeeee.

Slutty is my fave adjective.

novabrkr said:

When you're not comfortable being with that person in the public.

I meant that's crossing the line. I'm sure y'all got it though.

I'm also speaking from experience.

Ottensen said:

Hey there, Sarah, welcome back. How's school?

Hmm, let's see: now that I'm older and have certain life experiences under my belt, I don't think I'd like to be with anyone more than a few years younger than me. If a person is older than me, I can do about 6 years older. I like it when we're somewhere within the same generation so we can share views from the same vantage point. Put it this way; I'm almost 40, an original generation X-er, and while I don't watch MTV now, I like being around people who remember when Tabitha Soren and Downtown Julie Brown were on there

Hello yourself! Thanks for the welcome. College is hard to say the least.. just trying to take it one day at a time...

thanks for all the input everyone!

Evvy said:

Huggiebear said:

Age ain't nothing but a number. I am in an extreme relationship, I am only 34 yet my male partner is nearly 70. He was born April 1 1941 and I was born April 30 1976, and yet its not a barrier, he looks very good for his age, has excellent health and can still work a 60 hour week. If anything he makes me look old and tired.

"extreme relationship"

Well wouldn't you consider a 35 year age gap extreme? Thats almost at the level of 18 year old girls and 87 year old guys. The fact I am at least in my 30s does equalise it a bit I guess

8 to 80, dumb, crippled, and crazy!

let's talk about financial differences.

do you have fat pockets like Jay Z?

ain't nothing going on but the rent...

Huggiebear said:

Evvy said:

"extreme relationship"

Well wouldn't you consider a 35 year age gap extreme? Thats almost at the level of 18 year old girls and 87 year old guys. The fact I am at least in my 30s does equalise it a bit I guess

I think it's ridiculous....

NMuzakNSoul said:

paintedlady said:

I'm 39... he's 51, he says he's a year younger... his online info says otherwise.

We agree on most things so its nice.

sorry auntie but sounds funny.

I know right?? Like ONE year makes a difference. I like his body though... he's ideal for me physically.

paintedlady said:

NMuzakNSoul said:

sorry auntie but sounds funny.

I know right?? Like ONE year makes a difference. I like his body though... he's ideal for me physically.

yeah he's still an old ass chump (sorry prance) LOL I kidddddd.

NMuzakNSoul said:

paintedlady said:

I know right?? Like ONE year makes a difference. I like his body though... he's ideal for me physically.

yeah he's still an old ass chump (sorry prance) LOL I kidddddd.

I don't even mind the grays.... though he colors them, as if I can't tell!

DesireeNevermind said:

^ Sarah that 40 year old man is just using you! j/k

Yeah, and he's a dirty old man, too!

I'd rather date an older guy than one much younger than me. I suppose if he is more than 20 years older, I might be a little hesitant...then again, my best girlfriend's dad is 47 and I'd gladly get sweaty with him in a hot second

How would you feel if an older lover dyed their pubes/body hair?

paintedlady said:

How would you feel if an older lover dyed their pubes/body hair?

i'd dye with her and make a rainbow. weeee.

NMuzakNSoul said:

paintedlady said:

How would you feel if an older lover dyed their pubes/body hair?

i'd dye with her and make a rainbow. weeee.

raindow toe knuckle hair....

paintedlady said:

How would you feel if an older lover dyed their pubes/body hair?

I guess it wouldn't bother me.

JustErin said:

paintedlady said:

How would you feel if an older lover dyed their pubes/body hair?

I guess it wouldn't bother me.

It didn't bother me but I did feel like asking him "Why?" but I stopped since I didn't want him to feel bad.

The 1st time we were together I think he noticed my expression of shock. I'm over it now... I don't think he is.

Evvy said:

Huggiebear said:

Well wouldn't you consider a 35 year age gap extreme? Thats almost at the level of 18 year old girls and 87 year old guys. The fact I am at least in my 30s does equalise it a bit I guess

I think it's ridiculous....

I doubt Huggiebear gives a shit what you think.

I'm 29 and my wife's 31. If I were single and looking around I think I'd err on the side of dating older women. Say a range of 28-38, but I wouldn't rule out somebody outside of that if we had a good connection.

paintedlady said:

JustErin said:

I guess it wouldn't bother me.

It didn't bother me but I did feel like asking him "Why?" but I stopped since I didn't want him to feel bad.

The 1st time we were together I think he noticed my expression of shock. I'm over it now... I don't think he is.

what color?

KidaDynamite said:

paintedlady said:

It didn't bother me but I did feel like asking him "Why?" but I stopped since I didn't want him to feel bad.

The 1st time we were together I think he noticed my expression of shock. I'm over it now... I don't think he is.

what color?

The pubes went from gray to black in the triangle

paintedlady said:

KidaDynamite said:

what color?

The pubes went from gray to black in the triangle

Oh. that's not too bad. For some reason I kept picturing amber with a orange twist colored pubes.

KidaDynamite said:

paintedlady said:

The pubes went from gray to black in the triangle

Oh. that's not too bad. For some reason I kept picturing amber with a orange twist colored pubes.

I actually wish he wouldn't.. I think he's sexy so he doesn't need to do all that.

Fauxie said:

I'm 29 and my wife's 31. If I were single and looking around I think I'd err on the side of dating older women. Say a range of 28-38, but I wouldn't rule out somebody outside of that if we had a good connection.

so you'd date a 70 year old..... right....

paintedlady said:

KidaDynamite said:

Oh. that's not too bad. For some reason I kept picturing amber with a orange twist colored pubes.

I actually wish he wouldn't.. I think he's sexy so he doesn't need to do all that.

Well, what I meant was...after imagining orange pubes the black didn't sound so bad but I feel where you are coming from.

KidaDynamite said:

paintedlady said:

I actually wish he wouldn't.. I think he's sexy so he doesn't need to do all that.

Well, what I meant was...after imagining orange pubes the black didn't sound so bad but I feel where you are coming from.

gray roots

DesireeNevermind said:

a 25 year old may think her 35 year old boyfriend is bomb but once she's 30 and he's 45 - he just becomes the old dude she feels stuck with.

She should've thought of that before she started dating someone that ages faster than her.

FauxReal said:

DesireeNevermind said:

a 25 year old may think her 35 year old boyfriend is bomb but once she's 30 and he's 45 - he just becomes the old dude she feels stuck with.

She should've thought of that before she started dating someone that ages faster than her.

Dang, why are y'all trying to ruin my dreams?!

my wife is 10 years younger than me.. s'all good

[Edited 10/19/10 23:00pm]

FauxReal said:

DesireeNevermind said:

a 25 year old may think her 35 year old boyfriend is bomb but once she's 30 and he's 45 - he just becomes the old dude she feels stuck with.

She should've thought of that before she started dating someone that ages faster than her.

I guess it`s kind of like dog years.